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there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns? (link)
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If so many girls like you and you do decide to play them then most likely those girls will stop liking you.How bout becomes friends and see what they are about before getting into a relationship cause you might find a girl you really like and end up hurting her.Good Luck with this all cause maybe is wont last very long.
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is it just me?..or do other people think like me, that they hate themselves, that theyre not worth living. Because there are so many stressful things in life, school, personal life, friends, family..so on and so on....im stressed over so much stuff, and all i do to make myself feel better is to cry. i keep my emotions up inside of me, and all i have to let my feelings out is in a journal i keep and write my deep thoughts and feelings in it. i dont think there is anyone in this world that i can tell ALL of my feelings to. is it just me?...is there anyone else out there who thinks just like me?...how do you solve your problems?... (link)
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Yea,there is trust me there is.I'm in that same situation but I haven't felt that way in a while.You shouldn't keep your feelings all to yourself but tell a person you confide in.It's great you write in a journal I do the same thing and I o cry to just let it all out.I mostly solve my problems by letting one other person know whats going on and get there opinion on it.What I so is think over why I feel this way.Who is making me feel this way and why.Or what is making me feel this way and why.you arn't the only one trust me on that and you will get over this fase.good luck!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy. (link)
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I think he could be depressed over not being able to see you as much.Maybe he thinks if he keeps his feelings bottled up then you wont worry.I think you shouldn't write a letter I think you should try to talk to him over the phone or see him and talk about it cause a card you won't hear the tone of his voice or the look on his face when both of you talk about his feelings.he might say he is okay but his voice and his face expression can tell the truth.Good Luck with this all!
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ok...im 13/f 7th grade... this might sound crazy... but i no i am in love!! i have a boyfriend and i am completely in love with him!! ive never felt this way about any of my other boyfriends and i know he feels the same about me... he makes me smile just thinking about him... i melt when i see him! theres only one thing... this is wierd... but since we're young and all... is there any chance this could last forever (link)
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Honestly I'm not trying to be harsh but no.I bet you really have the BIGGEST crush on your boyfriend which is great and if yall ever break up which i hope not I know it will hurt you alot but sooner or later you will get over him and ask yourself what you saw in him and then you will move on to the next guy and feel the exact same way.And most likely you will miss him but i don't really think it's love after you have gone through things you couldn't imagine without him on your side.
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My BFF got me a gift for Valentine's Day and I think it was 20 to 25 dollars!! I am also getting her a gift, but I believe it's 7 to ten bucks. Is that wrong that I'm spending less on her??
(Also, the thing I'm getting her is something she really wants, but do you think I should get more?) (link)
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Don't worry bout the price between friendship money should never be a factor.If she really wants it the gift your getting her then great but you shouldn't worry bout the money.Anywayz it's gonna be Valentines day soon enjoy it don't even think bout money.Good luck i hope i helped.
ps. but if you do want to get her something else then even better.
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Hi. I have a problem here. My cousin is really nice and he is friends with my boyfriend and his friends. My boy friend dosent do drugs but some of his friends do. I cant just stop his friends from doing drugs because some of them i dont evan care about. My cousin hangs out with them alot and im sure he dose drugs because i asked some of his friends and they say he dose. They all tell me not to tell anyone. My mom is really good friends with his mom (my aunt). Im not going to tell on him but what should i do to make him stop? I dont want advice that says talk it over with your cousin or just go tell on him cuz thats not what im going to do. (link)
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I think you should show him a picture of what it can do to you.I tried drugs before but when I went to a Drug Free Rally I saw many pictures about the causes and effects and that changed my whole idea about drugs.I hope I helped.talking to him and showing him you care about his health is really something you should do.GOod Luck!
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hey! wht do i do if your best friend has a crush on the guy your dating. Cuz she just found out that i was dating him and i didnt no that she liiked him or anything...so wht do i do, cuz i no she is getting upset over this.PlEz HeLp
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How long have you been dating this guy?Do you think you can see yourself with him for a really long time? If she's your bestfriend she should respect that fact you date this boy even though she likes him.But think about it throughly cause she's your bestfriend and she most likely is there to stay through thick and thin.This boy you might like him now and like a month from now find him annoying.Think bout those things but I personaly would choose my friend if I can't see a future with him.Well good luck I hope everything works out and GOD BLESS!!
