about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

ok so people always say that condoms are like 95% effective or whatever "if used correctly"

well what it is the right and wrong way to use one?

and what are the different kinds of condoms? and which ones are the best?

the experation date is very important. make sure the condom isnt dry because then it can hurt and it can break easier. make sure that the condom is placed on the pennis propperly. like where it is sacure and that it wont slide of. make sure that the wrapper isnt ruined and have wholes it and that the condom doesnt either.

hope this helps

♥ Steph

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Does anyone know of a website that can calculate how many calories you burn while doing an exercise. All I can find are sites that only tell how many calories you burn when you are like..skiing, and biking. Is there any simple ones just like...pushups, sit-ups, chin-ups, hogging in place, weight lifting, etc.?

I would really appreiciate it if someone could answer this for me.

try fittnessmagazine.com

i am not sure if they have exactly what you are looking for but i know they have something simaler.

♥ Steph

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alright i probably know what your going to say but i'm asking anyways. Me and my boy friend ahv bin having sex without condoms for about 8 months now, but i'm on bith control, is it still a bad idea to continue with this.

itisnt that bad at least your using some kind of protection.but even with the birth control there will always be that1% of a chance of becoming pregennat. the more protection you use the less of a chance u will become pregnant. hope this helps.


♥ Steph

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no guy has ever really seen my boobs, even though many have asked. i'm afraid guys will think 'ew that girl has ugly boobs' or something. i dont know-i'm very self concious. like is therea a certain way boobs should look? thanks.

everyone is different and everyones body is different which means everyones boobs are differeent no worrys..

if u dont feel comfrotnable with showin them off then dont.

=)

♥ Steph

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ok i have heard of sexual turn ons like biting of necks n kissing of necks and others but blowing ears? i mean i heard of it but how does that do anything? any reason? so...and rubbing of bellies..ye haha what does that do, i mean how does that turn someone on? i have heard of it so um...help?

yu. the blowing the ear works. because when i am really into it with my bf and he blows softly(keyword) it is a big turn on. or bits on the ear softly. it all really depends

some people like it others dont.

hope this helps.

♥ Steph

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is it true that if you run away and leave a note saying that you went with some1 that the police cant come looking for you?

-tks-

actaully. i am telling you this from experince. i have ran away and left a note. you cant get into trouble unless ur gone for more then 24 hours

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Hey can any one tell me what an IM is?

I.M.

it stands for Instant Messnage..

=)

♥ Steph

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how long do you think a perfect sex should last,and please don't answer "as long as it should",i mean some girls say 30 min some say 20 min at lesat.and what is your ideal sex time?or what was the shortest sex period you had?

i think the long it takes more passionate it becomes. when having sex it shouldnt be just fuckin but makin love to each other and showing how much you care.

about 1-3 hours is good.

♥ Steph

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I really hope this question will not be deleted.
I got a lot of hair on my balls
I wanna get rid of them and I dont know how.
I cant shave them, I definatelly cant wax them so I just spend a lot of time trimming them every now and then.
Any other solution? How to shave balls they are very sensitive and get cut really easilly.

Nair works. my bf using it =)

yea it doesnt matter to a girl but bc there is hair dowm there it causes an odor so yea..hope this helps.

♥ Steph

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Me and my friends are putting together mix cds for each other and my mix cd theme is 'songs about sex'. And I seriously cant think of any!

I need suggestions! Any genre, any artist, whatever! I'd really appreciate any suggestions!

Thanks!

s.e.x lyfe jennings

i wanna fuck you akon ft snoop

naked marques houston

i can tell you wanna fuck 540 boys

makin good love akon

whatcha like da brat ft tyrese



if u want more leave it in my inbox =)

♥ Steph

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I am a female and have been with my boyfriend/fiancee' for about 2 years. I recently moved away to college and had to leave him behind because I have to live in a dorm my first year. I visit home all the time and spend most of my time with him and not my family. I love him, and he loves me, I know this I really do, but lately all he has been talking with me about is that he wants to have sex with other people, that love and sex are not connected in his mind and that he is sexually attracted to another person, but not in love with them. This makes sense, and I understand him, but I told him that if he wants to have sex with another person, we are not together because I am not going to be waiting at home while he has sex with another. He doesn't understand that it's cheating on a person when you sleep with another while dating. He doesn't think that he should choose one or the other, he wants both. He thinks that I don't love him and that I don't understand him/ want him the way he is. The thing is I don't want him to resent me if he decides that he wants to stay with me and not have sex with other people and that I want him to see my point of view on this. I want him to understand me because he doesn't get what it would be like, he keeps telling me that I could have sex with other people as long as I didn't get attached to them, which he says I would do. I keep telling him that I don't want anyone else, but he doesn't think that he would get hurt because of it, if I did in fact sleep with another person.
I really have no idea what to do. I want him to be happy, which would mean giving him up, but I want to be happy myself, which would mean we would stay together and he would "forget" that side of him. Any advice on this, any thoughts that you have would be nice. I really appreciate you all taking time to read and answer this. Thank you.

i honestly dont think a realtionship should be the way he is putting it.when he says he is attracted to someone in a sexual way that is kinda messed up. he should only be attracted to you sexually,mentaly, and physically. nobody else. when your attracted to someone there is something about that person that you most like. he should ahve to choice. he cant have his way.. if you think detailed about this other person might have aids, might get pregnant, and you dont know what or who she has eben having sex with. then he would come back to you and might try having sex with you. i dont think so. if you love soemthign le it go if he loves you back he will come back to you adn he WONT do somethign like that. otherwise it is time to move on. ( i am sorry)

♥ Steph

p.s.
i hope this helps.

