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i know it is long, but i need the help!
i have this friend that i really like that has been my best friend since second grade! his name is Dylan. he is kinda chuby. but that doesn't matter to me! i really think i am starting to develop a thing for him. the only prob is that i live in Kansas, and he lives where i used to live, Arizona. i am in 6 grade now. and he was the first friend i ever made when i moved to AZ. i really really lik him! i got a phone call from him last night and i haven't seen him or talked to him for like 9 months. and out of the blu he jjust called me. i really miss him ! what should i do? plez help if you haven't alresdy fell asleep!
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dont worry i didnt fall asleep! okay what you should do is phone him more often and see if you can go on a vacation there this summer to see all your old friends and maybe dylan relized he liked you too and thats why he called but talk to him and maybe you can see him soon and before i forget flirt a lil too and try to drop hints that you like him also bring up memories you had together in the past, hoped it helped
~keely
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I have a friend named alexia and another friend named john. john and alexia like each other but alexia doesn't ever want to go out with john because his ex has feeling for him still and they dont get along. But here's the thing i like john. i talk to him and everything. but he only really notices alexia. i mean he notices me but he only LIKES alexia. how can i get him to notice me and realize that i am available to?
-arielle (link)
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arielle, try doing something knew like hair or earings, but you cant MAKE a guy like you like you like that with in a snap of my fingures so try to flirt with him and tell your friend so and see if she would get mad if you like him and it is okay to go out with a guy even though the x still has someting there because that relationship is done and over with and there is nothing she can do about it. hoped it helped
~keely
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I have been friends with this girl named Emily since about second grade and this girl named Katie since fourth. We are in 9th grade now. One of my best friends whom I have been friends with since fifth grade is extreamly upset with those two other girls. The story is, My friend from 5th grade has liked this guy for a while and Emily knew about it. Saturday we had a Winter dance at my school and Chelsea (the one from 5th grade) Caught Emily making out with the guy that she liked. No more than 5 minutes later she started making out with a guy that really liked her. Chelsea got mad and left. I was on my way to the bathroom and I saw my friend Katie giving head to some guy that she isn't even dating. The next day we were all hanging out with a group of friends and Emily had one of those small containers of icecream. One of the guys we were hanging out with was horny (so he said) so Emily decided to give him head. The thing is, she put the icecream all over his penis before she did it because "it would taste better". To make things even nastier, Katie started doing it too. They were both giving him head at the same time with ICE CREAM. They've turned into complete sluts and I can't take how they are acting any more. Chelsea is not speaking to them and I can obviously understand why. I'm completely on my friend Chelsea's side because they've done the same thing to me as well not even 2 years before. Should I confront them or should I keep it quiet? I really don't want to start anything because even though we have a big school, things can get around quickly. They are also more of the "popular" type if you will. I don't know if I should say anything to them. They also act like five year olds when they are with eachother, they are so immature! What should I do? Please help. I apologize for the lenghth of this question. (link)
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okay well definitally talk to your friends about that and tell them how you feel about it as well. i had a boy friend for that long when i was younger but the only thing we did was kiss and it wasnt in front of people unless it was his friends cuz they were mine too. so anyways i think you should tell them that when giving head dont do it in public and for your friend that knew about the other ones crush on that guy and yet making out with him confront her by saying something nice but yet totally turthful. well i hoped this helped and if you wanna talk IM me
~keely
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Okay well i was dating this one guy (Rick) and he was really nice and kinda cute and we talked like all the time on the internet and at school but whenever we started going out at school he didn't talk to me and it looked as if we didn't even know each other but whenever i talked to him on the internet he was sooo nice and it seemed as if i was falling in love with him... well since he never talked to me i broke up with him (all my friends told me to also)... well one day at school i decided i was gonna have my friend (Ashley) do it for me after school... well whenever i was in 7th period i decided i didn't want to... i told Ashley that but she didn't listen all she said is "if your gonna do it... its now or never" so she went and did it with a whole bunch of friends of hers (which i told her not to tell anyone but she did anyways) and then i was really sad and kinda mad about it b/c i didn't wanna do it... well i regret it A LOT! and now well there are a few other guys that like me and that have been asking me out but i don't know if i'm ready to go out with anybody.. i heard that rick still likes me but i don't know if i should go back out with him or someone else.. like my friends made fun of me for going out with him in the first place b/c he isn't the cutest guy in the world and they would really make fun of me if i went back out with him... and plus one of my friends like him but i know she wouldn't care if i went out with him ( i don't think she would) but i don't know if i should let him know how i feel or just keep it in and see if i eventually get over him! please help me! (link)
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okay, i think you should go back out with him and not care what your friends think about it and tell rick you never ment to break up with him but you were considering it because he wouldnt talk to you at school. you should talk to the friend that likes him and see if it is okay if you went back out with him because you still have feelings for him. im sure they will understand and if you need more advice IM me mmk? well hope i helped
~keely
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i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
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hey if you like him date him, and dont believe the rumors i did once trust me not good at all.. and who cares what your friends think i mean its their opinion and you have yours so fallow your heart and do what you think is right
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I'm 14 and this guy i'm good friends with it 15, of course he is your average, out of control teenage guy. All we ever talk about is sex and everything, even school related subjects seem to trace back to it. He's already told me that he wants the first time to be with me BUT he's got a girlfriend. I have asked him if he talks about this with her and he always says no that he doesn't want to scare her away, yet it is okay to talk about it with me??? I don't know if he's mixed up and doesn't know what he wants or what, but really, is that normal to be serious about doing it with your friend and talking about it while you have a girlfriend that you refuse to let go of? (link)
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well its sorta like he doesnt no what he wants and well frankly it sounds like your his sicurity blanket and your always there for him, but get over it he is pretty much a loser and just goes from girl to girl but promises all these things to you. that and in away it is some what like cheating on his g/f because he talks about having sex with you but wont mention it to his g/f sry but that just doesnt make sence. good luck!