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ok i really like this guy but he wont talk to me at all..and when we broke up he said that he never wanted to talk to me again and said that he was too good for me. and when i try to email him he doesnt answer back..but i luv him soo much that i dont kno what to do?! i try getting over him but i cant..wut can i do to try and get over him!? (link)
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I think you should surround yourself by positive people and goto the movies BUT STAY BUSY!!!When he see's you have moved on most likely he will come back don't give him the satisfaction to even THINK you like him cause the feelings you have now will all come back.Other then that just do something that keeps your mind off him Good Luck!!! and GOD Bless!!
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Valentines Day, is coming up! & I really want to get my boyfriend something special. On Valentines Day, we would've been dating for almost 3 months. He's really into baseball and LOVES New York Yankees, and likes Derek Jeter. His favorite band is Simple Plan. But I really want to get him something special, that is a really good price, not to expensive.. I was thinking about getting him a necklace of some sort, or maybe a ring, but do you think that seems "gay?" Or Maybe a big bear that says I LOVE YOU, or Your mine or something? Do guys even like bears?! I'm really confused. Any help would be greatly appreciated. THANKS.!! (link)
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I suggest you to go on ebay.com and order a baseball signed by Deredk Jeter that's if you can find it or a air brushed shirt with boths your names and a big heart.Good luck hope i helped!!!
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My brothers friend is threatening to kill us and himself about something he can't prevent. He is upset because he thinks his friend told us his "secret" which is not true. We need major advice as soon as possible. He told us not to tell anyone or he would kill us and himself. WE NEED HELP! PLEASE!
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Well he's not your brothers friend if he threaten to kill you or your brother.If you don't want to get the cops involved I sugggest you to find the root of the problem tell your parents cause they know what to do always even if you can't admit it.Or call the cops because thats threatning and your life is at stake.GOOD LUCK and GOD BLESS!!
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Aight well i have this friend and she used to like this guy named jeff. Well jeff asked her out but recently just told her he liked me more and bragged about me and soo forth. Well she said no and broke jeff's heart. Well now jeff is madly in love with me and he wants to go out with me. And now my friend is starting to like jeff a little more also. I really want to go out with jeff, but is it okay that i go out with someone my best friend has previsouly liked i don't know but i really want jeff.... But again i don't want to end our relationship...
Sincerely,
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He's just a boy you might like him today and tomorrow find him annoying.Your bestfriend has been there for you and after if you choose to date this boy and then break up she might still be there I think you shouldn't choose a guy over your bestfriend but if you really like him see how it goes cause your bestfriend will get over it sooner or later. trust me I've been there done that.Well good luck and I hope everything works out.
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ok, here's the deal. i'm an 18 year old dude. i know it sounds silly and stupid as hell but i think i've managed to fall in love with a girl in canada. i'm from the states and we've never met in person before but i'm absolutely crazy about her. i don't know whether or not i should pursue this at all or if it's just a lost cause. i'm not even sure she feels the same, but i have my hints. i know it sounds like such a pathetic/loser scenario but i think i'm mature enough to tell that this girl isn't just any other girl. any input would be nice. (link)
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your not crazy you just need to meet up with the person face to face because it may seem all perfect but until you see the real deal then it's when your sure your in love.Good LUCK!
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Ok there's this girl she's my old girlfriend and i still like her but i don't know if she likes me and i like love her should i ask her back out or just let it go (link)
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If you like/love her so much then ask her back out so then in the future you wont think,what if.... I suggest you to follow your heart just like any other person would.GOOD LUCK!
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i like one off my freands i known her for a year now i flirt with her and i get the i dea she likes me but i dont know how to tell her i verry shy thats y so i dont know what to teller im14 and a male (link)
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If you like her so much and you two are friends then straight out and tell her.Or if you talk to her through chat then tell her through chatting.Or through the phone.I'm more then half the time tell them to there face because if they are your friends they arn't gonna laugh at you or anything they might give you a honest responce or tell you they like you back :).If you flirt and she flirts back then thats a sign she likes you so go for it.GOOD LUCK!!!
