about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

okay well i am 5'3 and i weigh 110 i know thats good but i wanna weigh 90 by christmas but neways is it good for a diet if u eat 400 cals a day and burn like 260?

I know that the adkins diet is highly overrated and all, but it really works. My sister is twelve and weighed 162 on July 15, she now weights 146 because of the atkins. Try it, it works soooo well
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sum1 said that my questions wouldnt get dleted but they are therez no second pg after i had so many sum 1 plz tell me wuts going on. under your questions i dont think thats supose to get deleted!!

I think they started this thing, when you ask a question a few months ago, you can't get to it without going to view questions from this year. Another thing might be that it takes them a long time to check the questions so people don't ask really dumb questions, I hope i answered your question
Lizzy

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is 2.2 miles in 20 minutes good? im really curious. i ran that the other day and i wasnt sure if it was good or not. im 13/f. and i usually never run.

Yes that is really good. Usually one mile takes around 8 minutes for a thirteen year old teen and then a second mile takes +1/2 of the time, so most people take around 20 minutes for two miles and then the point two would take even longer, so i suggest you go up for track.
Lizzy

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I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this?

I think that you should get her and all of the other friends, and hang out together at once, and if she spends more time with them, chances are you are just the rebound girl, and i'm sorry. But if it's all pretty even and she spends time with you and others, you aren't rebound, just the timing is weird
Lizzy

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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki

Don't ever seem to be available. Pretend like you don't care if a guy thinks your hot or anything, and when they do talk to you, talk, but when they ask you out, say, i'm busy that day, maybe the next week, then they will just totally look forward to it if it is a longer time away. Don't start the flirting, but seem intimidating.
Lizzy

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i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one

No, it makes you a normal girl! Only if you end up touching him and stuff does it make you a slut. Just keep your hands to yourself, and don't worry what the girls say, their probably jealous of your moves or something, and you aren't trying to impress the people saying this stuff anyway, everyone flirts
Lizzy

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How do you break up or, tell a guy you dont want to be thier gf without hurting them??

There is no way for you to not hurt him if he cares about you a whole lot. Tell him you want to be friends, but you just aren't feeling that the relationship is working the way it should and that you really just need time to see other people. Hope this works
Lizzy

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My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---ยป realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE

For a gift, get her like a kit of a loofah and pretty smelling soap and stuff. Make sure you get it so it's in a basket otherwise she will catch on. Don't tell her straight up, but say "yeah, just use that tonight in the shower, and if you don't like the scent, i'll get you another one."
Hope i helped a little
Lizzy

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hey, lets see..my friends boyfriends cousin, Mike, likes me, and i dont know what to do. i dont know him that well, i met him once. my friend says he wants to take me to cedar point with him and some other friends.what should i do? should i try to get to know him? he also likes another gurl, and i dont know what to do. hes 15 and im gonna be in a week. .....thanx.
no clue

Go to cedar point with him. It won't hurt any, and if you don't like him after the date, don't date him anymore. If you feel you don't know him that well still, go to cedar point and tell him you just want to be friends for now, but if anything changes you let him know. Try to find out if the other girl likes him, if she does, don't tell neone. LOL Good luck
Lizzy

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I have this friend. Well I think we are friends. We used to hang out all the time. This summer things changed. Nothing really changed with her boyfriend and things have been a little wierd. She does get into fights with him... alot... but b4 she used to always tlk to me about it. Now she talkes to other ppl and yea. We have been in a fight lately... and ppl have been tellin me and her both that we tlk about each other really bad... but the other day when I tlked to her she seemed lyk she didnt believe me about not saying anything bad about her. I really didnt say anything and I want to be friends with her. I dont know if she is lying to mr about being friends or not.I mean we used to go crazy about our virginity and stuff... I thought she was gunna loose it first but nvm mind that... I need sum advice... do yOu think we are friends... we are tlking again but I just want to know???

.:*Erika*:.

I think you are friends, but you guys are having problems right now. Just like you will never meet a husband and wife who never fought and have a good relationship, fighting really helps build the relationship, or it ends it. It is just a little test, well that's what i think, that you go through for true friendship. Talk to her about this whole thing. Tell her you heard some people saying that she was talking bad about you and you just want to know if it's true, because you can't get through this without knowing the truth. I hope everything works out ok
Lizzy

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School is about to start and I know homecoming dance comes soon after that. I'm going into my second year of high school and I skipped the dance last year. I don't have any trouble getting dates or anything like that, I just feel really uncomfortable on the dance floor. My friends have seen me dance and say I'm not bad for a white guy, but I still feel really uncomfortable. Any suggestions?

Just have fun! I know that sorts corny and everything but if you look at everyone else on the dance floor, most of them don't have a care in the world. and if you are a good dancer, then dance your little heart out and just have fun
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I'm pretty, smart, athletic, funny, happy and really fun to be around according to my friends. But is it true that alot of 14 year old guys dont pay as much attention to flat girls? I mean In my oppinion think im girlfriend material! Why dont guys like me as much as they like my skinny developed friends who have gone thru puberty? I know it sounds stupid but please help me!

