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Question Posted Thursday January 20 2005, 7:52 pm

hey! wht do i do if your best friend has a crush on the guy your dating. Cuz she just found out that i was dating him and i didnt no that she liiked him or anything...so wht do i do, cuz i no she is getting upset over this.PlEz HeLp

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Melanie4981 answered Friday January 21 2005, 9:27 am:
Have you been with this fella long?
Do you love him?
Can you see yourself being with him for a long time?

If the answer to the above is NO, then I would ask you to seriously consider getting rid of this guy.

I know you didn't know your best friend liked him, I mean hey she didn't tell you obviously, and unless you are a mind reader there is no possible way you could've known.

One thing I have learnt the hard way is that good friends are few and far between and are worth their weight in gold!!!

Men come and go but friends are forever!!!

Hope it works out.

Mel xxx

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Friday January 21 2005, 1:29 am:
Well i would just talk to her I mean noone or nothing can help who you like thats the hearts doing all the way. just talk to her just remember friends come before lovers. So just keep that in mind-trix

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MissIiVannaH answered Thursday January 20 2005, 9:51 pm:
How long have you been dating this guy?Do you think you can see yourself with him for a really long time? If she's your bestfriend she should respect that fact you date this boy even though she likes him.But think about it throughly cause she's your bestfriend and she most likely is there to stay through thick and thin.This boy you might like him now and like a month from now find him annoying.Think bout those things but I personaly would choose my friend if I can't see a future with him.Well good luck I hope everything works out and GOD BLESS!!

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JyNxiE answered Thursday January 20 2005, 9:29 pm:
There's not much you can do...people can't control how they feel. As long as she doesnt try to take him from you, I wouldnt worry about it. And why is she getting upset? You're dating the guy, and she's your best friend...she shouldnt be.

JyNxiE

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ItGetSEasieR788 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 8:53 pm:
Well tell your friend that you didnt know she liked him and ask her what she thinks about it all. hopefully she will be cool with it. just do what you tihnk is right
Good luck

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Sherry answered Thursday January 20 2005, 8:49 pm:
Well, nothing. She should respect the fact that your dating him! try to tell her that you didnt know she liked him..but if she gets mad anyway..you shouldent like cry over it..because if she gets mad, thats really imature of her and you shouldent be friends with her anyways. Good luck!!

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