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Suicide - A CRY FOR HELP
A suicide attempt is a cry for help -- a desperate effort to end the pain of problems that have become overwhelming.
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"I'm here for you."
"I want to hear about what's bothering you."
"I really care about you."
"Let's talk and figure out how to make things better."
"Things are tough now but they will change - you've got to hang in there and I'm here to help."
"I would feel horrible if you hurt yourself and I don't want you to die."
"If I can't help you, I'll help you find someone who can help."
"No one and nothing is worth taking your life for."
What You Can Do To Help A Depressed Or Suicidal Friend.
Listen to your friend with concern.
Ask your friend if he ever felt this bad before. If so, how did he handle the situation?
Share a time when you felt pretty bad and assure your friend that things can and will change.
Be especially concerned if your friend takes drugs and/or alcohol because their judgement is impaired.
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Let your friend know that many people think about suicide but never actually attempt it.
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Stay with a depressed person. Do something together.
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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(
No, there is nothing wrong with you. The tampon you might want to use is tampax pearl. Very comfortable. Also, insert the tampon while sitting down and your legs spread open. Insert it at an upward angle. This should work
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I want to try out for my highschools cheerleading squad.. Ive never cheered b4 but i heard that high school tryout are hard. if u tried out for you high schools cheerleading squad, what did you have to do?
You do jumps, tumbles like flips and tucks and back hand springs.
Then you have to learn a cheer and do it infront of them. The you practice formations and crapp
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Well i really miss my brother!! Hes in iraq and i dont know if he will make it home!! Can someone help me think hes safe!! He teaches me EVERYTHING!! I LOVE HIM(JON)!!!
Well i under stand you situation. My foster father is in Iraq right now. Its really hard on me. Plus i have alot of older friends that inlisted so there out there also. I actually have about um......17 friends in iraq. Not one of them wounded
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ok I have known some one sence I was like born and then we havent seen each other in like 6 years and then we both change schools and it turns out that we go to the same school. his name is Colby and I have fallin in love with him. BUt I dont want to be because I think it will mess up are friendship. I dont know what to do what should I.
Megan
Personally, i think the best thing to do is too telll him. Then you wont have this huge burden inside of you. Things might be wierd at first but then every thing will just fine. Who knows, he might just like you the same way back.
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Okay, my best friend in the whole wide world is moving. And I have no idea what to say to him. He's only going like 30 minutes away, but he's my best friend! And I don't know how to deal with this anymore. I'll miss him to much. How can I get over this?
Call him every day. Tell him how much you miss his company. Tell him even if he is far away yall can still hang out and he can talk to youy about anything.
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grl i love your advice! and thank you from mine :D (grl with tha band.. guy that was hitting on me lol) it really helped!
i like how you have all those #'s of services that people could really use lol its kool!
well just thought id let ya know! :D
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Well, thank you for the positive input!!! But if you have any question, feel free to ask. It might take pretty long to answer because im going to a place with limited internet service, but still feel free!!!
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All right.. so last Monday I got in some trouble.. I helped a friend out.. and I'm being charged with a misdemeanor.. The cop who was there at the time gave the Tom(the guy who called the cops) a peice of paper saying where to go to put in the warrant for my arrest.. and that was all on monday.. today's saturday.. does anyone have ANY idea how long he has to go in and do that? or how long this sort of thing takes?
depends on what happened
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(im 15/f)ok so im starting a band. and 2 of them are guys, 19. And one of them started comming earlyer last week... and he sang all these love songs.. it kinda creeped me out.. and then when the other guy showed up he was all normal again. But then when he was trying to show my something on the drums he put his hands over mine while holding the sticks. (like they do in movies you know? when a guy likes a girl..) it felt ocward too.. but hes also been like really nice to my parents too.. like trying to impress them. Its really freaking me out and i dont know if i even want to be in the band with them anymore.. and we just go together too.
sorry its so long.. thank you to those who help though :D i really appreciate it
Well sit him down and say to him " so and so, lately i have been getting vibes from you. Like when you put your hands on mine when playing the drums and showing up and playing loves songs. If you like me that way, thats GREAT, but you see i would rather us just be friends. your a great guy but i think theres someone so much better for you then me." you know something like that
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Anyone know any healthy ways to loose weight in 3 months? I'll rate anyone with good tips. Thanks!
