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Hey Whats up! My names Ashley! Im probably the biggest music geek that you will ever meet.. My life revolves around music and singing. I enjoy theatre and being in plays and shows. If u look at my ratings and feed back I am a pretty good Advicenator.. If thats what you want to say... Just ask me a question... anything and Im sure I could help!

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

yea, its a participation grade.

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if sperm touches your vagina,(& may have gone in a little..) is it possible to get pregnant?

yes

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i know this girl who goes to another school who is my absolute bff and she had a girl sleepover this night and that girl absolutly hates me! and she told me how much people talk behind my back and how fat and ugly i was and it really is hurtng my feelings b/c i never really did anything to her until tonight when i called her a bitch and now i just feel so emotional and i just feel like telling my best friend that if she wants to be friends with her she could be but she won't find me talking to her anymore. so i'm really confused and don't know what to do anymore

Dont resort to something like that. Just tell her how bad that girl really hurt you and just tell her that when shes around that girl and hanging out with her then dont expect you to be around at that time becasue of the situation... but tell her that if she wants to hang out someother time without her then thats fine with you, you just dont want/need to be put down like that... and I'm sure that you're beautiful and that the girl is only jelous and threatened by you becasue she wants to have the kind of relationship with your friend that you do. tell her "dont hate if you cant imitate" haha
Hope I helped!

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OKAY, someone made a s/n almost exactly like mine and is telling me that im gonna get my ass kicked ass school but they wont tell me who they are and is putting up stupid away messages such as: "having sex for money"

and tellling me that my boyfriend is cheating on me and stuff. and she says that i've been mean to her in school. but i have no idea who it could be because im not really a mean person.. what to do?! lol

well first of all this girl seems real mature and I wouldnt bother with her. your friends know what your sn is and what its not. Second of all I htink now you need to be a little bit more aware o your surroundings and actually take a look at who you talk to and who you dont and who you throw the slightest attitude to and who not. You should be aware of the people that are capable of things and who isnt. Just take a look around at people maybe in your version of th (scrub/loser) catagory and maybe pick one of them out that you htink it might be. And then try and talk to her. Thats jt about as much advice as I can give you for now.. anymore questions ask me. let me know what the outcome is :-D
-Ashley

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hey im just wondering, if u cut is it like wrong.. is it that big of a deal.. if its not for attention it just helps you deal with yourself then does it matter? do you need help if you do cut?

No matter what cutting is bad... I learned that the hard way... No matter if your doing it just to deal with yourself and other problems and not trying to get attention, osmeone will find outsooner or later and they will always think that its for attention or somehting like that. They will not believe you when oyu say that you're not and also they miht try and send you to a phsyc hospital or something or put you on anti depressents... and then tell you to deal with your problems in a less destructive way... So I suggest that you stop unless you want that junk to happen to you... Just a little hint of advice from someone that knows

-Ashley

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how do you know if you have mono? like what are the symptoms? does it have symptoms? i dont know anything about it and so i dont really know if i have it...! thanks yall!

well the first thing is that you get really tired ALL the time and you are always sleeping or always tired and have no energy what so ever..
But when I had it I had that and I had a really bad soar throat to where my glands were so swollen that I couldnt even swallow... also you feel kinda sick all the time and your immune system is really low. Go to your doctor and they will refer you to the hospital to get some blood work.. believe me its worth it... hope I helped!
-ashley

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ok, so my best friend's boyfriend raped her, and i don't know what to do. i know i should tell someone, but she's being dumb, and saying it was her fault, but when you get down to the point SHE WAS RAPED. i don't want her to be mad at me, but i should tell someone right? either that, or i could kill him, but i wouldn't do that. so help????!!!!! please. thanks everyone
Sincerely,
Confused concerned friend

TELL SOMEONE!!! i dont care if sh gets mad she has to do it!!! you have to do it!! its for her own good! some internal daage could have happend to her and she wouldnt even know it! she'll thank you in the long run...

-ashley

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my boyfriend always tells me that he feels lonely at times. and i don't know exactly what to tell him. i mean i'll say your not lonely you have me and you always will but he still does. i love him to death and i would do anything to make him happy. what exactly can i do that won't make him feel that way??
thanks a bunch

Tell him exactly what you just said... that you would do anything to make him happy and that you're there with him. Ask him why he says that. Ask him if he means anything by it.. if theres a reason that he always says that. Hope I helped!
-Ashley

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I juss ordered the Hair Chi straightening stuff today by a money order and where i ordered it is in California and i live in florida and i sent it today how long do you think it would take to get here? and does it work because i have really curly hair and i want it straight!
Thanks
I rate high
Signed,
Clueless

I've heard that they work pretty well.. but you should have saved your money and went to wal mart and got a revlon straightner...they work jut as well and their only 15 dollars! believe me.. I'm the master @ hair straighteners! and also i think that it will taks 2-3 weeks to get to you... dpeneding on what kind of shipping you asked for. I live in ny, and most of the time letters dont get to me from my friends out there for about 1-2 weeks... Hope I helped!
-Ashley

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Ok, so last week i was in 3rd hour and my closet friend said to me Pass me a note and i will give it to the boy u like! (he sits right next to him) So i said i will give it to u after class. He said No give it now! So i gave it to him. He ran to the teacher with the note and said SHE PASSED A NOTE TO ME! Holy Sh*t! I was humilated! My closet friend did that! Now he is all like hye whats up? What should i do!

