Question Posted Wednesday October 18 2006, 4:31 pm
k, so i don't know how long this will be but oh well. i'm 16/f. i was dating the same guy for 2 years. he broke up with me because he thinks i'm never happy. he's never serious and he thinks i'm too serious. i've been getting over it, and now i like another guy (and i don't think he likes me back) but yeah, this past week,my ex has been telling me how much he wants me back and he loves me, then last night he came to my house and told me he's seeing a girl he cheated on me with last year. my ex told me he would go back out with me if i were "happy". idk why i'm not happy with him. i was with him a lot of the time we were dating.. like we saw eachother almost every day, but he wants to be w/ his friends all of the time. what could i do to be happy? or should i just forget about my ex and try to go for the guy that i have a crush on and i'm too nervous to talk to him because i haven't really flirted in 2 years. what should i do? any answer is good. =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 8:21 pm: besides the fact that you werent happy with ur ex. i mean he cheated on you. i have learned that once a cheater alwasy a cheater. and he is still seeing that girl fuck him.. you dont need a boy in your life you need a really man that will treat you like a pincess and that will amke you happy and wont cheat on you no matter what. you need to forget this fool. go and find urself a really man =) i would suggest to try to go and talk to your crush.. dont let your ex stop ur life.
happychicka answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 7:11 pm: first of all if you werent happy with your ex then i think you should just forget about him. If he didnt make you happy before he probably wont make you happy now. And the same thing kinda happened to me, i was in a really long relationship and he dumped me and i slowly was able to flirt with guys again. Since you were will your ex bf for 2 years it will take awhile for you to get into the dating pool again, i know that sounds kinda gay,but oh well. Anyway i hope i helped, and if i didnt then im sorry [ happychicka's advice column | Ask happychicka A Question ]
dorksrusxoxo answered Wednesday October 18 2006, 5:37 pm: Your ex says that you are not happy, and your too serious. First ask oter people if it is true. If they say no then maybe you are just not happy around him. Then you have to think would i want to be with a guy how i am not happy around. Now if you like this new guy what is the piont you have already moved on. And if you weren't happy with him once you won't be agian which unfortunaltly means you will probably breack up again and why put yourself threw that [ dorksrusxoxo's advice column | Ask dorksrusxoxo A Question ]
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