~mini
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ive always wanted to be on a hip hop dance team but never have and i really wanna be on one..how can i get on one? my school is gay and doesnt have one...i live in waterford michigan if you know anything plz lemme know. im an okay dancer but i dont know if id be good enough to be on a hip hop dance team...grr someone give me some advice please! p.s ima white girl lol (link)
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well i wanted to be on one too, luckily my school has a dance team and its not to inaproperiot and look in your town i also go to a private dance hip hop class try some of the linked dance studios and well known ones so then you can tell they are good and hopefully i helped
~mini
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hello! me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months and then we broke up. But know we started dating again. And know he is different, he wont touch me i always have to grab him. like grab his hand if i want to hold it. what should i do? (link)
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try talking to him or being more phsical like take his hand like you said and make him understand that you want him to do that, so he should relax because he just might be nervous around you so give him a little time to warm up to you agian and then he might get the picture
~mini
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I have this friend who can get on my nerves so much because she just tries to control everyone! well many people i know complain about her and it is so annoying. she is always in my face like am i your best friend and i made you a picture but im not gonne give it to you and do u hate me, and AHHH ITS IS SO ANNOYING!!! i like want to scream my head off when im around her and answer all her questions "truthfully" and AHHH!!!!!! but i cant because she like gets my friends mad at me and why do i care? AHHH WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
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yes it might seem very annoying and i can tell you it is i had a friend just like yours who always was pretty bosy and said things that got on my nerves so i set her down and talked to her so try that and use on of those squishy balls in case you feel like blow up at her all of a sudden like a random burst of anger so dont let it get to you so just talk to her and if she doesnt get it at first talk to her again
~mini
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OMG! I love you so much! I'm glad you got a column, let's get together next weekend. Sleepover at my house Friday! Lol, luv ya tons...
~Cayd (link)
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ok im soo there!! lol movie night!! well ttyl lymtl ~mini!
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Ok..well I've liked this boy for quite a long time now and we have dated before but like last school year. This school year we have been on and off like I've always liked him but he sometime says he doesn't anymore. Just recently he told me he loved and all and he just went farther than he has before in what he says to me. So I think that made me attached more...well then he stopped calling me so I decided to call him a couple days after he stopped talking to me. He says from all the time I've known him I don't talk to him enough. This has happened so many times it's almost predictable, he likes me and all and then he stops because I don't talk to him enough and then I try to and then I just get sick of it because it doesn't seem to go anywhere and then I give up and then he seems to pop right back up again and like me again! I really like this kid and I don't know what to do, should I give up and see if he comes back like always or should I try talking to him more and just hope something happens or what? I can't give up on him I don't think it would last I've tried and tried either he came back just in time or I get feelings again! Anyone have any ideas? Thanks in advance! (link)
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tough situation let him hang or be apart for a while and date other people i mean if he cant make up his mind for a year if he loves you or not and sorry about those feelings you have for him but they will still b there for a while but try to ignore then so hope it works out for yas!
~mini
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well every year i have a choice if i want to go to tennessee for christmas to visit my family. its my one chance to go 2 states away.... to get away from all my problems and to really just think. but i would be gone for 2 weeks, including christmas and new years. the problem is.... i dont want to leave my boyfriend. i love him and i have never spent new years eve with a guy and i want to spend it with him. i want to start out the new year with him. hes having a new years eve party too...and his family is having a christmas eve party and everyone brings their gfs and bfs and he wants me to go, but i cant if im in tennessee. i cant choose to go or stay. he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while. but i would miss him SOOOO much and i dont know if i should go or stay.... what should i do? (link)
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wow this is a very tough desision for you, but i would say go with the family you dont get much away time and christmas is about family and togetherness and also how jeusus was born but thats another story now i no this might seem like a big deal staying with your bf and i no it is but you might regret going with the fam. so do what your heart says choose what you feel is right.
