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i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx.

Oowh, I feel sorry for ya.. You have to tell them about your feelings, I meant, you can't keep your feelings forever! Well, I had that kinda problem too when I was little. I called my bestfriend, and I asked her if she can hang out with me tomorrow, then she said 'No, I can't'. Then, the next day, I met her hanging out with her new bestfriends. I was so mad at her..So, I know how you feel.. If they are your truly truly bestfriends, the won't get pissed off or something..You should, and have to tell them. My guess is maybe they don't want to like bother you or something, maybe that's why they never want to hang out with you. Well, that's my guess, I don't know if it's right or wrong. But anyway, you should talk to them, okay? Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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On Sunday I'm going to the beach wwith my family and another family who has a 14 year old son. He's a year older than me and he's cute!!! I have these one pieces that i look good in, but i also have some bikinis. The problem with my bikinis is my nipples show through the fabric!!! Yuck!! Should i wear the bikini anyway or go with a one piece?

Well, I think you should go with one piece. You don't want anyone to see your nipples, do you?? I suggested you to go with one piece! Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!!

It's okay!! Everything is gonna be okay. I know how you feel, because last year, I moved to this new little country, I wasn't in your condition. My condition was way worse than yours. My first day of school was pathetic, I didn't have any friends, and no one wanted to talk to me. Wasn't it sad?? I think it was so sad. If I'm the one who is shy and don't know everything can make new friends, so can you!! I'm sure you'll fit in perfectly.Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i?

No, you shouldn't!! Well, I had that kinda problem too when I was little. LoL. It was a long time ago.. But okay, bout your problem, don't run away..that's not good.. Your family will be so worried about you. You have to control your temper, they're your family, I'm sure the love and want you, they just can't show you how they feel.You should talk to them bout your feelings.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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how come some of my music files are "mp3"s and some are "wmp"s? is there a way i can make them all mp3s or all wmps?

Well, mp3 is from website, you know? when you download songs from iTune or something.. Wmp is from CD *when you ripped songs from CD, it's a wmp* Wmp has a better quality..If I were you, I'd prefer wmp to mp3. I don't think there's a way to make them all mp3s or wmps..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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I really im in love with this boy, but he has 3 g/f`s. yea, he's a big player. i have tried and tried to get over him, but i just can't. I dont think he would really like me, because he likes darker girls like mexican girls. What should I do. (he has no clue i like him, and I wouldn't want to tell him, because I'm embarassed he'll reject me. :\)

Thanks! i RATE 5'SSS!

I know how is feel to fall in love with a player..I think you should stop loving him, there's no point of loving him.First, he likes mexican girls, second he's a player, third he has 3 girlfriends. I don't want you to get hurt.. So.. I think that's the best way.You'll find another guy, who is nicer and not a player.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS!

Well, if you really love him, why do you have to break up with him? But, if you're not sure about this thing, you should break up with him.. But it's all depend on you, if you think this thing will work, go on.. but if you think this thing won't work at all, you should break up with him.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Long story semi-short. I like 2 guys, one asked me out before the other so I agreed. Now I have a boyfriend but the other guy is mad and isn't talking to me. I atleast want him as a friend, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have now. What should I do?

Oo..You should talk to your friend and tell him that you didn't mean to hurt his feeling and ruin your relationship. If it doesn't work, it's okay, at least you try to fix it.. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.

Well, I have this kinda trick, ehm.. tell him that you like a boy who has been talking to you online for three hours straight..If he doesn't get it, give him more clues..till he finally realized that the boy is himself..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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14/f
okay well heres how it goes.. i really like this guy... and i mean hes noticed me and everything and were friends and i totally adore him... well once i was hanging out with him and his friends and they were all like "why dont you go lay down by your boyfriend" cause we were like all laying on the bed cause we were watching t.v. but anyways i was like hes not my boyfriend and my sister said the guy i liked made a really sad face.. so do you think i made a mistake saying that i just didnt want everyone to know i really liked him.. what should i do now.. i really dont know what to say i want to tell him i like him so how would i do that.. HELP*i rate*

It's not a mistake by not saying or telling him that you really like him. You don't have to, I meant, he's not your boyfriend..But, you can't just like keep your feeling forever, you have to tell him someday..Ok..how..ehm..well, first you can tell him how you feel about him..then tell him why do you like him..etc..He will feel better soon..Hope he's gonna be alright..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f....

