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whats sup im kierra. i luv to give my advice to people becuase im good at it. i will try and answer ever ones questions as they are giving or asked. now some question i cant answer becuase the answer us always in yall face but hey some people cant see. i aint mean but i will tell it like it is so dont ask a question if you know you anit goin to like the answer holla!!!!!!!!!!!!
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My bf never shuts up about his penis. His jokes center around that. He constantly tells everyone it's big. I'm sick of hearing it. I don't know why he does that so much. Is he insecure or just dirty minded 24/7? Are most guys this way?
i think this is his way of telling you he want to do a little something something or he could be alittle insecure about it. if you dont laugh at the jokes he might notic that he aint funny and maybe he needs to stop. braging means that your lacking somthing and dont want anybody to know. i think you should tell him this is getting on your last nerve who knows he might say okay i will shut up about it. just try and tell him.
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is it possible for me to increase my jumps and learn how to do my splits in 2 weeks????
yes it is. i learned how to do a split in about 4 days. you have to pop your legs first. an for jumps try jumping on your bed and doing the jumps. later in a few days try doign it on the floor and trust your highness will get better
I'll start with the basics, 18 year old female with boyfriend. 2 nights ago my friend Eddy texted me. He was asking me for pictures of myself and i told him no because i have a boyfriend. he said he respected that. well, eddy knows that my boyfriend likes me more than i like him. it said that somewhere in the text messages. Well, last night i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone while a friend and i used the restroom. I assumed he wouldn't go through my phone just because i thought he trusted me. well i guess not because he went through it. he doesn't know that i found out he did this but the person with him told my friend, who told me. My question is, should i confront him about this? I have nothing to hide because i didn't send eddy pictures.
i think you should confront him. he should never have looked through your phone. but you do have to think about how he must be feeling. i know if he loves you the way you said then he might be a little hurt by this. dont go all crazy when you ask him about it. speak calmly and analize the problem before you say things you dont want to say.
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is it common to get a classic (or unique) mom tattoo while your mother is still alive? thanks a bunch y'all
yeah even if she is not alive you can do this.
ok, i have been going out with this guy for... seven months now, we LOVE each other, well i do, he says he does too... and i want to trust him SO bad, the problem is, my friends say he has been cheating from the beginning, and he keeps denying it, and so now i don't know what to do, and who to trust! my friends, who are sooo close to me and the guy i promised to always trust!! i have never been there when he cheats, and there is no proof, but the only proof i have is that my friend (close friend) is there when it happens, and he close and trustable friends are there when she isnt, so there always is someone there to notice him cheating. i have heard these cheats four times altogether, and so now im beginning to question him and our trust, he keeps denying it, i ahve been confronting him about these cheats and he keeps denying, saying it isnt true and i should be trusting him and not stroies. i am on the verge of breaking up with him, but i dont want to because we have become so close and i love him now.
please, i need help... i have spent my whole day crying over this... and whenever i hear stories of him cheating, i keep crying! what do i do?!?!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!
thank you so much.
i know they might be close friends but that dosent mean they dont lie to you to. do believe what you hear believe what you see with your own two eyes. give him a chance. if he is cheating it will come to the light. you might think your the one who will end up getting hurt but trust me it will be him becuase he knows what he did wrong and he knows he lost something good. if you want to catch him in the act do a little snooping. i know some gf's dont like to be all up in thier mans bizz but hey you gotta do what you gotta do. get the proff before you break up with him.
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Greetings everyone. My girlfriend (25) Just found out that her father is cheating on her all faithful mother. her parents in the late 40s. Her father is usually out of the country, but comes around like every other month, for a few days. His mistress is in the same town as his family, though, making it more painful. She's not in the other country, that is. Now, my girlfriend is so heartbroken and depressed. What is the best thing she can do. They are a black family.
what she can do is stop crying. she needs to tell her mom in the best way she can. i know this might break up the family but she needs to know. it is pretty bold of him to have a misstress in the same town as his wife and kids an he deserves what he is going to get. if he has a misstress thier i know he has one where he is. but tell her to be strong and tell her mom what is going on she dose need to know this.
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ive only had sex once.
and i know this is not something to brag about, but if i wanted, i could be a slut. meaning i could be having sex with a lot of guys.
but the thing is, everytime im alone with one, i get too nervious and i never go pass kissing.
im old enough to be having sex btw. im 19 years old.
i dont want to be a whore, but i do want to ahve some fun with these guys, but i dont know how to come out of my shell.
what can i do?
you have to trust who you are with and stop acting "shy". now a slut is having sex with a guy you only known for 2 or 3 months. make sure the guy you do this with is the one for that moment. make sure you know his name, age, where he stay ect. the most important thing is to make sure you known him more then a few months. you never know a person untill u give it up to them remember that.
