I'm KittKatt. No, I'm afraid it's not the chocolate bar. I apologize if you came here looking for some good old junk food. I give out advice when I've got too much time on my hands. I take no responsibility if anyone dies from advice, so don't say I didn't warn you!
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my parents got divorced a year ago and ever since my mom has always been trying to do stuff with me. My only free days of the week are wednesday and sunday..and now she wants to have dinner both those nights. I feel like everything I do with her is scheduled. What should I tell her to make it not feel like she had to make an effort to see me? (link)
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Tell her you don't like schedules and stuff like that. Tell her that you do have a very busy life, but you'll both make the effort to spend some time with each other.
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I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO? (link)
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Canada is a great country to live in, I'm talking from experience here. Try a long distance relationship with him. It might be a bit hard to get used to at first, but if you're both dedicated enough, give it a try. What's there to lose?
Edit: Live with your mom. I'm guessing you're under 16 yrs. old, and since she's the only family you have, well...do remember boyfriends come and go in life.
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hey its brownie* i have a question.. yes i wonder about stuff 2 even though i help some people in my spare time! please someone help me! GUYS.. I REALLY WANT YOUR OPINION ON THIS.. even if it is just a sentence long!! girl i want to know what you would do please! i really dont want this to go wrong because of my friends ship with this person:
Yes it it me again.. the one who liked her bestfriend that was a year younger.. well i cant stop thinking about him... when im trying to go to sleep, he is there in my mind! and this morning in church i couldnt hardly focus on what our preacher was talking about because i kept thinking about him! this isnt good.. i have decided that i am going to tell him how i feel.. but i havent talked to him in 2 days.. i have no clue where he has been, maybe that is y he has been on my mind soo much! do u think that it is wrong for girls to make the move? i asked him about this a while back, and he said that he thinks guys should make the first move... but i dont think i can wait that long.. because knowing him, he likes to be shy about his feelings and not let anyone know how he feels. i am soo scared of how he will react to what i will tell him next time i talk to him, what if he freaks out and doesnt talk to me for a while? i wont know what to do, because then i will be thinking about him even more! PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!! PLEASE!! shay*shay-you gave me some good advice last time... can you help me agian? please! i have never felt like this about a guy before.. ive always been the one guys come to and just tell me that they like me.. i dont know how to make the frist move either.. even if i did!
brownie* (link)
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It's perfectly fine for a girl to make the first move! Who says the guys get all of the fun? Oh and I know how you feel when you can stop thinking about the person. Good luck, I hope everything turns out all right.
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I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do? (link)
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Introduce yourself to him. Come on people! This isn't that hard you know. Makes me wonder why there are so many teen pregnancies when half of the people are too scared to do something as simple as this.
By the way, you sure ain't cursed.
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in my other question, yes or no?, i felt i should add the guy's gf is friends with my friend. i feel like im pulling her to my side. i just feel bad making her choose.
What should i do?
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Please post your question only once.
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There is this boy that keeps calling me. He called me 5 times in 2 days and left a message asking me out for the whole world to hear. I told one of his friends to stop calling me..gently though. His friend was a little harsh and i don't think he likes me anymore. What should I do? (link)
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If you've got caller ID don't pick up the phone. Tell the guy who keeps calling you that you don't like it and you want it to stop, politely but firmly.
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I'm not very popular at school and kids pick on me. I don't really know why they do it, it's been that way since 1st grade. I'm in 8th grade now and I'm sick of it. I don't know what I did to deserve this. They hurt me emotionally and physically, should I stand up to them?
Respond please, I'm desperate,
Hurt and confused (link)
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Stand up to them. They've got no right to treat you like that. It sucks they way others must put down others to make themselves feel good. Good luck!
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i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do??? (link)
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Start randomly talking. It's natural for humans to communicate with others of its own kind. It's weird when they don't, unless they're a hermit.
