last night, i went on a double date w/ my friend, her boyfriend and his friend. and he's reallly cute, and super sweet and i feel like we had really good chemistry, like the 1st half of the movie, he didn't hold my hand, but before when our hands brushed, i got butterflies, and when he finally did, i got them too..
but i really seemed to like him, then i got home and looked at my exs myspace, he was my first 'love' and we have each others virginity, not to mention he and i were so comfortable with each other and stuff. and when i looked at his page, i literally got sick. he took me off his top, and the new girl he's talking too is on there. i felt like i was gonna be sick.
idk if i should keep going out w/ this guy, or call my ex, or what. my ex and i don't really speak.. AT ALL. but i love talking to him, dating or not. it's just so weird. he didn't really treat me very good though, but the new guy is a total sweetheart and treats me like a princess. what do i do?
I hate sounding like this, but isn't it obvious? I personally think you should forget about your Ex, despite your past with him and move on. He has obviously done that already. If you want to, you can try to date the other guy, but that's a choice you will have to make. And if you call your ex, hes not going to want to hear about a new guy, just like you hated looking at his page and seeing his new girl. Overall, hes trying not to think about you while in his new relationship. You can try to keep in contact with him if you want, but in the end, whether or not a friendship lasts between you guys depends on both of you. And if you do date the new guy, then moving on will become seriously needed, because guys don't like having to deal with their girls exes, just like a girl hates dealing about their guys exes...
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how do u create and icon and put it as your icon?
Check out this site
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/library/ms997636.aspx
It may help you out, though I'm not really sure because you didn't specify what system you use(mac, windows, etc.) or if you have any sort of programs that can already make icons(photoshop, etc.) If you dont have any programs and you can't download anything off the internet, I suggest you live with what you have. And I dont recommend downloading programs off the internet anyways do to malicious software and viruses that are all over the place in the web.
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((sorry if this question is on the wrong catagory))
ok,at my school((at any other school for that matter here in the US))guys always drool for the confident girls((even the shy guys)),and as for the shy girls they hardly even take notice in them.
what I want to know is that if it's true what guys say when a girl is confident they're sexy?Then what about shy girls?I know that there are shy girls out there and they are cute but does very guy always want a confident girl?
Its not always the case per say, but a girl who is confident in herself guys are more likely to notice. Simply because the ones who are confident know they are good looking attempt to show it off. Because of this, guys become distracted with the girls who show off than then girls who stand back in the scenery.
Now, not all guys are like that, some think its cute for a girl to be shy. Confidence goes a long way, but it can get you bad remarks if someone is too confident in themselves. And another thing about confident girls is they tend not to be able to hold a relationship all that well, most of the time because they don't know what a true relationship is. Shy ones will usually grasp the concept watching from the background and are more likely to find a good guy and hold a steady relationship however it may be, more so than any confident girl I know.
People are all different, so what you hear or see isn't always true. In a way, it can be, but in some cases, not so much.
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i want to know what people think about it and how to help it. i'm just really worried about it because it's getting worse everyday, and i want to help so..
The environment has been slowly breaking down as time has been going on since the time of Industrialization, when the world was flourished and the environment wasn't such a big issue. Really, there's nothing we can do now that can significantly help it. Mostly because industries can't change their ways do to competition and profit, and because we are already literally so deep in crap right now that we will be very lucky if we can fix this before it gets too far out of hand. The best way you can help is throw away garbage and don't leave it around or throw it on the ground. Recycling. Less driving. Use the air dryers instead of paper towels in the bathrooms. There are thousands of ways that you can help the environment steadily heal itself. Its a matter of everyone else doing them that's the issue. SO as long as you do your part, your helping the world works its way through recovery. ^^
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Okay, so this year just started 8th grade has been extremely diffrent and not in a good way. I've known Cole for about a year now, and last year he wasn't the nicest person to me but this year he's been ONE OF THE nicest and really cute. All my friends say he's flirting with me and Im A-OK with that.