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what does it mean when he says he still loves me but doesnt know what to do??
15/f
he is cunfused right now. im thinking thier is someone else. he loves you but at the same time want to get to know the other girl. you might want to check into a few things and ask him why he said this
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My husband and I have been together for 9 yrs. Like every relationship we've had our ups and downs mostly downs but I love him[I must love him if it hurts this much to be without him] you see he just asked me for a break I felt my world crashing down the day of our seperation I still feel horrible and don't know how to deal with it.
I'm a female and 24 my husband is 34
sweetie he just asked you for a break its not like he wants to break up with you. but a break dose mean you two can talk to new people for a while. i suggest that you go out and meet some new people this will keep your mind off of him for a while. i know its hurting you becuase you two been togather for so long but you will learn to deal if you occupie {excuse my spelling} your time. and you will get to experience being with someone new which can be life changing if you get what i am saying.
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16/female..but will turn 17 in july...okay so i met this guy on the bus who asked for my # i was ignoring his calls and then eventually started conversating with him. we've know each other for about 2 months now almost three and i really like him..his 19 an says that hes not like other guys..but yea i noe that's what they all say..he gets mad over little things but i can handle that. He has been pressuring me to give IT up to him but im not ready..i given him a hand job and hes fingered me..it was GREAT.. but i dont want it to go any further. last night he stuck his thing in me n tried to break my hymn but i told him to get off cuz it hurted..sooo am i still a virgin????
no hun your not a virgin anymore. he entered you even though he did not "pop your cherry" he still was inside you. next time you do something it might not hurt as much but it will still hurt
female, 14, freshman. me and this guy are good friends, and apparently he likes me alot. i could deffinatly see myself liking him, or even going out with him too, but, (and im not trying to be shallow or anythingk!) he looks like a 6th grader or something. hes really short, shorter than me and just looks like a really little kid. so, im stuck here, and im not sure what i should do. any advice?
you should not stop liking a person becuase of thier flaws. you should still talk to him. try putting yourself in his place. how would you feel if someone said i like you but your just to short! you would not like this. who knows you might have a great relationship with this person.
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so i've been dating this guy for 5 months but 2 days before our 5 month he broke up with me saying "his feelings changed"
but know hes saying everytime he sees me smile he thinks he made the wrong choice and wants to date again just not anytime soon
i have no idea what i should about him cuz i still really like him....but i cant tell if hes playing me of not?
he is playing with you. if he wanted to be with you he would be with you and put all the games aside. he is misleading you. i think he wants to be with you but he see all these cute girls and wants to give them a try. guys are hard to understand. maybe this is his way of not cheating on you if you think about it. he wants you but dont know if he wants only you. what i would do is ask him about this and be str8 farward with him. i know you have feeling for him but he is playing with you and he knows this. i will say move on its time for you to date someone new thats the best way to get over a old bf
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ok this is kinda a weird question, but in some of the questions on here, people talked about "plan b". what is plan b?
plan b is an alternate plan if one plan dont work out.
how do i get my girlfriend back?
it all depends on what you did.what happend?
ok i'm going to start off here ...ok i loss my virginity in sep. to this really cute sweet guy.((he's my bff cousin)) and we've had sex together 3 times and out of all this time he never told me that he had a girlfriend my bff and him live together ... to make a longggggg story short he broke up with his gf like a couple of weeks ago and before that i gave him a love letter telling him how i feel about him. but anyways now since he's single he havent said any thing about the letter but i go over there almost every weekend and the tension is there im very shy around him and he know that i love him and i just wanna pounce on him sooo bad ...ok hes single now but i wanna be his girl friend badly... how do i tell him verbaly that i do ... p.s i have his number but never calls ...o yeah he called me umm monday but i was in the shower i diddnt call back help me i really love him
I can tell he is feeling you. he called you so he made some effort in trying to talk to you. i think you should have called him back when he first called though. he might be thinking that sense you did not pick up your phone he might think you are not trying to talk to him. call him back. its your turn to try and make a move. try and ask him out or go over and try and start a conversation. i know you said that it is hard for you two to talk in person but hey someone have to start it off.
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im 28 and my girlfriend is 32. she has two girls daughters one is almost 2 the other is 14. the 14 year old has a father that is not in her life. her step dad (father of the 2 year old) who she didn't like past away. she tells her mom that she cannot see me. how could I make this better? we really want to be together.
well what im thinking is her and her step-father had some real problems and she is afraid to let another guy in her life that she knows might be there for a while. you have to let her adjust to you. dont push yourself upon her. im guessing her step-dad did somethings to her mom that she saw are maybe to her and she is just not letting it out. maybe you should talk with her. i dont think though that this should stop you from being with her mom. suggest that you all go on a family dinner show her that you want to be there for her and her mom and her little sister. you have to be stronge right now she will come around.
