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please.help.me.fix.this.confusing.thing.out
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 11 months in 2 weeks. Well I dont see him as much as i used to and as much as i liked to. cuz i moved. So its hard but we manage to see eachother at least once every 2 weeks. But this has been going on sense oct. But we see eachother almost every mon. for about 10 min. cuz i run into town. Anyways he told me tonight he is a bit depressed but he wont spill why. Im his gf.. shouldnt he tell? I know its hard.. but he was there through everything for me. He also told me when he was over at his friends house he could have gotten high but when he was offered he said he kind of wanted to but didnt. He asked if i would be mad if he did. He isnt a stoner.. so.. I dont know. I know that might be like apart of him being a bit down. i dont know what to do like how to react.. its confusing i dont get why he is bottling it up inside when i always let him in on what was going on in my mind. At the end of the convo he said that he would tell me if he could. So im hoping its not that bad he cant tell someone. Should I write him a letter? like what should i say in it because i dont want to seem pushy.
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There could be a lot of reasons on why he's depressed. He should be able to tell you everthing and anything. Even though you dont see each other everyday I'm sure you've got a strong relationship. Me might feel that you'll think badly about him or something like that. Its ok to be persisten even if you think you maybe a little pushy its fine. Its alright to write him a little, just be honest about how you feel about the hole thing. tell him what you think......
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tell him he can tell you anything he wants even if you wouldnt like it tell him that you will listen to him no matter what
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I think he is depressed since he can't see you as much as he wants to. You obviously mean a lot to him for him to think of you when he's put into the situation of getting high. Sometimes it's hard for guys to totally let loose on their feelings. Just give it time and see him more, then he will go back to the boyfriend he used to be. Hope this helped.
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Hey, boys are very difforent than girls. He might be depressed for not beinga ble to see you, he might also be deppressed for not being able to do what he wants because he is scared you will get mad at him. Talk to him and tell him he can do what he wants unless it will hurt him. Dont write him a letter, no offence it is kind of stupid. I mean he would tell you what he wants to but he might not want you to fall into peices over it. Again boys are difforent. Girls are sensitive and let out what they feel boys dont really tell people everything they are secerative. Just ask again and he might tell you!
♥ Michelle
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I think he could be depressed over not being able to see you as much.Maybe he thinks if he keeps his feelings bottled up then you wont worry.I think you shouldn't write a letter I think you should try to talk to him over the phone or see him and talk about it cause a card you won't hear the tone of his voice or the look on his face when both of you talk about his feelings.he might say he is okay but his voice and his face expression can tell the truth.Good Luck with this all!
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well it could be the gettin high thing or it could be that he doesn't see you enough. and seeing sumbod 10 minutes a month wont cut it. he might start lookin for other girls cause you aren't always there with him. so i think you shold try harder to try and see him. make plans wit him on the weekends. and maybe you could ask him while doin this. he might feel more comfortable and he might tell you. so try and win his trust again cause, no offence, but you two seem to be driftin apart. i hope it all works out.
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