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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
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YES!He likes you who is gonna hold your hand and wait on you.only a boy that has feelings for you.If yall go way back and you like him then I say go for it because when you know a guy for a long while and know him pritty well those are the best relationships.GOod LUCK and I hope it works out!
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me and my boyfriend has been dating for a week now and he hasnt call me in 5 days. when we first started dating he got my number and dont have his, and we really hit it off good.and it is not like him to not call me, am so worried about him,because i like him alot,what should i do. (link)
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It has een justa week so don't worry about it.He might behaving alot on his mind or might or be to busy.But you shouldn't think so much about it because it might worry you even more.I think he still likes you.why dont you find out his number and give him a call. Good Luck
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my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga (link)
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If you feel your not ready dont do it easy as that.And if you decide to do then he is gonna begin thinking he can have it anytime.4 months isn't very much so i suggest you not to and if he really love you he wont pressure you but why dont you ask one of his friends that you trust what they think or something cause they might know something from the past you might need to know.I hope I helped Good LUCK!
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have you ever been in love and had somebody tell you that your to young to be in love? well i have and even if i am young im in love. My exboyfriend and I were best friends. He told me everything and I told him everything. We started going out and I knew that he still liked his exgirlfriend. Well we got into an arguement and broke up. the next day i found out that he went to the movies with her that same day and well i got mad and started yellin at him telling him he should just go ahead and go out with her. well he took my advice but he knew i didnt mean it. now him and her have been going out for atleast 3 weeks now and all i can do is cry. He is the love of my life and I feel like dieing all the time. Its like my world was tookin away from me. His girlfriend is moving in 2 weeks and they might stay together but they dont know. I just dont know what to do. I love him and he says he loves me back and he will always love me and that he just likes her but what i dont understand is how he could love me and like her but go out with her and not me. Please tell me what to do because im so confused and i feel like if this keeps up im gonna have to do something i dont want to do.. (link)
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If you love him so much then you should tell him exactly how you feel.If he loves you back then he will respond well.I bet you really love him but if you do you should just give it time and if him and his gf are getting serious then go shopping,meet up with people do something for yourself.Don't hurt yourself cause this pain will slowly go away but I know you will alwayz love him but that is normal but meet boys give them a chance bofore you give up but i bet if somethig goes wrong with his gf he will go bck to you and thats when you get the chance to prove your "love".I hope i helped and i wish you the best.
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Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice. (link)
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If you don't like him anymore then you to should just like hang out and stuff but make it straight to him youdon't like him or anything just that you want friendship.If you are really his friend you would talk to him or you can just ignore him and he will get the point.
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My boyfriend, Matt and I have been going out for 9 months. We get along great, and I love him more than anything in the world. The day that he asked me out though another boy, Kevin was going to ask me out (ironic, right?). About 4 months ago I started talking to Kevin after me and Matt had a big fight. I realized that it was so much easier talking to Kevin then Matt, so I started hanging out with Kevin a lot. This summer Matt and I had a huge argument and broke up for about two weeks. I called Kevin crying and ended up going over to his house (he lives in my naiborhood). We talked and ended up kissing, which led to making out. After the incident Matt and I got back together, I told him what happened, and Kevin and I stopped talking. About September I ended up calling Kevin again. I went over to his house and we talked, he gave me a hug and I went home. A week later he calls me and I sneak out to see him. We talk, watch a movie, and end up making out. Matt and I are still strong, but lately I have been spending a lot of time with Kevin. I have such strong feelings for Matt, but at the same time I can't stand the thought of not being close to Kevin. They are both wonderful guys, each having thier own particular trait that draws me to them. To add the problem is that Matt and Kevin know each other and HATE each other. I'm just really confused right now and would like a little advice. Thank you for anything. -Confused (link)
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Your stuck between to guys that seem great but i think you liek Kevin more because you worry bout losing him.You have been with Matt for a while and if you two have issues i think you should break up before it gets real serious to the point when you do break up yall never talk again.You sneaked out for Kevin so your risking yourself for him thats just means you like him and want to be with him so why not be it.But choose because if Matt doesnt know then your doing him wrong i dont think you would like it if he did it 2 you.(I know you will choose the right one)good luck and god bless!
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