~mini
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okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!! (link)
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okay first dont send some guy a fake pic agian, but since you did already heres some advice. start out by saying you dont look anything like your pics and you really want to meet him in person and i bet if he feels the same way you do about him he will love you no matter how you look which im sure you look amazing and its not pathetic ive done it before but i didnt fall in love there was to much of an age difference for me so good luck try to tell him
~mini
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sry this is soo long! plz help!
ok so theres this kid that i kno.. and im starting to have feelings for him but im not sure if i should or not.. heres the situation: Me and this kid knew who eachother for a while but never really talked, well a few weeks ago i was talkin to a friend and we were introduced. Now we always talk when we see each other. when i dont talk to him, he always seems to mess with me*flirt*(i think) or say something to get me to notice him and talk to him. and today in lunch i anytime i wasnt talking to him he would play hit me and tell me to shut up. and later i started to think what it would be like if we would go together. but i dont wanna get myself all worked up if hes jus playing with my head. does he like me? does he jus wanna be my friend? is playing mind games? im jus really confused. please help! i rate high!
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dear confused, its kind of hard to tell but when a boy acted that way with me he liked me so i say he has a crush on you! i say you should go for it if some one goes out of his way to talk to you then yeah he prolly likes you and maybe even alot but you can never be to sure so be a little flirty back and see his reaction if he flirts back then its a shoe in! hope you arnt confused anymore
~mini
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What do you do when your best friend is kind of blowing you off and when you aren't hanging out anymore. I miss her and don't want to let go. (link)
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talk to her, try to have you two hang out more like invite her over to your house or to the movies or talk to her on the phone,if that doesnt work tell her you miss hanging out with her and you still want to be friends if she had gotten the wrong idea that you didnt want to be friends anymore hoped that helped
~mini
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I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya! (link)
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sometimes friends just dont get it try to tell her' hey listen i really liked this guy and still do so could you plz not sleep around w/him' it might help if it doesnt try to turn the tables and give her an example of maybe if she liked some1 for a while say oooo i like him and see her reaction it might work but not always tell her that she even made you cry cuz if a friend does that thats just pretty low excpecially when they no your feelings about it
~mini
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i've been kinda cutting myself...it was kinda stupid at first but now it's serious. my life is kinda like crap rite now. grades, family, friends, and love...all that jazz. sometimes i feel like i just randomly wann cutt myself. i hate it. i know there is other ways to work it put but i don't wanna talk to my family and i've already talked to my friends. please help me and don't just pick on or make fun of me...really answer this question.
signed,
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STOP IT! you can die from cutting yourself and if you just look at all the great enjoyable things in life then its worth not cutting and trust me on that one, when you have that random feeling snap your self with a rubberband its what we had one of my best friends in the world do and now she is alot better and if it helps just start really focusing on one subject and then when you get better at it move up to two subjects and so on so forth, and bout the family just hang in your room and try to push past all the tention well hoped it really helped
~mini
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I have a problem. It seems like I get nervous for everything! In track, I get extremely nervous before an event. In school, I get so nervous to take tests and do oral skits. Is there anything I can do to help? Thanks (link)
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i always used to get nervous like that too, what i did was i had either a clicky pen in my hand so i could futs with it or get one of those squishy balls to relieve stress because it also works for if your nervous too
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Ok..theres this guy that likes me and we aren't going out but we have been friends for a while now..well he asked me to go to a movie with him and I said no because I had to go Christmas shopping but my friends asked me what my answer was and I told them and thats how he found out I guess but I don't know if they told him about shopping and now hes mad because I said no and I have no idea why unless he doesn't know the reason why I said no!What do I do? (link)
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ok, confront him and tell him that you had to go christmas shopping and maybe pick him up a lil bit of chocolate for a presant and tell him your sorry and maybe you could go to the movies next weekend or when neither of you are busy
~mini
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Okay i had my winter dance tonight and this guy asked me to dance. I was speechless and i couldn't say anything. Then he goes "you know what fine, whatever" and i'm like "no come back! Okay i will dance with you i will i'm so sorry!" but, he just ignored me. I had my friends go and ask him to dance for me but he ignored them. I went over and said "Okay i am really sorry and i wish i could take it back but will you dance with me?" He walked away and i knew i had really hurt him. My other friend went over and asked him why he was being like this. He said " you want me to just say okay and dance with her?" and she goes "yea just please she feels like crap come on. And he just screamed a her saying "TOO BAD!" Then i felt it the pain he had felt. I was so sorry but he wouldn't let me tell him. He just ran back into the croud. I looked for him all over but couldn't find him. Then the last dance came and i started to cry. He saw me and sad "now you know how i feel" and went away. Now i feel like CRAP!! i am so sad, and mad and i should have said yes. I am so sorry i need to tell him that but i dont have him # or his e-mail or anyother thing i could reach him by. I feel bad but i dont know why. If it was just a regular guy i would have been okay but its not it was one of my friends and i am so sad. Do i like him? What can i do for him to forgive me? Will he forgive me? Should i ask him to dance at our new dance coming up? i have no idea! Please Help!!!! I'll rate high!!!!! Thanks alot! xoxoxoxo HunnieBuns (even the advice columnist needs help) Just like me! (link)
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hey hunn, well i think you might feel that way because you might like him, you never know what feelings are deep down so try talking to him again and tell him that you were speechless not saying eww inside your head hope that helps
~mini
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