I have been friends with this girl named Emily since about second grade and this girl named Katie since fourth. We are in 9th grade now. One of my best friends whom I have been friends with since fifth grade is extreamly upset with those two other girls. The story is, My friend from 5th grade has liked this guy for a while and Emily knew about it. Saturday we had a Winter dance at my school and Chelsea (the one from 5th grade) Caught Emily making out with the guy that she liked. No more than 5 minutes later she started making out with a guy that really liked her. Chelsea got mad and left. I was on my way to the bathroom and I saw my friend Katie giving head to some guy that she isn't even dating. The next day we were all hanging out with a group of friends and Emily had one of those small containers of icecream. One of the guys we were hanging out with was horny (so he said) so Emily decided to give him head. The thing is, she put the icecream all over his penis before she did it because "it would taste better". To make things even nastier, Katie started doing it too. They were both giving him head at the same time with ICE CREAM. They've turned into complete sluts and I can't take how they are acting any more. Chelsea is not speaking to them and I can obviously understand why. I'm completely on my friend Chelsea's side because they've done the same thing to me as well not even 2 years before. Should I confront them or should I keep it quiet? I really don't want to start anything because even though we have a big school, things can get around quickly. They are also more of the "popular" type if you will. I don't know if I should say anything to them. They also act like five year olds when they are with eachother, they are so immature! What should I do? Please help. I apologize for the lenghth of this question.
~*Annie*~ answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:13 pm: I totally understand, and I don't think of you as being prude... I personally think giving head is disgusting, and doing it in front of people is even more disgusting, with ice cream on top?! That is gross. Do you really want to hang out with those kinds of people? I mean, this will be really hard, but gently (not angrily) tell them that you realized that they have changed, and you're not sure if you can keep up to their standards. If they are really so shallow and desperate to get the attention of a guy they just met that they are willing to suck on their dicks, then they aren't the most secure people I know. Really, if people at school find out about this, they'll be known as sluts, and then since you hang out with them, you'll be called a slut too. I suggest you avoid Emily and Katie for a while, and start hanging out with Chelsea, because she deserves nice and concerned friends like you :)
P.S. My mom's friend, who is a nurse, once treated a girl who had given head to guy. The girl had Climidia (a pussy, bacterial infection, sometimes leading to a STD) in her THROAT! [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
xOKooLAiDOx answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 4:58 pm: Tell them that you hate it. be honest.. be lyke:: Oh you guys are such whores! lol!! then be lyke... oh.. i'm a bit horney myself.. mind lickin my peeter... kinda joke with them about it... ya know.. then it might just make them feel bad... i have friends lyke that. and i hate them :) okay! Well Hope i've helped
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BeFABULOUSxo answered Wednesday December 15 2004, 3:47 pm: hmm..tell them that you hate the way they are acting and that you miss the old them... thatll gt them thinking and hopefuly theyll come to their senses... tell them that those guys were just taking advantage of them *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!* [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
SunShineAngel3 answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 11:19 pm: okay well definitally talk to your friends about that and tell them how you feel about it as well. i had a boy friend for that long when i was younger but the only thing we did was kiss and it wasnt in front of people unless it was his friends cuz they were mine too. so anyways i think you should tell them that when giving head dont do it in public and for your friend that knew about the other ones crush on that guy and yet making out with him confront her by saying something nice but yet totally turthful. well i hoped this helped and if you wanna talk IM me
~keely [ SunShineAngel3's advice column | Ask SunShineAngel3 A Question ]
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