and i got him whipped. frkn i called him from halfway across the room to pick my pencil up and he just kicked it to me, and i was like.. u didnt pick it up. so we started agruing about why i couldnt.. and Skye was like JESUS CRIST I WILL and she bent over, but before she even got it he like Jedi Mastered hahaha and gave it to me and he was like =D and it was so cute. and Skye was like.. Did you notice the look he just gave you, cuz we did look at eachother for a while haha.
and today he got in a fight and i was like =O because I sat next to him because he looks so sad, and I was worried. he told me Alex tried starting a fight and the whole story, and then like my friends Becky, Adam, Skye, Alannah come over and hes like Your Tag Alongs are here... so I dont think he likes me friends very much but hes just joking with them so its not that big of a deal.
A lot of people don't like Cole, which I dont care about.
Everyones says hes flirting with me.
But i have low self esteem and I dont think so.
What are some common things guys do when they flirt with someone.
-He sticks up with me when gay kids like matt flirt very icky with me like throwing cap erasers down my shirt.
-Picks my pencil up and smiles-- long and enough that people notice.
-Were always talking, and my Best friend Becky is like When Did You Guys Become Besties?
Just, some signs that he might like me because im completely clueless when it comes to this stuff.
Well, everyone's definition of flirting is different. Sadly, there is no fixed way to tell if a guy likes you or not, cause each one has a different way of showing it as well. From what it looks, he either does really like you or hes being a really nice guy, or at least trying to be. If he wasn't really that nice from the year back, he might have noticed this year and is trying to do a 180 with his life. And you either seem to be the one hes trying to impress or notices that hes different. I'm not really sure, but its likely. Because you say you don't care other dislike him, which he probably notices.
One things for sure, you shouldn't completely trust what other people say. Because most of the time, they have no clue. For example, if you starting dating a guy and everyone says your a really cute couple, they think it will last but they don't know that you two have already started to have problems and know it won't last. People are oblivious, so don't completely trust your friends when they say some guy is flirting with you...
If you really want to know if he likes you, ask him. His reaction should say everything if he tries to deny it. I don't suggest doing it, but its a quick and simple way to know. Either way, he seems like a good guy.
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okay so im being forced join this intensive outpatient therapy shit and i really really dont want to go. so i have to go to group therapy for three hours, four days a week. they gave me all this information about it and papers i had to fill out and i was reading some one of them and it said that i didnt HAVE to do it if i didnt want to. i want to take that opportunity and tell them that i dont have to do it but i dont want to be wrong! im only a minor (im 14) so does that mean that if i dont want to participate i dont have to? even though my parents are making me?
thanks in advance :)
If the papers say you dont have to, then the papers are right. Because legally, you do have the right to deny therapy if its not medically needed. And they only say that because they can't really force people into therapy, they have to go willingly. Now if your parents are forcing you to go, then thats up to your parents. Since your a minor, you really can't do anything about it if you can't convince your parents.
Which really gives you three choices, convince your parents you dont need/want to go, go and try not to participate, or go and cooperate and get through it like a normal person. Its all up to you. Cause one choice may lead to another and you might end up trying the first one and wind up ending with the last one. You never know. But its all up to you to do something about it.
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okay i pressed download, and it says it 'll take like 1 day 4 hours. i want it really bad, is there another QUICKER way, if i shut my pc down, and boot it back up tomorow will the download start all over or what? AND is this game worth It/
If it says it takes a day, theres not much you can do about it except let your computer sit there and do nothing but download. And even then there might be problems. If you shut your PC off, its most likely going to get an error message and have to start over again. And the game looks cool, but you will probably get bored with it quite fast. Its like Dance Dance Revolution with your fingers on the arrow keys. Its not really worth downloading at all. But if your still convinced you want it, you'll have to let your computer sit for about a day and four hours and hope it downloads completely and then wait more to install the dang program and then wait for it to update. Then you might be able to play after the first really long loading sequence that happens for most programs.
