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I have this friend who can get on my nerves so much because she just tries to control everyone! well many people i know complain about her and it is so annoying. she is always in my face like am i your best friend and i made you a picture but im not gonne give it to you and do u hate me, and AHHH ITS IS SO ANNOYING!!! i like want to scream my head off when im around her and answer all her questions "truthfully" and AHHH!!!!!! but i cant because she like gets my friends mad at me and why do i care? AHHH WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
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well tell her shes annoying and maybe that will hurt her feelings and shell try to act the way u want her to. then she wont be annoying that might work.rate me 5.
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This so called "friend" is sure not acting like one. First off, you have to talk to the friends she's making get mad at you. Tell them she is really hurting you they shouldn't listen to what she says. It's time for you to stand up for yourself and ignore her. If she continues to follow you and talk, give her the cold shoulder and walk off. You don't have to be pushed around. Hang out with your other friends, leaving her in the dust. She will get lonely quick and realize her behavior is causing a loss of friends. If your other friends are true, they won't believe what she says an listen to you instead. No one likes to be left out, so either she finds another person to bug or she will change. You could try talking with her about it, but I'm not sure she'd take it well. Good luck on this! =)
*laura*
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yes it might seem very annoying and i can tell you it is i had a friend just like yours who always was pretty bosy and said things that got on my nerves so i set her down and talked to her so try that and use on of those squishy balls in case you feel like blow up at her all of a sudden like a random burst of anger so dont let it get to you so just talk to her and if she doesnt get it at first talk to her again
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Talk to her about it - most people like that don't realise how controlling they are. Maybe she'll try to change if she realises how much it bothers you. How does she get your friends mad at you if they complain about her? Don't yell back at her, then you'll get in a fight (trust me) and it will be totally uncomfortable and unfair to your mutual friends. Just try to stay calm and ask her to stop being so bossy. I hope this helps!
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Well, you need to tell her to stop. Like to let her know that she's not controlling you. If you don't tell her soon about how you feel it will get worse so I would just say something now and help yourself in the near future.. Its always good to go with what your heart tells you too. Good luck with that :) Shan
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