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who to trust
ok, i have been going out with this guy for... seven months now, we LOVE each other, well i do, he says he does too... and i want to trust him SO bad, the problem is, my friends say he has been cheating from the beginning, and he keeps denying it, and so now i don't know what to do, and who to trust! my friends, who are sooo close to me and the guy i promised to always trust!! i have never been there when he cheats, and there is no proof, but the only proof i have is that my friend (close friend) is there when it happens, and he close and trustable friends are there when she isnt, so there always is someone there to notice him cheating. i have heard these cheats four times altogether, and so now im beginning to question him and our trust, he keeps denying it, i ahve been confronting him about these cheats and he keeps denying, saying it isnt true and i should be trusting him and not stroies. i am on the verge of breaking up with him, but i dont want to because we have become so close and i love him now.
please, i need help... i have spent my whole day crying over this... and whenever i hear stories of him cheating, i keep crying! what do i do?!?!
PLEASE HELP ME!!!
thank you so much.
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i know they might be close friends but that dosent mean they dont lie to you to. do believe what you hear believe what you see with your own two eyes. give him a chance. if he is cheating it will come to the light. you might think your the one who will end up getting hurt but trust me it will be him becuase he knows what he did wrong and he knows he lost something good. if you want to catch him in the act do a little snooping. i know some gf's dont like to be all up in thier mans bizz but hey you gotta do what you gotta do. get the proff before you break up with him.
hope i helped
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sounds to me like you already have your answer.
if you really, truly trusted him in the first place, you wouldn't believe a word about that.
and more than one person has said it to you? More than one group of people? It seems like they're telling the truth- conspiracy theories like that dont really happen (unless you're a mega-bitch, which you honestly dont come off as.)
Other than that, I'm not going to give any other opinions about the situation unless you specifically ask me to.
Good luck, really. I hope I helped. :]
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Is it possible that the people telling you about him cheating are lying so that you break up with him? Also, who do they claim he is cheating on you with? You could consider talking to him or her.
What it comes down to is who you trust more. Are your friends the type who might make up something like that if they didn't approve of who you were dating?
If you're truly not sure and really desperate, talk to him from one of these friends' screennames (with your friend there obviously) or something along those lines. Try and be a witness to the alleged "cheating" and get some solid evidence with your own eyes before you do anything drastic.
-LM
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