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Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!!

Trust me, You dont want guys to go out with you for your chest size! you will grow eventually, theres nothing you can do.

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I'm 14/f and I've never had a real boyfriend. My only "boyfriend" if you can him that lasted for 1/2 day and I broke up with him because I get all nervous around guys that like me. I get really sweaty and light headed, sometimes my stomach starts to hurt too. Is this a normal reaction to guys that like me? I have also never kissed a boy. What is the average age for first kisses?

Your just nervous around guys, theres nothing wrong with that. I think the average age for first kisses is 16 or somewhere around there. Im 15 and never had a real boyfriend or been kissed o.o

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I am a theater freak. Recently I tried out for the play 'Aladdin'. But, I found out today I didn't get the part I want, and I got a small part instead. All my friends got cool parts like the Genie, Aladdin, Jasmine, the main parts. I feel really rejecting, I've never got rejected from a part I wanted before...

You cant get the lead role everytime. Just try and make the best of your small part :) Its good that other people get a chance to have big roles too. Maybe in the next play you can get the lead role. Just keep up your theater work!

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A while back, I used to use a lot of hairspray and gel on my hair and, when the stuff would drip onto my back, it would break out.

Since then, I've stopped using leave-in hair products altogether but my skin is still breaking out.

First of all, my back is awful. It's a lot clearer than it was a couple months ago but the acne never seems to completely go away.

The skin on my chest is also bad. I have little, red bumps all over and, although the pimples aren't that big, their very red. I can't wear any low-cut shirts because of this.

Also, I have a problem with the skin on my inner-thighs. It's not acne. In fact, I'm not entirely sure what it us. But I do know that I've have little, red bumps all over my thighs and they're EXTREMELY hard to get rid of.

Can anyone tell me how I can get rid of these pimples (and redness) on my back and chest fast?

And does anyone know what the bumps on my legs are and how to get rid of them?

Thanks in advance!

(Sorry if this is posted twice.. O.o It didn't show up the first time..)

I think you need to go see a dermatoligist. Ask you mom if she can take you. Then you can get some prescribed medication for it. I did, and it tottaly changed my skin! I barely get zits at all now :)

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does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink?

No it doesnt have anything to do with weight loss. Drinking water is still good for you though :)

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ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself

help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2

You need to tell his parents or someone who can get him some help. Hes controling you buy threatening himself. this isnt your fault and you shouldnt have to deal with this. He needs a mental proffesional.

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I'm going to be having sex soon with my boyfriend. I've tried to talk to my mom about it but she thinks I'm too young and I should wait until I'm absolutely ready. I feel ready and I usually tell my mom everything. She's someone I tell my most private things to and I want her to help me get birth control and be there for support. How can I get my mom to understand I'm very serious about all this? I could never have sex without her knowing I'm sexually active! (I'm 15 and a virgin)

If your mom doesnt approve you should wait. It could ruin your whole relationship with your mom which is way more important than sex. I think your too young too.

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well i had my period.. n they were like all the symptoms n everything so im sure i had it.. but ive missed my period date?? idk wats going on.. i tried to wait a few extra days but its been like 4-5 days n i sitll havent gotten it? its my 2nd time getting my period so i dunno is that normal? im not very close with my mom.. so i cant really talk to ehr about it.. i dunno what to do! helppp!! ((n i havent been having sex lol so it cant be that))

If its only your second period you may not even get it for a couple of months. I had my first period then didnt get my second for about 5 months. Dont worry its normal

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I have to get an MRI done on my head...(lol) n im closterphobic(sp?)..anyone know any ways to help me get thru that hour?

Well this may sound odd but, Ask your doctor for some Valium. It helps alot to calm you down! Ive taken it once before, Didnt have any bad side effects.

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Ok, i'm not sure if thats how u spell it but still.....okay i sweat. and i dont mean a little i mean a lot! i'm female by the way. so all my real cute lil shirts i cant wear b/c i sweat so much it shows wet spots underneath my arms (and only there, not my hands or anything like that) my parents refuse to take me to the doctor. I've tried powder, anti*persprent, and al the specail deoderants!! Does guys deoderant work better, if so what kind? and do u have any ideas on what i can do? thanks so much!

I have this problem to X_X Ive found that aerasol ( the stuff in the spray can) guys deoderant works pretty well, better than the stick kind. It sucks though doesnt it! i hate it when my shirts get all wet >.> If you find a good solution for this could you please tell me?

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13/Female...I have jouvenile diabetes, which is sad because everyday, i have to prick my finger everyday BUT i'm used to it so it doesnt matter. anyway, i'm going to school next monday (i have never been to regular school, only homeschool) and im thinking that everyone will make fun of me because during class, i will have to go to the bathroom and prick my finger. im afraid everyone will make fun of me :( How do i explain to them that this is okay and im just a normal human being and im just like everyone else?

No I doubt anyone will make fun of you. I know people at school with diabetes and no one ever makes fun of them. If someone askes you what you have to go do just tell them you have diabetes! No ones going to poke fun at that o-o Theres nothing funny about it. (( You are soo lucky to have been homeschooled, I wish I were homeschooled!))

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Im awesome at school but not sure on math.I always see waht others are doing and try to improve but it just isnt working.please help!
sincerely,
Utterly Stumped

Maybe you should ask your teacher for a little extra help. Sometimes its basic concepts that confuse people. Once they figure the basic things out it helps them alot with the more complex stuff!

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Why do people capitilize random letters when they tipe?

lYke thiS iT iS So AnnoYing

No one knows, but yes, Its extremely annoying.

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hey im 13 almost 14 n 118 pounds is that a alot! im 5'3

No, Thats a very normal weight :)

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help... tomorrow im starting high skool. i have been dreading this for so long. My skool is enourmos, it has 3 floors and i dont no where ANY of my classes are. i have no friends in my 1st or 2nd class. omg this is the scarriet day of my life. help me.. what should i do
thanx

this is going to sound rude but, Work on your spelling or your english teacher is going to fail you!

Hem, Dont worry, All the freshmen will be just as confused as you are. You'll get the hang of it pretty fast!

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ok......i'm 16 and theres this guy who's 20 that i like alot. he has been wanting to go out with me but my dad wont let me bcuz he says hes to old for me. well my friends keep tellin me i should just dont let my dad find out. what should i do? is there a way to get my dad to let? please help

No you shouldnt go out. If you guys got cuaght your dad could get the guy in serious trouble with the law

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is it tru that if your Pg n u drink vodka will it kill the baby???

Any Alchohal, not just vodka, can cuase birth defects. It probably could kill the baby but its more likely to give it birth defects.

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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE

Well make sure you never just bluntly say "no" If there grabbing something they shouldnt say "thats not a toy" When kids here No alot they start repeating it. Also, Make sure you talk to them alot when you arnt mad so they dont associate all your talking with them being in trouble. If you can help it, dont yell. Just sit them down and explain to them what you need them to do and maybe offer a small reward.

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OK i met this boi n the problem is hes 19 n im 14 n we really really like each other but we have a problem its my parents n he goes well babe listen i no your parents dont like the fact that where talkin but we really like each other will u date me n i said i dunno..should i cause u n ohe might be the right 1

Well doing that could get him in some serious trouble with the law. Maybe you better put your relationship on hold.

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is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought

No its not slutty if you dont let it hang out of your pants. If no one can tell your wearing it then whos going to know?

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