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i like a boy and I'm skirred to ask him
what do i do?
-kayla m.
well you have to build up your confedence becuase without this you will be to scared to approch him. now take the easy approch first you dont want to seem desprate. start saying hi to him if you dont already. you have to strike of the conversation if you want to talk to him. your gonna have to draw him into you. now i dont know if you already say hi to him when u see him but you have to be more consistant. guys like girls that are more outgoing with thier own style show him you. if it were me i would go up to him and say hi and maybe ask him a question like if he knew where this are that was. and then when you two talk more just ask him his name and age. be bold with it though. dont be shy.
So im 15/f summer is coming and bathsuits love them. but im confused about where to shave. down there you know. like i have no idea where you do shave. and how so it doesnt come back all bushy.
Then another one, im so nervous that i will get into it with a guy and he will be going to finger me or whatever, and he feels the hair or sees it and like goes ew and stops and tells people or never talks to me again or nothingg. what should i do?
well the best thing for you to do is get waxed. you have to do this every six weeks around your bikni area. now all you have to do is after this wax is shave a little here and there just to make sure the hair is under control.
now the guy feeling the hiar thing. some guys actually like girls with hairy vagina's for some reason. diffrent guys like diffrent things. now you dont want to be complety shaved down there you have to have a little hair.
you should know that when you shave you sometimes get bumbs and this is normal so make sure you use shaving cream and dont just shave with water
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15/f
this might be long.
well feb. vacation i went on a royal caribbean cruise, and let me tell you, it was amazing. i went expecting it to not be as good as it was. i didn't think i would even meet anyone, but i made a bunch of friends. it was wayy too short though (only 5 nights) the first night we met a bunch of people and we hung out all rest of the week. the second to last night, me and this kid were talking more and i started liking him a bit. then the last night we were talking like all night and i ended up smoking with him, and talking some more. we all didn't want to go to sleep because it was the last night so we were all hanging out and we were like cuddling and whatever and he was compeltely blazed and didnt feel good so he kinda like passed out on my lap so i just scratched his back(it was probably a "move" but i didn't mind:])so we walked for a bit and we were holding hands and whatever, by then it was 5 AM so everyone was like we should go to bed but me and him wanted to stay out but my sister was like dude go to bed you're like dead so we had to ilke search for his room because he forgot where it was haha so my sister was just like go and pushed him towards his room(grr) so he lke stumbled his way down the hall and i really regret not "helping him to his room" or kissing him or anything. we didnt even get to say goodbye :[
we talked through facebook for a bit after we got back but not anymore. but i really miss him and i dont want to keep start conversations about nothing. who knows if he even misses me back. i don't know, he's just differant from other guys i've been with. like he was actually good to talk to and had depth to him unlike the cookie cutter guys back home. we just really connected. i don't know how to explain it, but lyrics that are like exactly how i feel are just one night by cassie (except the sex part lol) feeling this by blink 182 (the part when tom sings in the middle is SO dead on) and against all odds by phil collins is pretty exact too.
i canotttt stop thinking about him and i miss my friends/the cruise in general so muchh. i hate coming home to stress and coldness. we've discussed a reunion type thing since we're all in the northeast but who knows if that'll even happen. i just get attached to things way too easily. how can i get over this and top missing him? whattt do i do?
(sorry this was like, a novel)
well you had fun. you made some cool friends and met a great guy. i will say this you can try and easy up a little on the whole i have a connection with these peolpe type thing and let the flow take place. if it is ment for you to talk to him again then it will happen. if you want to talk to this guy talk to him tell him how you feel. the way you said everything went down i know there was a connection betweent you two. now the reuion thing this can happen. someone have to organize it first. you cant just say hey meet me here you have to plan this. there is one other thing i want you to do though and that is get back into your life. have fun with the friends you have and make new ones thats around you and closer to you. it will all work out
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hi, my best friends brother told me about a month ago that he wanted to do "stuff" with me because he thinks im pretty cute and he knows i want him to because my friend tells him the little comments i make such as i was gonna jump out of his birhtday cake and stuff like that. well i told him no because i was nervous because im a virgin but ive pretty much lived at her house for the past 5 days and now i do want him and i dont know how to approach him cuz he told me after i said no that it was a one time offer. hes 4 years older then me but i dont really care about that
well i think you should go for it. talk to him and flirt a little. he might bend to your will you know.
now lets talk about the age thing. what is your age? four years is alot. if your under 18 and he is above or if your like 14 and he is like 17 then there is still a problem. if you two do have sex and someone found out say your parents he could go to jail for satitory rape. see young girls fail to relize this even if you do say yes the age diffrents says no so you might want to check into this before you two have this sexual incounter.