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My Boyfirend
Im crazy in love with this boy.
He's my bosses son. And 4 years older than me. We've been going out for almost a month - but every time we fight ... even if its over something little his soultion is to break up ... and then call me an hour later and say he's sorry ... i just dont know what to do ... i've asked him why he does it ... and he didnt really give me a clear answer ... should i break up with him once and for all? Please help!
18/f
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i think you should get over him.., i mean think about it. say if you guys get married what is he gonna do diveroce and then remarry whenever he feels like it.. i mean coem on i bet you want a serious realtionship not something crazy like this. if you want to try to make it work then try talking to him but i dont think it is really worth it..
♥ Steph
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I think you should try and talk to him about it more, and give him a serious tone to let him know you're really curious and want to know now.
He just might be afraid of getting into a real good relationship. His past relationships might've had their fights and he might be afraid to get emotionally involved and it wind up crashing in front of his face, and talking of breaking up he might be thinking of getting out of it early before the pain comes ( but I doubt he really wants to break up with you! )
Just let him know,"I just want to know, why every time we fight, you always result in suggesting us break up? Do you not want us to be together or something? It really worries me and makes me think I'm doing something wrong here and you don't want to be with me. I know we have our fights, but we can always just talk to them out ; they don't have to result in breaking up." And just try and talk about it more and resolve the issue.
Whenever you two start to fight, just try and both make the effort to calm down, take some breaths, and just calmly talk about it instead. List to eachother how you both are feeling and let the other speak what's on their mind, and hten make your response, so everyone gets to talk, and everyone gets to release their feelings and feel better.
But, if he's still being quiet about the reason he does it, and still continues to suggest breaking up and always fighting with you, I might want to then consider breaking up. You already gave it a shot, and it's clearly not working out. And do you really want to be in that kind of relationship where you'll never know when you're going to break up over one little thing? That's not too healthy, always being worried. You shouldn't have to be.
I hope I helped.
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Eh. For almost a month?
He's not worth it if his only solution is to break up.
Do you want to go through that every time? For weeks? Months?
Not fun to me.
He needs to calm down after a fight and find time to talk to you about it.
You need someone that won't make things hard for you. He didn't give you a clear answer either so I would talk to him about that.
You deserve someone who won't do that to you.
But if you're willing to try and make it work. Start off by talking to him about this problem and make sure you get a clear answer!
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