Go to your local gym. Eat healthy. Get very active. Eat more fruits and veggies. Dont use as much salt. Broil dont bake or grill. go swimming, go running, walk for 1:00 hour. do sit ups. do push ups. go bicycleing!!
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I'm switching schools next year so I won't be going back. I want to admit to my guy friend that I have feelings for him. I like him alot but I know he likes another girl & she knows that. If I tell him how I feel, do you think things will be weird this summer if he rejects, since I planned on hanging out with him as friends anyways?
Acctually the same the happened to me but sorta flipped. I liked this guy Diego. He's from mexico and said he was only gonna be here for a year. He was really sweet and nice and a truely genuine person. WEll on the last day of school i gave him my number and said, Diego, i really like you, i have for a long time. i just wanted to tell you that. you dont have to like me i jsut wanted to tell you. well the next day he called me and said"Ava, i really like you too. It's just that im moving back to mexico and i dont wanna have a relations ship with a girl thats 10,000 miles away." i under stood well then a week later he found out that his father was staying because he got a huge job here in new york. So now we have been going out for 2 1/2 years and we are truely in love. So for you i dont think it would be any different. its fine things shouldn't change. I mean he will then know you like him so if he starts like ya your still there!!
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ok so i weigh about 126... and i need to weigh 105 before a start to wear my swimming suit!!!!!!! please help me and dont say i dont need to loose weight because you dont know that. how do you loose 21 pounds in like 3weeks???? do i just not eat?!
WORK OUT AT YOUR LOCAL GYM. do sit ups. run . swim. eat right, any thing that basically getts you heart pumping and you sweating.
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On a scale of one to ten how much does it matter to a guy when looking for a gfhow heavy she is? I mean not obcenely heavy but definately not thin.
Just looking for insight into a guys mind!!
umm let me call my brother Jesse....... 5 minutes later. He says a 4 or a 5. now for another guyys in put. my best friend Nehemiah..... 3 minutes later.... he says about a 5 or 6 and now the tie braker.... my b/f Diego....2 1/2 minutes...... he say 5. So this advice took along time but you can ask other guys for advice to
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Is there somethin special that guys like about a girls ears? My boyfriend is always kissin on my ears and plays with my earings with his tongue. What is so fascinating?
I don't know. My boy friend likes to do that to but i really dont get it. I guess it turns them on or something. But when my boy friend gets a little TOO close i shove him aaway. Now he knows his limit!!! ha ha ha
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i was wondering if VEET bladless shaving actually works?? and if so how long do your legs stay smooth?
it works for me it worked for about 2 to 4 weeks
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ok well 3 years ago i went on a cruise and i was hanging out with 2 guys and my cousin, my cousin's name is Lexi, my friend i met on the cruise were Matt and Reily. I started to like Reily, and Matt liked me, and Reily liked Lexi, and lexi liked no one. We were playing truth or dare and Reily was dared to kiss me but didnt, then he held my hand! i was young and it was the first time a guy ever did that, i was melting in my seat when my aunt *Lexi's mother* comes in and we quickly pull away from eachother and she yells at me and Lexi cause we were supposted to be in this one room but we left- with 2 guys! so we werent aloud to see them again, i was crying on my buncbed cause she had ruined my first holding hands moment with a guy i liked, the phone rang and with relief i answered it, It was Matt! Matt said the only reason Reily held my hand earlier was because he was drugged up! so my grandma was listening on my phonecall and the next day told everyone that i was hanging out with druggies!!! Reily was taking benidryl because earlier on the boat he got sick! so they said i couldn't see them, i ran outta the room and Lexi and my other cousin after me, my cousin pinned me against the wall and was choking me! and Lexi was watching and was scared, some how, i got away and then they dragged me all the way back the whole public saw me!! So then i was known as the "hellchild" and my one aunt said that my other cousin, Caitlyn had it before me then i got it, BUT WHAT ABOUT LEXI?! the ages are Caitlyn, Lexi, then me! THEY SKIPPED LEXI! and they didnt give her a label! So now 3 years later i still feel bad for that day and i'm mad still and my aunt just recently asked me to go down *where all my family lives .. the same neighborhood!* i dont want to, cause i know that to get rid of my horrid label is to let them walk all over me, and if i act like "the hellchild" i'll be miserable. What the hell do i do?!?!? i'll rate high!
