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Torn in two
My boyfriend, Matt and I have been going out for 9 months. We get along great, and I love him more than anything in the world. The day that he asked me out though another boy, Kevin was going to ask me out (ironic, right?). About 4 months ago I started talking to Kevin after me and Matt had a big fight. I realized that it was so much easier talking to Kevin then Matt, so I started hanging out with Kevin a lot. This summer Matt and I had a huge argument and broke up for about two weeks. I called Kevin crying and ended up going over to his house (he lives in my naiborhood). We talked and ended up kissing, which led to making out. After the incident Matt and I got back together, I told him what happened, and Kevin and I stopped talking. About September I ended up calling Kevin again. I went over to his house and we talked, he gave me a hug and I went home. A week later he calls me and I sneak out to see him. We talk, watch a movie, and end up making out. Matt and I are still strong, but lately I have been spending a lot of time with Kevin. I have such strong feelings for Matt, but at the same time I can't stand the thought of not being close to Kevin. They are both wonderful guys, each having thier own particular trait that draws me to them. To add the problem is that Matt and Kevin know each other and HATE each other. I'm just really confused right now and would like a little advice. Thank you for anything. -Confused
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so let me get this strait, u broke up w/ matt, and within that same week time period u made-out with kevin, but then ended up getting back togeather with matt!?!?!...ok, first i see somin wrong with this and then, you and matt are still togeather, and u make -out with kevin agian...so you cheat on matt....hmm...oh and with the guy he hates the most....am i missing something here, because this seems very wrong!! and i think that if you have such strong feelings for matt, you shouldnt be cheating on him with kevin, or any other guy, for that matter, and if you cheat on matt to be with kevin, i think you have already made your choice
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you cant keep messin wit kevin if you wanna be wit matt and you cant keep goin wit matt if you wanna be wit kevin. if you cant decide you should take a break from matt and have space from both of them. then you should be able to know which one you really wanna be wit cuz you will miss that person more. whatever you do good luck. ~*Alexis*~
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Which one do you think about more.. when your with matt... is kevin on your mind? when your with kevin is matt on your mind (besides guilt) which one do u laugh more with.. which one do you feel comfortable and protected with.. whick one do you know will never hurt you.. who do u think will make you happier... put the pros and cons on a sheet and figure out which one you wanna be with and who you want in yout life more.... BUT WHATEVER YOU DO dont rub them into eachothers face even after u and matt break up (should you chose kevin) try and get along with him.. if he is too immature to let you be happy.. just dont talk to him it aint a friendship worth keeping!!hope i helped...rate pls
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well i think u need to tell matt about u n kevin.. you need to be loyal in a relationship, even if it means getting dumped.. but hopefully matt will understand idn. but w/e u do DONT keep all this inside bc it will come back n be 100 times worse l8er on
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Your stuck between to guys that seem great but i think you liek Kevin more because you worry bout losing him.You have been with Matt for a while and if you two have issues i think you should break up before it gets real serious to the point when you do break up yall never talk again.You sneaked out for Kevin so your risking yourself for him thats just means you like him and want to be with him so why not be it.But choose because if Matt doesnt know then your doing him wrong i dont think you would like it if he did it 2 you.(I know you will choose the right one)good luck and god bless!
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