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need advice on a playah
I like this guy SO much i'm HELLA sprung off of him. I haven't really told anyone because he's not really the type of guy that you can be boyfriend and girlfriend with. He's a playah, a BIG one!! I know so many girls he's done stuff with, including me. He moves from girl to girl then back to the other girl then to another girl, all the time. I know he's just using girls and he's probably just using me too, just i like him so much. I always have this little feeling that maybe he likes me. (probably not though) A lot of people have told me he does, but well he does these things with everyone. I want to know if he likes me or not but I don't really want him to know that I like him cause if he finds out and doesn't like me back then what if he won't do stuff with me anymore, well, when i still wanna do stuff.ahah i'm so confused!! I just want advice on how to find out if he likes me or if i should just forget about him. Although if i forget about him can we still do "things"?? sry this was so long and/or confusing.
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your getting palyed hun... just let him go... Are you from california?
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You are getting played! He does not like you. In fact, every other girl he is playing right now probably feels the same way. Just get over him, your gonna end up getting hurt. You can't get with a playa, he will....just play you like he's doing now. Think about what your saying though. You like him, and want to keep doing things with him even though he does it with everyone else too? Thats the way HIV gets spread.
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No offense meant in anything I say here, just hear me out (and then forget whatever I said if you want to).
"Playah"s are dangerous. Like you said, he goes from girl to girl, doing things with all of them, and has NO respect for any of them (if he had respect, he wouldn't be playing around like this).
It may feel good to have him "do things" with you, but in the long run it will NOT be worth it. You're probably thinking that it's okay to try things out and "explore," but if you ever hope to have a good, long, scarless relationship with a man someday (hopefully in a marriage relationship), then it would be better to forget this guy.
On the other hand, if you don't care about your future husband and you don't care that you're hurting yourself through this experience, then do whatever...it's your life.
One more thought:
Wouldn't you rather a guy who respected you, cared for you, loved you....instead of someone who just wanted your body?
I don't know about you, but I'm a human...not a toy.
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Well, I suggest that you get a friend or somebody to ask him if he likes you. If he does, congrats, but if he doesn't and is just using you to get something, you should probably forget about him. It'll be pretty hard, but you can do it. Hope it goes all right.
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