I say that you drop them.. they seem like they are obviously trying to get rid of you somehow... so just leave em... you dont need anyone like that

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Hi guys,
Me and my husband have just moved into a new house...well, I say new, but it's actually ANCIENT. So ancient that we have no heating whatsoever!! The place was so expensive though that we can't afford to install heating for at least another year. The windows and doorways are all draughty too. So, my question is, as it is so cold at the moment, any tips of keeping warm other than the obvious 'put on another jumper'?

if u have enough towel then plug up the cracs as much as you can and put plasti on the windows and If you can, go to walmart and get nice heater (cheap) for every room in the house. Hope I helped
-Ashley

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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

It sounds pretty cool actually... I think you have a pretty good sence of style

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ok, so, I'm in the 8th grade and I live in, and I'm about to go to highschool, but I dont know which one to go to. 2 highschools, brooklyn tech in brookyn and townsend harris in queens, have offered me a seat, and they're both good. but townsend is like REALLY good and it's hard to get into, but I heard there's a LOT of hw, like 4 hours worth of it every day, and going to townsend is like completely giving up your social life, and everyone's telling me to go there. I want to go there cuz it's close to me, and it's really intelligent, but I wont know anyone there. people that used to go to townsend said that college seemed easy compared to the highschool, and that they benefited a lot from the school. most of the kids I know are going to brooklyn tech. the school's definately not as good as townsend but it's still good because it's one of the six specialized highschools in nyc, but I'm really interested in it because some of my best friends are going there, and becuz I kno there will be tons of hot guys.

i wanna be smart.. but I wanna have fun also

what school would you choose?
(sry if it's too long)

Honestly I think that you should go to townsend. I heard that it was a pretty good school.. I have a couple of friends that have gone there b4. I think that Its a great oprotunity for you to meet new people.. never be afraid of that. Also it doesn meangiving up your social life.. theres always time for that. always remember, theres a time for work and theres a time for play!
*hope I helped!*
-Ashley
Good luck and tell me what you decide

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Is it neccesary, in Witchcraft,or Wicca, To cast a cirlce even while doing a simple spell??Please answer, i need help.

first off wicca and witch craft are 2 completly diffrent things... look it up on google if you want to find out what either or is. Find which one you would rather be practicing and stick with it. Plus both of those are dangerous. And yes it is important to have a circle cuz if you knew anything about it, The circle is your protection.
-Ashley

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Hi,
I'm 5"7, aged fourteen and weigh ten stone (which is 140 pounds I think). I know this isn't majorly overweight or anything, but I feel fat and would like, if possible, to gradually get down to nine stone (126 pounds). I wouldn't mind if this took, say a few months.
I exercise regulary but find it hard to stop snacking between meals. Has anyone got any tips into how to stop this?
Or any other gradual-dieting tips.
Any advice would be very much appreciated :-)

Are you insane? you weigh just fine!!!

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my dad got arrested, and it's reallllllly embarassing. what should i do at school? i live in a small town so people will find out about it fast.

its okay.. the same thing used to happen to me when an ambulance would come for my mom b.c. she kept over dosing and getting arrseted... just, when people ask you what happened tel them not to worry about it...It was nothing serious...and if they get mad then oh well cuz its ur life and u'd tell them if wanted to. and its not your fault so dont be embarassed. It'll all be okay.
hope I helped..
-ashley

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Ok well here is the thing please dont delete i really need help ok well. There is this girl i like see the thing is he likes this other kid that im friends with see the only thing she dosent know is that my friend is already going out with this other girl which no one in my class knows bout except me so my thing is is there any way that i can get her to like me cause i really want to ask her out but she likes him so i dont know if i should tell her how i feel or if i should just not and see if these feelings go away can you please help me and if i like your answer i will definetly rate you a 5 please help.

I definetly think that you should tell her and tell her whats up with your friend. Tell her that you will make her feel like she has never felt b4. Ask her out. Go for it kid!

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I like this guy SO much i'm HELLA sprung off of him. I haven't really told anyone because he's not really the type of guy that you can be boyfriend and girlfriend with. He's a playah, a BIG one!! I know so many girls he's done stuff with, including me. He moves from girl to girl then back to the other girl then to another girl, all the time. I know he's just using girls and he's probably just using me too, just i like him so much. I always have this little feeling that maybe he likes me. (probably not though) A lot of people have told me he does, but well he does these things with everyone. I want to know if he likes me or not but I don't really want him to know that I like him cause if he finds out and doesn't like me back then what if he won't do stuff with me anymore, well, when i still wanna do stuff.ahah i'm so confused!! I just want advice on how to find out if he likes me or if i should just forget about him. Although if i forget about him can we still do "things"?? sry this was so long and/or confusing.

your getting palyed hun... just let him go... Are you from california?

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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?

Well. you could tell the guy at the dance to meet you there... and since its dark in there usually(i dont know about your school) you guys could chyl there!

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what are love handles?

flabs of fat on your sides

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