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Okay, for my english class we had to read "The Martian Chronicles" over the summer. As a project in relation to this book, we are making a sort of TV show/Radio show, about a certain part of the book.
My group's part is about the following:
+ People from Earth began heading to Mars to build towns.
+ Trees and plants were planted in order to produce oxygen.
+ Changing the names of the Martian towns/mountains/oceans.
I was thinking anything that has to do with destructive change.
If anyone has an idea for a song that has to do with any of these, it would be greatly appreciated.
You can try using a song from the band System of a Down, but you have to be careful as some of their songs have sexual innuendos and curse words. But a few songs in particular are good, such as Science by them, which talks about how science isn't helping our world.
Thats the only band I can think of whose songs deal with destructive change... Sadly I don't have the time to look up anything or try to think of more, but they are a good band to use for the subject.
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my granny is 90 years old and she can't really take care of herself so she's living with my aunt right now and whenever my aunt has to go somewhere i look after my granny so she isn't by herself and i wait on her hand and foot. I fix her coffee, give her meds,and fix her supper and she never appreciates any of it and it's really starting to bug me i mean i don't mind looking after my granny for my aunt but granny could at least say thankyou for everything i do for her and i want to tell her off somithing terrible but i hold in my anger and don't say anything about it but i don't know how much longer i can keep my mouth shout what should i do when i want to release my anger out on my granny please help!
First of all, take in mind she's 90 years old. Old age will take its toll on the her and she may not really think about saying thank you. Not because she doesn't appreciate it, but because her brain doesn't point it out fast enough. Or maybe sometime in her past, something happened in which she doesn't say thank you. Such as not being taught, forgetting, or some event that made her stop. Overall, you should try to feel good about yourself for helping someone at her age, because there is a lot of things she can't do on her own.
Secondly, if you start to get angry with her, try walking out of the room and count to ten. Take a deep breathe and then continue what your doing. though make sure your not doing anything at the moment first. It will help most of the time. If you already frustrated with her, before you approach her or do anything with her, take a deep breathe so that you calm yourself down before helping her. You can always talk to your aunt about it if you want to, but I understand if you don't want to. But she might have a good explaination or be able to talk to your Granny. But point being, you should remain calm at all times.
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So I read somewhere that if a teenager doesn't consume about 1800 calories a day, (or in the high thousands) then their body will go into starvation mode.
I eat less than that, probably around 1000ish, 1200 at most if I'm not eating at a restaurant. Not because I'm dieting (although I want to lose weight, but I'm doing that through exercise), but simply because I eat till I'm full.
Would that mean that my body is in starvation mode? I can't really force myself to eat more.
Starvation mode is where your body begins to break down whatever it can to survive, such as muscle tissue or remaining fat. Its a terribly slow and agonizing process if nothing done, because it just slowly gets worse as time goes by. But...
Those statisics are faulty, because every teenager is different. If those statistics are true, then I eat too much... and I'm pretty damn skinny. So overall you should not worry about it. As long as your weight loss is a steady trickle or a bit more and you aren't losing muscle mass, then your maintaining at your metabolic rate, which is good.
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I always go into the bathroom with her if I think she's going to throw up but once she in there purging I cant do anything. She just puked todat without inducing it and it was all blood and I think she's dying. I need some advice quick!!!
Convince her to see a doctor before it gets way too far out of hand, or call one up yourself if you have to and can. If shes throwing up blood, its already very bad. Tell an adult if its out of your hands, like a councilor or parents. They are more likely to get a hold of someone that can help.
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Hi. Me and my boy friend we planned not to have intercourse until we will get married. We kiss each other on cheeks with our full love. Some days back he touched my stomach inside the shirt and breast over the bra. Is it safe or should i stop him...?
Another question is that what acts are there we can do to xpress our love and care which will not lead to pregnancy?
I hope you will enhance my information.
Thank you.
You didnt' tell me what your ages are(not that you needed to) so I'll be a tad bit limited.
Its a good ting that you guys choose not to have sex till marriage, its a choice most people forget to consider and end up ruining their future.
