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I think Im in love
okay well i have been talking to this guy online and on the phone almost every night for about a year and 1/2 and even though i have never actually physically met him i think i have fallen in love with his personality. we only live about an hour away and i am friends with his cousin who lives near me, so its very possible that we could meet whenever we wanted to. well i do want to meet him to maybe try to start a relationship, but the problem is that i sent him a fake picture of me. not just one fake picture, but i have sent him websites..TONS of fake picures saying that they were me. so now he has this image of a beautiful girl in his mind. its not that im afraid he will think im ugly at this point, but i am afraid to admit that i sent him alllll those pictures. its extremely embarassing.. and i didnt do it just once, ive done it ALOT!!! i dont know what to do..if i never meet him then it will break my heart and i think i will be missing out on something really great...what should i do? i know this is pathetic..please dont be rude i just need help!!
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First of all, stop sending the pictures! You need to tell him as soon as possible. Could you blame it on a friend and sy you gave her pictures of you but she sent the wrong ones as a joke and you've only just found out? I you really want to meet him but are very nervous or shy then could your cousin have a party one weekend and invite you and some of your friends too?
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just be honest. talk to him and tell him how you feel and why you sent those pictures. if he is the right one for you, he will understand. good luck!
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make your self look like this picture. as much as u possibly can. or u can just meet him and maybe hell be just as ugly as you!rate me five!
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How do you know that he didn't lie too? First off, internet relationships don't always work out, and are often based on lies. Just remember that. Secondly, you've already lied to him, so you can't take that back, so as embarrassing as it's going to be, you're going to have to admit those pictures weren't really you. It may screw up your relationship possibilities, but at least then you'd be able to meet him! Good luck and I hope it isn't too mortifying :(.
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OK, not to bring up again what you done or whatever lol but why send him the fake pics? You are who you are and you can't change that. Just be honest with him, the longer you string this on the more it will hurt him. He may not talk to you anymore for lying to him but that's just something you will have to accept. Start off by saying I got something to tell you and before I do, I want you to know how terribly sorry I am.......You know the rest. Good Luck.
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okay first dont send some guy a fake pic agian, but since you did already heres some advice. start out by saying you dont look anything like your pics and you really want to meet him in person and i bet if he feels the same way you do about him he will love you no matter how you look which im sure you look amazing and its not pathetic ive done it before but i didnt fall in love there was to much of an age difference for me so good luck try to tell him
~mini
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The best thing, whether you meet or not, is to tell him you've been sending him fake pictures. Since you two are making such a good connection, you shouldn't be surprised of his answer. He may be a little shocked, but if he's really a nice guy he'll understand and won't hold it against you. A good thing would be to talk to him about how you feel and why you did it. It's going to be hard for you but honesty is the best policy right now. If he wants to see the real you, you can arrange a time to meet.
{{laura}}
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i think you should just tell him. and if he doesn't accept it then he is not for you. but if he does accept it, i think you should send him a real picture of u and meet.
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You sure made a blunder there. Much like the answer before mine, I agree that you have to tell him why you did it. Furthermore you owe him an apology and its going to be damn hard to build trust between you. Now, unlike the answer before me that abviously has been presented by a Doctor Phil fan, or someone who owns the director´s cut edition of "Seventh Heaven", I disagree with the looks issue. Guys do NOT go for personality over looks. I also got news for you, girls dont either. Both sexes (though mainly women) love to say they do, but open your eyes- they dont. This is the hard truth, and you can rate me what you like, but if you are not physically attractive to him, the odds are he will not want you. However, you have nothing to lose so go for it. Good luck.
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I've done that once before! You have to tell him that the pictures you sent were fake! Yeah, he will get mad at first but you have to tell him why you did that! Sweetie, he won't think you're ugly! Seriously, just tell him what you did was wrong and send him a real picture of you! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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