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hello. i am interested in belly dancing, i have already started some on my own. but i have come up against something, i was in two major carwrecks and i have to wear a leg brace on my left leg, are there any special moves or techniques you know of? mainly i can't use my left leg a whole lot, but this is somethign i am determined to do so if you could help at all i would greatly appreciate it. thank you
*B4*

well belly dancing isnt really with your legs. i eman you do use your legs but mostly your stomach..

http://www.fitnessmagazine.com/fitness/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/fitness/story/data/1141664984856.xml&catref=cat5420004

even though this can get you to loose weight those are a couple moves that you can use that dont involve you moving yuor legs much.

hope this helps. and i hope ur leg ets betetr. =)

♥ Steph

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how far do you think an average 14/f should go w/ her bf?

nobody can really answer your question because the way you feel for your boyfriend is your feeling nobody elses. it is how far do YOU want to go..hoep this helps.

♥ Steph

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i love doin lil romantic stuff for my girl. i give her notes, got her a necklice, gave her my jacket, kiss her on the cheek when she doesnt expect it, whats some more romantic stuff i can do for her. I love doin it, it makes me so happy to make her smile and laugh so if you got any good ideas id love it

maybwe take her to the ebach and watch the sun set with her.. flowers is a good idea.. kissing her on the forehead. maybe a ring. dont get pricey with it because girls really dont care (or at least shouldnt) like what u can do is go to a grocery store and get her one of those 25 cent rings. or if you want get her like one for about 10-15 dollars.

hope this helps

♥ steph

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Im crazy in love with this boy.
He's my bosses son. And 4 years older than me. We've been going out for almost a month - but every time we fight ... even if its over something little his soultion is to break up ... and then call me an hour later and say he's sorry ... i just dont know what to do ... i've asked him why he does it ... and he didnt really give me a clear answer ... should i break up with him once and for all? Please help!
18/f

i think you should get over him.., i mean think about it. say if you guys get married what is he gonna do diveroce and then remarry whenever he feels like it.. i mean coem on i bet you want a serious realtionship not something crazy like this. if you want to try to make it work then try talking to him but i dont think it is really worth it..

♥ Steph

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Iam a 17 female and i've had sex with several different guys all my boyfriends at one point.I have sex like 4 times a week with my present boyfriend and i think i may be pregnant what should i do?

first off have you missed your period? did you use protection?


well if you havent missed your period then relax. yes there is a chance of you bring pregnnat but being stressed out will only make your period let and you wont be able to know for sure if your pregnant or not.


then if you missed your period take a pregnancy test. =)

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k, so i don't know how long this will be but oh well. i'm 16/f. i was dating the same guy for 2 years. he broke up with me because he thinks i'm never happy. he's never serious and he thinks i'm too serious. i've been getting over it, and now i like another guy (and i don't think he likes me back) but yeah, this past week,my ex has been telling me how much he wants me back and he loves me, then last night he came to my house and told me he's seeing a girl he cheated on me with last year. my ex told me he would go back out with me if i were "happy". idk why i'm not happy with him. i was with him a lot of the time we were dating.. like we saw eachother almost every day, but he wants to be w/ his friends all of the time. what could i do to be happy? or should i just forget about my ex and try to go for the guy that i have a crush on and i'm too nervous to talk to him because i haven't really flirted in 2 years. what should i do? any answer is good. =]

besides the fact that you werent happy with ur ex. i mean he cheated on you. i have learned that once a cheater alwasy a cheater. and he is still seeing that girl fuck him.. you dont need a boy in your life you need a really man that will treat you like a pincess and that will amke you happy and wont cheat on you no matter what. you need to forget this fool. go and find urself a really man =) i would suggest to try to go and talk to your crush.. dont let your ex stop ur life.

♥ Steph

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Hello. I am 14. I need help, because I just started a relationship with this kid that I really liked last weekend, and I am really confused. We've been going out for a week and a half now..and I really like him. The thing is, I liked to be single. But I don't wnat to break his heart..or mine...and I don't wnat anything to be different between us either. I just liked being single. What should I do?

Sincerely,
Boy Troubles

if you really like him stay with him try to make it work. your not used to being taken that is what it is. i would say give it about anohter two week and see what happens. if you still dont see a change then leave him.

♥ Steph

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16/f
can a dermatologist prescribe birth control?
id really like it to help my face clear up, although if it helps regulate my period that would help a ton as well! i just dont wanna go to a gyn yet. haha.

it depends.. i had to go to a diabetic doctor bc i am over active and i get birth control to control my hermones. you just have to ask about. hope this helps. =)

♥ Steph

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So i gave my boyfriend a hangjob and i got some cum on my finger but i wipped it off on his shirt... gross i know but we were hugging and then about 40 mins later i masterbated. can i be pregnant. i dont ahve to feeling that i am but im suppose to get my period soon so hopefully i will know. please answer back!

i woudlnt owrry abotu. you whipped most of it off which is good. and sperm cant live for 40 minutes so i wouldnt worry about it..=)

♥ STeph

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