I personally think that touching is alright, as long as it doesn't get too far. It may not get too far to you, but for him it can be. If he seems to be getting to close below your waist, stop him. Otherwise, as long as your comfortable, he can do whatever.
To express how much you guys love each other, try to resort to gifts or little signs of affection. Anything sensual can get a little too far it it continues too often, but every now and again is okay. I'm not saying you can't kiss each other, but touching each other in a sensual way or anything farther than that can make things get out of hand.
And make sure he doesn't get too far with anything. He may not seem like he would want to have sex, but guys usually have a higher sexual drive than females, so he may push it a little. You might do it too, every now and again, so just keep you guys in check
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She threw up blood today and I don't know how to help her. I need some advice.
Shes pretty far down the road of bulimia. You should probably try to convince her to see a doctor and councilor. You should be with her if you care a lot about her, but you should not try and deal with it on your own. It puts way too much stress on you. By seeing a doctor they can figure out if she has severe problems with her throat, stomach or mouth. Meeting a councilor will further help you help her to get better as well as convince her there's a better way.
But when neither are going on, you have to make sure that she doesn't try to either binge(eat a lot of food in one sitting), attempt to go throw it up, or tries to move on to another eating disorder. You should be the one that tells her no, that blocks her from the influences that make her want to resort to bulimia, and help her recover. But its your choice, how you resolve it is up to you.
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whats more damaging to your hair. hair products such as curling gels/creams or hair straighteners?
depends on how much is used. Too much of either will begin to damage your hair. although certain hair products like gels and creams won't damage your hair as fast as others. It all depends on the ingredients and if you follow the instructions, as well as washing your hair often enough that it can renew its own natural oils. There are hair products that will also help with straighteners. I can't exactly tell you which ones but I know they are out there somewhere, do some research if you can or take a look down the aisle and read the bottles. That and you can always ask your hair dresser what they recommend.
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What year did the impressionism era begin and end? I can't find it anywhere on the internet. Can someone find me a website or something?? Thanks!
I've gotten from:
1830-about1930
1874-1886
and stuff between there... Its obvious no one really knows when it started so you can either use wiki or try and average out a certain beginning and ending date.
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ever since i can remember i've felt like i'm living in the wrong time..like i feel like i shoud live in the 80's or 70's. i am obsessed with everything from back in those times and always wish so hard that i could live then instead of now. i feel like back then everything was much easier and relaxed and there wasn't as many world problems and stuff as there is now. all of my favorite movies, music, and actors are from back then but then it sucks becuase the actors are older now so it's weird since i'm just a teen..i just feel like iwas meant to live back then. sometimes i even get depressed about this and people ask me what would make you happy? and really what would make me happy is living in the 70's or 80's but i know that's impossible now. it just sucks because i totally hate this time era. i feel like techonology ruins everything and lets people know things they aren't meant to know, and that's why everyone fights so much. i just feel like all this technology is unnatural, and i feel lke in the 70's or 80's it was at the perfect balance. in my dream world i would be a child in the 70's and a teen in the 80's...i would be so happy. because i feel like techonology and the new world now ruins everything. can anyone help me? i just want to feel better about the time i'm living.and has this happened to anyone else? or do i just have problems?what can i do to feel better about the time i live in! i just love the 80's and 70's so muchh.
You should be yourself, no matter what "era" you feel you should live in. A certain time period of the world is irrelevant to what you want to be now. You can still be accepted today if you want to dress in retro styles. You don't have to accept technology for what it is or have to care about the problems of others, its all a matter of choice. If people choose not to accept you for who you are, they are simply not accepting there past and how things slowly came to be as well as you profound affinity for the 80's and 70's. Thankfully there are people who won't care that you like the eras and may even like the fact you enjoy them. You can only be you, and nothing should change that.