*Jill*
Well i understand your situation. Something like this happened to me. I was at the mall with my best friend, her boyfriend, and my boyfriend. My dad called my cell and asked where i was. I told him at the mall. HE started yelling at me and said that he said i couldnt go to the mall. He came over and i told him that he said i could go to the mall and he called me a lying bitch. i started running and he caught up with me and pinned me down. turns out he told some dumbass story to his friends that i was selling my self. so i got know as the "wild child" to his friends. But after a year it went down because i told them the story and they ended up believeing me. dont let them walk all over you but dont act like the hell child act somewhere in the middle. dont let them walk all over you but still act like your in control
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well im gonna be cheering this year, i've only cheered once in 6th grade. but the squad im about to enter they do stunts and jumps, my question is how can i get better in the jumping ? i have until august, i wanna be good at the jumping because this is a competitive squad ! ♥
You can go to a gymnastics place and train there all summer. Thats what my twin sista Evie did when she hadn't been cheering for a while and had to go back. What she did is the went on the trampoline for 1 hour practiced front flips and back flips with an instructor and her jumps. then she went on the florr and practiced her jumps. then she practiced her flips with a coach holding on to her back when she ddoes a back flip.
In no time you'll be good at flips and jumps!
OH YEA STRETCH!!!!!
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Well my friend still thinks shes pregnet but hasnt had sex!! Shes geting some symtoms of pregnety!! And if you were pregnet would you be able to suck your stomic in??? And does your bellly button stick out or in like normal???
Get a home pregnancy test. This will be very help ful
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ok i am 15/f pleez help event tho this is going to be a long one! and my stupid sister is so different from me...personality wise...she is so mean to everyone that she knows...im not, she doesnt care about peoples feelings or how they feel...i do, she has no feelings whatsoever like whenever i go to school i say "bye i love you," and she doesnt say anything back! i mean my mom is a single parent and she raised us both the same way...so how did i turn out to be so nice and have her be so evil? well anyway, yesterday i was online and my sister was just on for like 2.5 hours and i got up to try on some new makeup that i found online, then i saw her on the computer and i told her that she better not get on because i wasnt done yet. so she said,"i just wanna put these pics on here" so i let her and when i wanted to go back on she had like 3 websites up and a crapload of people on that she was talking to. so i told her to get off and that she was just on for hours. and she said ok but kept on with what she was doing. so i screamed"GET OFF!" and she jumped. so i left because i was so mad and by the time i got back, i could read her IM to her friend and it went like this: sister:im scared, her friend:well give her a twinkie and tell her to be good...well i am the kind of person that really is not happy with their weight and for them to be so mean like that really hurt my feelings so i yelled at her started busting out crying and SHE DIDNT EVEN FEEL BAD!!! she just told me that i think im so important that i think everyone talks about me. i was like whatever. so my question is(sorry for being so long) why r we so different and ive also been having some thoughts about crash dieting bc nothing else works? should i i only weigh around 135 and im 5foot 7inches and im 15.
No the normal weight for a person 5'7 is aroun 145 to 155
My friend had the same problem with her weight and she went on a crash diet. She ended up being hospitalized and then the doctor told her before she started the crash diet she was under the normal weight (130) for her hieght (5'7). In the end when she was hospitalized she was weighting in to a whooping 93.7LBS
Crash dieting is a horrible thing to do.
What you can do is try to eat healthier. Exercise every day. Do sit ups. Push ups. Run and go swimming. Bike. Just go for a walk with your friend so you can talk. or go by your self and listen to a portable cd player or an mp3 player or an iPOD.
iN THE end it will all work out!
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My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children?
You should definantly go see a specialist. It helped my best friend Johanna's mother. ANd the molestation shouldn't be affecting it. But jsut in case, i would go see a phsyciatrist just to make sure thats not one of the problems, which i doubt it is.
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I didn't really know what to put this under, but oh well. Around my house there is NOTHING to do. I mean I have a ps2 and tvs and IMs. But it's all so boring. Does anyone know any good websites I can go to or anything I can do to make life more exciting? P.s. I live in a small area with like nothing in the town to do and I have no one til like 3 during the day to take me anywhere.
www.pogo.com
www.bored.com
www.miniclip.com
www.ebaumsworld.com
www.vhi.com
www.addictinggames.com
I go to all of those. i raelly like bored.com because it has a variety of different things you can do.
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