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confused!
ok i really like this guy but he wont talk to me at all..and when we broke up he said that he never wanted to talk to me again and said that he was too good for me. and when i try to email him he doesnt answer back..but i luv him soo much that i dont kno what to do?! i try getting over him but i cant..wut can i do to try and get over him!?
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Make sure you spend as much time as possible with all the great people in your life, doing great things.
This will definitely take your mind off of him.
It won't completely erase your memory of him - that will take time, in some cases a long time - each day gets a little easier - i promise you that.
You CAN do much better than this guy anyway!
Who needs or wants someone that has treated them the way he has treated you.
You will get over him I promise, takes time but you'll get there and find someone who is truly worthy of your love, but at the moment take each day as it comes. If you have a bad day when you go to bed write all your worries on a piece of paper then chuck it in the bin and when you wake up the next day try and completely forget about them!
Good luck, I hope everything works out great for you.
Mel
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Getting over people is hard, but let's just look at the facts you've told me.
He dumped you.
He said he never wanted to talk to you again.
He said he's too good for you.
He ignores your emails.
Is that the type of guy you want to be with? Is this the way you always imagined a perfect relationship would be?
No matter this guy's charms, he's not good for your self-esteem. You deserve to be with someone who will respect and value you - someone who WANTS to be with you. You don't have to settle for chasing a guy who doesn't care for you at all.
How to get over him? Realize that YOU are too good for someone who would treat you like this.
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I think you should surround yourself by positive people and goto the movies BUT STAY BUSY!!!When he see's you have moved on most likely he will come back don't give him the satisfaction to even THINK you like him cause the feelings you have now will all come back.Other then that just do something that keeps your mind off him Good Luck!!! and GOD Bless!!
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First off, no guy is too good for you. You need to find another super hott guy who will fill your mind endlessly with thoughts about it, therefore pushing him out. You need to realize that this guy is an asshole and I know the feeling of thinking you love someone. I want you to think deeply about how he was treating you when you were together and how he's treating you now. This guy is and was an asshole.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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Getting over someone you love is hard, but it's possible. By continuously emailing him you make yourself look desperate...the guys I've been around don't find that to be an effective way to get someone back. I would say do your best to not think about the good memories, because those are what kill you in the end, and don't listen to sad or slow music when you're thinking about him...that just makes you depressed. Another thing you can do is maybe move on with someone else who's better? Hope I helped,
JyNxiE
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You sound puzzled i think that you shouldnt waist your time on this guy he sounds like a rude stuck up kind of guy that thinks hes too good for anyone. One day the right girl will walk right by him and will love him with all she has and that jerk wont know it. Maybe that girl is you. But dont waist your time on him. Play hard to get that might catch his eye. It usually does w/guys. Just give it a shot. Just remember you are worth so much more then what that guy is letting you think of. He shouldnt have any right in the world to tell you that he is too good for you chances are and i bet you are way way better then that down right asshole and you deserve better.-trix
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i feel your pain, honey.:(
The thing that worked for me is remembering the things like that he ever said. try not to remember the god times, or you'll get all mushy again.
I hope i helped any, and that it works. Good luck!
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