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so i've been dating this guy for 5 months but 2 days before our 5 month he broke up with me saying "his feelings changed"
but know hes saying everytime he sees me smile he thinks he made the wrong choice and wants to date again just not anytime soon
i have no idea what i should about him cuz i still really like him....but i cant tell if hes playing me of not?
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Well it is difficult to tell if he is playing you or not because I really don't know him personally, but from experience it could go either way. He really could have just been scared about commitement and therefore ran from it. His feelings really could have changed and he just needed time to work things out in his head and now he realizes he really cares about you. He could still kind of like you but not really reallt like you anymore, but doesn't want any other boy to have you. Boys do that sometimes.
Truthfully this is something that you are going to have to judge yourself it is very hard to give accurate advice on something like this when you don't really know the guy. I don't want to tell you something and it not be true and you mess up your chances with a guy who really cared, but I also don't want to tell you that he isn't playing you and that end up being wrong and you get hurt.Follow your gut it knows what its talking about, don't second guess yourself. Deep down you know what you want and what is right.
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Well, it sounds like he might still like you a little bit, but only enough to use you as a backup plan if nothing better comes along. And as much as you might like him, I'm sure you don't want a boyfriend who only wants you when he feels like it. You want a guy who is so totally crazy about you that he'll do whatever it takes to keep you and won't take any chances of letting you get away.
You might think that if you tell him how you feel, he'll realize what he's lost and want you back. But unfortunately, it doesn't usually work that way. If he knows you still really like him, it will just convince him that you'll always be there waiting for him, if and when he decides he wants you. So he'll keep stringing you along, saying he might want to date you again sometime, just to keep you there in his back pocket.
I think you need to put this guy behind you and work on moving on. Focus on all the important things in your life... friends, school, family, whatever activies you're involved in. That will show him, and everyone else, that you're a confident person who knows what you're worth, and that you won't sit around waiting for someone who doesn't appreciate you for all the wonderful things you are. This will not only make you happier, it will also make you more attractive... to him, and every other guy! And who knows... maybe he WILL realize what a mistake he's made and ask you out again. And then YOU can decide whether you want him back or not!
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he is playing with you. if he wanted to be with you he would be with you and put all the games aside. he is misleading you. i think he wants to be with you but he see all these cute girls and wants to give them a try. guys are hard to understand. maybe this is his way of not cheating on you if you think about it. he wants you but dont know if he wants only you. what i would do is ask him about this and be str8 farward with him. i know you have feeling for him but he is playing with you and he knows this. i will say move on its time for you to date someone new thats the best way to get over a old bf
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Well he's being a bit misleading because one thing he's saying his feelings changed and next he's saying he made the wrong choice. A part of me is thinking hes saving you as a rebound just in case things don't work out with other people which is quite wrong and I don't think you should wait out for it. Yeah you might like him alot, but you shouldn't stand for a rebound. If he really wants to be with you he'll be with you now, not way later. You have to move on and try and find someone new. I know it's hard and everything but things happen for a reason and it's time to find the better. Hope everything works out for you.
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