If he is a good guy, maybe he really likes you..But if he's a player..I'm sure it was just a fling..I feel sorry to ya..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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k, 2 the point.. the problem is,, all of my friends hv a GF...they kinda forget me when they hang out with them... wat should i do? hang out w/ my GirlFren? she's sumwhere out there.. ^^

Where is she? Somewhere out of nowhere? Just kidding. Okay, talk to them, or you have to get over it. Or probably, you can show them how you feel toward them. Tell them, you feel lonely and being ignored. Well, at least if your friends leave you, you still have your girlfriend. Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i am a girl and my brother is 2 years younger and we always get in fights. ALWAYS. its getting annoying now cause we fight about EVERYTHING. we also in general annoy eachother like if we are in the car and he pinches me so i will hit him. and yeah we like REALLY HURT eachother. so i want this to stop... please try to help and if you do i will rate you a 5!!

Well, You have to handle your anger.He'll get over it if you ignore him..He'll be happy if you're angry, that's why you have to control your anger..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Hey. What's up?

I Have an amazing boyfriend. I love him. We have been together since Feb. 2nd, 2004 (for the people trying to figure that out, its been 1 year,6months and 9 days) I Love Him, like I said. However, sometimes I think that I may like other guys. Where I work there are 2 guys who I
"like" but I wouldn't go out with them if they asked me. I want to stay with my boyfriend. I think about these other guys sometimes tho.

Any ways or tips to stop these thoughts?

I am more then sure that I am going to stay with my boyfriend. I wouldn't ever date these other guys.

How can I deal with the thoughts?

Is this normal?

(Sophmore, Female)

-Kels-

It's so normal!!Sometimes I have that kinda thoughts too..Hmm..You might 'like' those guys, but the one you 'love' is your boyfriend.Remember, 'like' and 'love' are different.Just ignore those thoughts!!Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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hey so i have this problem with two boys coby and kalvin. i really like coby and like kalvin. coby is going to a different highschool than me and kalvin is going to my same highschool but i am in love with coby. i dont know what to do. i cant tell kalvin the truth because coby is one of his good friends. kalvin and me are close as friends and me and coby are close all around. what do i do? please help i rate 5's all the way

Well, if you're in love with coby, you have to tell kalvin no matter what..I think kalvin will understand it..I meant, there's nothing wrong about you liking coby.Kalvin maybe will get hurt, but if he is your truly best friend, he will accept and understand it..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ok now i have a boyfriend. hes nice, funny. and god hes gorgeous. But hes extremely sensitive and everything hurts his feelings. Hes jealous all the time and it drives me insane. He always has to be calling me or texting me when hes not with me, and im not the type of girl to expect him to do that. Hes got a life i know what hes doing, so its cool i dont stress over it. we've been together going on 7 months and as soon as i met him i fell for him. i've know him for like 8 months. Sounds like i need to break it off huh? If it were someone else thats what i would say. but honestly i cant. and i dont know why? like in a way i want to, but when it comes down to doing it i just cant. i forget about it. whats that mean?


i rate good if you take the time to help me out. thank you.

You really like him, don't you?If you really like him, don't break up with him.And about your problem, you just have tell him that.And anyway, you're lucky, because your boyfriend really cares about you..He doesn't want you to get hurt, I think that's why he calls and texts you when you're not with him.He really really cares!!Just tell him that's he's too protected, he'll understand..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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ok well im 13/f and i still havent made out with a guy , like ive had the opertunitys (cant spell sorry) and ive wanted to but it just doesnt feel right and i feel that if i did make out with a guy that i would be known as a slut . everybody calls me prude to and i want to make out im just scared that the person i do make out with will think im a bad kisser . is this normal? should i make out? pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!!!!!

(will rate high for good answers)!!!!

thanks!

Maybe you are just not ready for it.I think you need more time, or maybe you're just too shy..It's normal..People get nervous about it..Especially if it is their first time..You should make out if you want to..Don't be shy..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?

I think you should break up with him because first you don't want to kiss him and second because you haven't met him yet..But it's depend on you..It's okay if you don't want to break up with him..Maybe you just have to tell him that you're not ready for it..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Some places I go and use my debit card, they ask for an ID. I usually show my permit ID, but I lost it. So is a school ID fine as well? (It has my picture and name.)

Well, some places don't even care about your ID or anything..But some places really care about it..It depends..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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i wanna make my myspace pretty. so can someone give me like two really good colors that blend really good and it would be really pretty! thanks so much!

I think red and purple will be a good combination of color..Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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