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Okay i had my winter dance tonight and this guy asked me to dance. I was speechless and i couldn't say anything. Then he goes "you know what fine, whatever" and i'm like "no come back! Okay i will dance with you i will i'm so sorry!" but, he just ignored me. I had my friends go and ask him to dance for me but he ignored them. I went over and said "Okay i am really sorry and i wish i could take it back but will you dance with me?" He walked away and i knew i had really hurt him. My other friend went over and asked him why he was being like this. He said " you want me to just say okay and dance with her?" and she goes "yea just please she feels like crap come on. And he just screamed a her saying "TOO BAD!" Then i felt it the pain he had felt. I was so sorry but he wouldn't let me tell him. He just ran back into the croud. I looked for him all over but couldn't find him. Then the last dance came and i started to cry. He saw me and sad "now you know how i feel" and went away. Now i feel like CRAP!! i am so sad, and mad and i should have said yes. I am so sorry i need to tell him that but i dont have him # or his e-mail or anyother thing i could reach him by. I feel bad but i dont know why. If it was just a regular guy i would have been okay but its not it was one of my friends and i am so sad. Do i like him? What can i do for him to forgive me? Will he forgive me? Should i ask him to dance at our new dance coming up? i have no idea! Please Help!!!! I'll rate high!!!!! Thanks alot! xoxoxoxo HunnieBuns (even the advice columnist needs help) Just like me!
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I think this guy really likes you and it took a lot of courage for him to ask you to dance. Its not your fault you reacted that way in the first place but you really need to contact him to explain what happened. Emailing would be good. The way he reacted shows he had his ego bruised and by shouting like that is just his way of dealing with it. Just write to him saying how sorry you were and how you just didn't expect him to ask you to dance. It would be a good idea to ask him to dance at the next dance but only once you've written to him as then he knows what to expect. You also need to work out if you really like this guy as more than a friend. If you don't then you also need to explain this in the letter.
Remember guys react like this when this sort of thing happpens and don't worry, he will have calmed down by now and probably really wants to hear from you. Good luck!
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Here's the thing about guys, once you stepped on our balls, it stings for a while. On the other hand though, the guy is an asshole. If he wanted to dance he would have waited and not get all pissy about it.
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You shouldn't feel that way. I mean...you were speechless and he was just acting like an ass =/ Kick him in the balls, and you will feel much better. (joking).
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I think he over reacted. You tried to tell him what went on but he wouldn't listen, so it's his fault. If he really did like you then he wouldn't want to see you crying I would wait until monday and talk to him again, if he if he ignores u again go 4 some1 else, hes not worth it Hope i helped -
<3- NiCoLe
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I think he over reacted. You tried to tell him what went on but he wouldn't listen, so it's really his fault. If he really did like you then he wouldn't want to see you crying! I'd wait till monday and talk to him again, if he blows you off then try to forget about it! Hope I helped & good luck!
lyds..*
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The first thing you need to do is give him time to think about everything. Then try looking in the phone book for his address or phone # and try to apoligize. Tell him that you just so shocked that he asked you that you didn't know what to say and that your really sorry for what happened but you hope that you can make things right betwen the two of you.
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hey hunn, well i think you might feel that way because you might like him, you never know what feelings are deep down so try talking to him again and tell him that you were speechless not saying eww inside your head hope that helps
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