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I'M MOVING
I'M MOVING BUT THE GUY I LUV STILL LIVES HERE AND I AM MOVING TO CANADA BUT I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO?
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Go with your mom. You must. Family first. I know its hard. But you will most likely meet someone up there too. And you guys shouldnt hold on exspeacially if alot of long distance between there. *trix*
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You have to follow your heart. I know it's hard, but nobody here can make the choice for you.
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There is really only one choice for you to make. You must move with your Mom. If you don't, there will come a time when you will seriously regret not going. It may be hard to think of right now, but your mom will not always be here. Cherish your times together while you can.
As for your relationship with your guy, if he loves you too, and if two are right for each other, the time and distance will not damage the relationship. You have plenty of time to work on that as time goes on.
Good luck!
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That is a tough one. Ok, this is gonna sound dumb. I saw this one episode of Boy Meets World and Topanga was gonna move but instead she stayed with her aunt so she could still be with Cory. Why don't you stay with your mom for a few weeks and then see which you like better. Hey, you never know if you fall in love with someone where your mom lives. Good Luck
Lizzy
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Tell him that you really like him and you would like to keep in touch with him and see if that helps
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I THINK OUT OF SPITE THAT YOU SHOULD MOVE TO MEXICO JUST TO CONFUSE EVERYONE AND IT WILL SHOW YOUR TRU LUV.
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Who would you live with if you decided to stay? Do you think you are old enought to live life on your own? Do you belive that this guy is 'the one' or your soulmate? Do you think a long-distance relationship would work? Do you think a long distance aquantance would work with your mother?
I would consider all these questions. I don't really have any advice for you except that long-distance relationships are hard. You must really follow your heart in this matter, and try to work out what would be best for you. *hugs* good luck
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The most important peice of information that must be considered here is missing. DOES HE LOVE YOU BACK? If he loves you too, and you're both at an appropriate age to be out on your own, then sit down and talk to him about his feelings on the subject, and try to make a decision together.
In all OTHER cases, GO TO CANADA WITH YOUR MOM. There will be other guys, and if THIS guy is the one your meant to be with, then it will happen anyway, regardless of whether or not you move.
Sincerely,
Samantha
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WHY ARE YOU TYPING IN CALL CAPS?
WELL IF YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT YOUR MOM LIKE YOU SAID THEN IT SEEMS TO ME THAT YOU REALLY DON'T HAVE A CHOICE. SO JUST TRY TO STAY IN CONTACT WITH HIM.
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Its hard to ask advice in this situation because we aren't aware of the bond you two share, but just keep the relationship alive
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first off, you can't "LUV" someone if you can't spell love properly. Second off, Canada rocks, go to Canada. Saskatoon especially rocks.
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If you have a choice than make the right decision. What do YOU want?
-shay :-)
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Do you have a choice in moving? If you don't, I'd break up with him and tell him that you'd like to remain friends if possible since long distance relationships rarely work out.
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Canada is a great country to live in, I'm talking from experience here. Try a long distance relationship with him. It might be a bit hard to get used to at first, but if you're both dedicated enough, give it a try. What's there to lose?
Edit: Live with your mom. I'm guessing you're under 16 yrs. old, and since she's the only family you have, well...do remember boyfriends come and go in life.
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YOU SHOULDN'T TELL HIM U LUV HIM BECAUSE THAT WILL MAKE BOTH OF U WORSE! BUT IF YOU BEGGED YOUR MOM TO LET YOU LIVE WITH YOU AUNT OR UNLE OR SOMEONE MAYBE YOU COULD TELL HIM AND HE WOULD BE REALLY HAPPY!
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