Well, it depends on the guy. A lot of guys just want a full chested girl because their friends like it that way. Three of my best guy friends told me that they hate boobs. But the reason guys aren't going for you is probably because you seem to normal. A lot of the funny smart athletic girls don't like it when guys hit on them, so i bet a lot of guys are staying clear. Let them know you are free!
Lizzy

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ok i'm scared to go to high school because i hear you have to shower in front of all the other girls!!! i really don't want to do that it's really gross!! what do i do??!?!?!

Don't be scared to shower in front of everyone. There will be other girls thinking the same exact thing, and really not wanting to be there. You won't be the only one scared, you got your entire class that is scared too. I'm going into ninth grade too and i don't want thirty girls seeing me naked, but remember, don't be scared of them, be scared with them
Lizzy

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well im having a few trust issues lately....ever since my bestfriend and me went out and broke up i havent been able to trust anyone....he told me he'd always be there for me and stuff and then breaks up with me and totaly ditches me as a friend all together and now me and him have absolutly no contact....not only that but thanks to him im having other relationship issues...i cant trust anyone and everone knows that all relationships are based on trust....i dont know what to do part of me says take a chance and get hurt whats there to lose. I've found the perfect guy but im scared to trust him...what do i do?
Sincerly
Confused in Love
Nikki
13-f-Tx

Don't punish the perfect guy when he did nothing wrong. Punish the guy who did wrong. Don't be afraid of relationships. You will get hurt, and you will hurt someone, it's why people say love is the hardest thing. But before you go anywhere with this new guy, be sure to get all of your previous issues off your chest, so he doesn't feel uncomfortable, make sure your ready, because 13 is an age where so many people get hurt, because you are ready for a relationship, but there is always someone in the couple who is not stable yet, so shake things off, and your man will be there when you are ready.
Lizzy

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I have been cheerleading for 3 years now. this past winter, i hurt both my knees, bad. i went to the doctor recently and she said that it was a rare disease that would take about 2 more years to go away. she said if it got any worse, i would have to stop cheerleading. cheerleading is what i do-it's my life. i can't just stop. what can i do to help my knees not to hurt as much? help!

~Injured Cheerleader~

If you still want to chearlead, do it. My stepmom's dad was told he would never walk again, and he can run a mile. And my stepmom, told she was going to die of cancer, it's ten years later and she's doing just fine. What i am saying is, if you think you should still chearlead, do it. If you end up hurting your leg really badly, it'll only be temperary or something else might come out of it. Maybe you will find another passion, or become a choreographer instead of a chearleader. I really hope your knees get better, i know i would hate it if i couldn't dance again. I'm very sorry
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my best friend is going thru depression. i have gone thru it be4 and so has she, so she knows how it is. shes seen a counselor and now she doesnt ne more because she got better and she didnt listen to one anyway. she has very low self esteem and says that she wants to be skinny and lose weight becuz i am "wicked skinny" and so isnt her twin sister and she wants to lose weight like we did. she cuts herself and is always really quiet..not normal for her. i talk to her alot about these things but i really want her to be ok..and go back to normal. she hardly eats too...ive had an eating disorder be4 and she saw it "work" for me so she is doing it too. please dont say get her proffesional help...i just need a way to help her.

Since you are her best friend, your opinion is probably most important to her. Tell her she's beautiful, and that she doesn't need to lose weight, and if she does, then don't go ona crash diet, and tell her you'll do it with her. (if you do it with her, make sure you are doing worse, but not gaining weight) make sure she knows that you and all of her friends accept her for who she is. Tell her she shouldn't cut herself because you care too much about her and you don't want anything to happen to her. Since you have been through depresion too, you know how much a compliment means. Tell her this stuff and have her other friends tell her how much she is appreciated, then she may rethink the cutting and eating disorder thing.
Lizzy

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how am i able to but a favorite columnists?
im having a bit of trouble!
angita

You go to the information about them, and underneath where it says view Feedback, it says make a favorite collumnist, click there and they are on your list.
Lizzy

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hi, i sometimes wear thongs.. but i guess you can say that they're just regular cotton thongs... i want to get those stringy type ones and stuff like that.. are they any comfortable?

~sarah, 14

They are more comfortable then the cotton ones because they aren't as thick, And even if they do bug you, they won't after a few times wearing them. (they are a lot more comfy then the cotton)
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i seriously need to know how to get my little advice column in my profile if u kno how IM me on AIM on d 0 r k y me x3 !! thanks

When you go to your advice collumn, highlight the address and then go to profile on your Instant message box, then put in the address.
Lizzy

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ok i love my boyfriend ok and so im kinda like a lil shy to go somewhere with him like ya know alone like at the movies or the mall so i always have to bring one of my friends and i can tell he kinda gets sick of being around them and that he only wants to b with me i need sum advice on how to b more comfortable around.
signed..
shy girl

Start slow. Like first, take him on a group date, then a double date, then after a few double dates, you should feel confortable around him so you can go alone. If that doesn't work, then start off by calling him without three way, and IMing him and stuff, it's a building up sort of thing
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