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i dont know what to do
if i went out with a boy but now i hate him cuz he is mean buti cant stop thinking about him andi want to talk abotu him what does this mean? and how can i stop it?
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How old are you? You sound a bit young to be dating right now. Give it a couple of years or whenever you feel you are mature enough to handle it. Sounds like you've got a major crush on him. You can't really control your feelings about someone else, try and avoid him for a few days and see how long it takes you to forget about him.
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Its the fact that you hate him, thats why its on your mind so much, its a hidden anger that you have built up from what he did that made you angry its perfectly normal. SO just don't think about what he did, keep yourself busy..
Cspinoza1
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You're probably rather impressed by the fact you have any sort of boy at all. Why did you pick a mean one? Throw him back and try again. There are un-mean ones. If you're provoking his meanness, try throwing yourSELF in.
I think you're 12. 14, tops. Boys at that age are nothing more than distractions and rather bad-smelling space fillers. Puberty DOES THINGS to people. If he's no good, just ignore him. I'm sure he wants nothing better than that.
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It means you have a major crush on him. Since he was mean to you, it's a waste of time focusing all your energy on him. He obviously isn't a gentleman. If you find yourself thinking of him, divert your attention to other things or if you caught yourself talking about him, change the topic instantly. I'm sure you'll find other guys that interests you aside from him in no time.
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This means that either you're not over him yet or you just getting over him. Go ahead and try to talk to him.
-shay :-)
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Dear Confused,
If this guy is mean to you, or to anyone else who doesn't deserve it, he does not deserve you. There is a possibility, however, that you are attracted to "daredevils" or "punks" or kids who are a big meaner than most people you know. It is strange that you say you "hate him" but you want to talk about him. Are you simply upset with him? Hate is a strong word. Why don't you talk to the guy about how you feel. Tell him that you don't (or maybe you do..?) appreciate how he treats others. Maybe he is just trying to look tough to impress you. You can't stop anything until you talk to him, however. I hope this helps.
*Suzy*
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