And not trying to be a bearer of bad news or contradiction to what you like, but the 80's and 70's weren't all that great. Sure all kinds of things were great and nearly everything was laid back. But in the 70's countless wars were being fought and economy was dropping steadily. The entire world was practically on collapse. And in the 80's everything did get better, however, the US was always in fear of being Nuked by the USSR and many things else went wrong. In all actuality, its better to enjoy that era now, where it can be accepted anyways and not have as many problems that those times did, than to have to deal with all the problems of those times. Because back in the day, things were much harder than they were today.
I still like the fact you want to be different and like things from the past. You should still enjoy what you like, but still accept today for what it is. You can live and act like your in the eras of the past, and still use the tech and knowledge of today to your benefit. You never know, you might start a new trend...
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so for the first time in a long time, i really feel like all my friends have moved on from me. they either got bored, or found someone better. i am usually very confident and happy, i'm just shy with new people. i'm not sure what to do with myself anymore. also, i'm drifting from all my best friends; especially one that i've had for 11 years. (i'm 15 , shes 17). i feel like i can't relate to anyone anymore, many of my friend's changed. if anyone has gone through this, what did you do to cope? any help on this would be appreciated, thankyou so much
Coincidentally I'm right now dealing with this, though I've dealt with it in the past as well. Its actually really hard to cope with this kind of thing, and being shy about meeting just makes it harder. I know, cause I have a weird phobia against people I don't know. We all have to understand change will always happen, for better or for worse.
But sometimes you just have to figure out a way to get out of your comfort zone and meet new people. Its hard, I know, but relating to someone isn't just what being a friend is all about. If you can believe in the concept "Opposites attract" than you can sort of relate to more people than those who are like you. Variety is a far better thing than straight line relations. The best way I find to cope with this, is still try to be friends with whom I still have, and still make other friends. True friends will never drift away, and even if they become separated their memories still remain in their hearts.
This is really the only way I've found to deal with losing friends over time. That, and I just learn to move on and accept life for what it is. Let the past be the past, and focus on today and tomorrow. Those are the times when things count most.
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whats a good idea for a political cartoon about the dust bowl or the great depression? i need a few more thanks!
How about a melting pot thats empty, and everyone is looking down it all depressed lol
Or make New York into a giant desert and make all the people look Islamic.
The point is, get creative, think of something you would find funny and know everyone else will get your message. Be appropriate of course, but think about problems of yesterday, today, and tomorrow and incorporate them into a cartoon about a certain subject.
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On the my toolbar there is this red circle with a white X. and it says windoes has dected spyware infection. and all this other stuff. How can I fix this?
First run a scan through your Virus Detection software. If you don't have one, download McAffee or a reliable Virus Detection software. This might resolve the problem. It could be possible its a spamware program or spam bot caught in your windows trying to get you to download a false virus detecting program so be sure not to click any popups that tell you to download a certain program. In which your Virus Detection software should detect as well and remove.
Do not try to remove it yourself by tinkering around your system, unless you know exactly what your doing. If the virus scan doesn't find it, call the Geek Squad or computer expert to help you.
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Hey, thank you so much for the suggestion on Windows Movie Maker, I checked to see if my computer had it, and there it was under programs. Anyway every time I try to import music I'll click the import music thing, click itunes under documents and pick one of the choices for the many bands. But when I click import it says I have to write the file name. I'll write what it says for the particular band in the box but it doesn't work. Any suggestions?
You cant use music from Itunes, Windows Moviemaker doesnt view Itunes music files as media files. You have to use file types .aif, .aifc, .aiff .asf, .au, .mp2, .mp3, .mpa, .snd, .wav, and You can see them in the supported file types from the Help Topics menu.
Its a Mac vs. PC programing. There really isnt anyway I know of to resolve a way to use Itunes Music. You cant transfer music from Itunes to Windows Media Player either, I tried. But what you can do is try Newgrounds.com, which is a site that has tons of user made music that you can download for free. It may not be exactly what you want, but its a suggestion. You could try other places for free music downloads, but I dont know any other than Newgrounds.com. But make sure the file you are trying to use are media files that have the above, or what Supported File Types in Help Topics say you can use.
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