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MY BF IS MOVING OUT OF STATE AND I LUV HIM SOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH! I CANT STAND NOT BEING AROUND HIM AND I WAS GOING TO ASK HIM IF HE LUVS ME! WE TELL EACH OTHER WE LUV EACH OTHER ALL THE TIME BUT I DONT KNOW IF HE MEANS IT I AM REALLY SCARED HE IS GOING TO MEET ANOTHER GIRL! I LUV HIM AND HE SAID HE COULD STAY IF HE WANTS BUT HE WOULD HAVE TO STAY WITH HIS UNCLE. BUT HE REALLY WANTS TO GO! I DONT THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME! WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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I'm sure he still cares about you. It's just fate.
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i am really good friends with this guy. i never really thought about it, but he comes up to me one day and tells me that he likes me. now, dont get me wrong, but hes a really nice guy and i will feel really bad about saying no when he asks me out. worst of all, my neighbors are his aunt, uncle, and cousins. im basically in a loose-loose situation. what do i do?
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Be kind and tell him how you feel, but be gentle. It would be worse if you were to go out and still not like him at all.
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I am caught in a love triangle I like 2 guys that go to my school they are both my friends but I don't know what to do Who should I choose. THe person my age or the 8th grader?Plese help (link)
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How old are you? I think you should just stay friends and wait awhile until you are sure with who you want to stay a friend and who you want to go out with. Keep in mind this might also wreck your current relationship you have with both of them.
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MY BEST FRIEND IS MOVING TO NEW YORK AND I AM ACROSS THE U.S. WHAT SHOULD I DO??? (link)
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Stay in touch. The phone, snail mail, email, whatever it takes to keep in contact. Tons of people move, their life doesn't stop because of it. Be supportive of your friend, it can be scary moving to a new place. Good luck!
Oh and please, please don't type in all capitals. It gives me a bit of a headache. Not to mention it seems like you're yelling when you do that.
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I want to go out with a guy!I love him but he only wants to be friends with me what should I do! I think he likes my friend and I am really confused? (link)
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Be friends with him. Later on when you know each other a litle better he might change his mind. You can't do anything if he likes your best friend. Go with the flow, go with "just friends" for now.
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my friend is obsessed with a guy 2 years older than her. i know he's not there for her. What should i tell her? (link)
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A 2 year gap can be a lot or a little depending on how old you are. Sounds like your friend has a big crush on him. If you can't convince her to look for someone else, let her be. She'll probably lose interest eventually.
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my boi likes me alot and i like him alot but i like someone eles also and he knows what should i do? (link)
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If he knows too and doesn't really care too much, then what's your problem?
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I am in love with this boy Joey. He is in 8th grade and I am in 6th and he will be leaving for high- school soon. I don't want him to leVE BUT i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL HIM BEFORE HE LEAVES. i WANT TO HUG HIM AND TELL HIM HOW I REALLY FEEL BUT I DON'TR WANT TO BE EMBARRESED
WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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There is nothing you can really do to stop Joey from leaving for highschool. I would just let him go, since there isn't much of a point to get attached to someone who you know is going to leave really soon. Not to mention the age thing...but let's not go there.
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Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
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Why do you want to know?
I hate both of them.
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There's a boy I know, he's the one I dream of
Looks into my eyes, takes me to the clouds above
Ooh I lose control, can't seem to get enough
When I wake from dreaming, tell me is it really love?
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What does your heart say? There's your answer.
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if i went out with a boy but now i hate him cuz he is mean buti cant stop thinking about him andi want to talk abotu him what does this mean? and how can i stop it? (link)
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How old are you? You sound a bit young to be dating right now. Give it a couple of years or whenever you feel you are mature enough to handle it. Sounds like you've got a major crush on him. You can't really control your feelings about someone else, try and avoid him for a few days and see how long it takes you to forget about him.
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Okay for spacefem.com Im having a hard time finding some perfect fit photos. I shrink them and everything but they dont seem to want to fit. So my question is where are some good sites to find perfect fit photos? Pleeezzze HELP!!!! (link)
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It depends on what program you're using to shrink those pictures. Don't use MS Paint. Try a google image search if your pictures are all too big or ask someone in spacefem to resize it for you.
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