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I CANT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM
hey its brownie* i have a question.. yes i wonder about stuff 2 even though i help some people in my spare time! please someone help me! GUYS.. I REALLY WANT YOUR OPINION ON THIS.. even if it is just a sentence long!! girl i want to know what you would do please! i really dont want this to go wrong because of my friends ship with this person:
Yes it it me again.. the one who liked her bestfriend that was a year younger.. well i cant stop thinking about him... when im trying to go to sleep, he is there in my mind! and this morning in church i couldnt hardly focus on what our preacher was talking about because i kept thinking about him! this isnt good.. i have decided that i am going to tell him how i feel.. but i havent talked to him in 2 days.. i have no clue where he has been, maybe that is y he has been on my mind soo much! do u think that it is wrong for girls to make the move? i asked him about this a while back, and he said that he thinks guys should make the first move... but i dont think i can wait that long.. because knowing him, he likes to be shy about his feelings and not let anyone know how he feels. i am soo scared of how he will react to what i will tell him next time i talk to him, what if he freaks out and doesnt talk to me for a while? i wont know what to do, because then i will be thinking about him even more! PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!! PLEASE!! shay*shay-you gave me some good advice last time... can you help me agian? please! i have never felt like this about a guy before.. ive always been the one guys come to and just tell me that they like me.. i dont know how to make the frist move either.. even if i did!
brownie*
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It sounds like you are "obsessed" and that is not a good thing for you. Try to cool it a little. I know it may not help to say that, but do your best to think about other things and get a little distance from this.
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I suggest that you should send him a letter!!! And when you end it, if you are too embressed, you can put, "Secret Admiror"
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Your best bet here, is to RESPECT his feelings and let HIM make the first move. Leastwise, you risk offending him or putting him off because he already TOLD YOU that he thinks THE MAN should make the first move. You also risk hurting your own feelings, because if he feels that way and yet he HASN'T made a move on you, chances are that he doesn't have romantic feelings for you.
He's already your best friend, so if there ever is to be anything between you, you're already in the best position possible to allow this happen. I wouldn't risk losing that simply because I'm having trouble controlling my own wants and desires. If you TRULY care for him that much, AND you value your friendship with him, you'll keep quite about your deeper feelings until you're sure he's ready to hear about it.
Sincerely,
Samantha
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It's totally fine for a girl to make the first move...I have...
anyway you feel really strongly about this guy and if I were I'd just tell him how I feel but try not to come on too intense.
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I think you might be in love
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It's perfectly fine for a girl to make the first move! Who says the guys get all of the fun? Oh and I know how you feel when you can stop thinking about the person. Good luck, I hope everything turns out all right.
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