Question Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 2:32 pm
last night, i went on a double date w/ my friend, her boyfriend and his friend. and he's reallly cute, and super sweet and i feel like we had really good chemistry, like the 1st half of the movie, he didn't hold my hand, but before when our hands brushed, i got butterflies, and when he finally did, i got them too..
but i really seemed to like him, then i got home and looked at my exs myspace, he was my first 'love' and we have each others virginity, not to mention he and i were so comfortable with each other and stuff. and when i looked at his page, i literally got sick. he took me off his top, and the new girl he's talking too is on there. i felt like i was gonna be sick.
idk if i should keep going out w/ this guy, or call my ex, or what. my ex and i don't really speak.. AT ALL. but i love talking to him, dating or not. it's just so weird. he didn't really treat me very good though, but the new guy is a total sweetheart and treats me like a princess. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Psycotheis answered Saturday September 13 2008, 7:48 pm: I hate sounding like this, but isn't it obvious? I personally think you should forget about your Ex, despite your past with him and move on. He has obviously done that already. If you want to, you can try to date the other guy, but that's a choice you will have to make. And if you call your ex, hes not going to want to hear about a new guy, just like you hated looking at his page and seeing his new girl. Overall, hes trying not to think about you while in his new relationship. You can try to keep in contact with him if you want, but in the end, whether or not a friendship lasts between you guys depends on both of you. And if you do date the new guy, then moving on will become seriously needed, because guys don't like having to deal with their girls exes, just like a girl hates dealing about their guys exes... [ Psycotheis's advice column | Ask Psycotheis A Question ]
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