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Do yOu Think we are FrIendS???
I have this friend. Well I think we are friends. We used to hang out all the time. This summer things changed. Nothing really changed with her boyfriend and things have been a little wierd. She does get into fights with him... alot... but b4 she used to always tlk to me about it. Now she talkes to other ppl and yea. We have been in a fight lately... and ppl have been tellin me and her both that we tlk about each other really bad... but the other day when I tlked to her she seemed lyk she didnt believe me about not saying anything bad about her. I really didnt say anything and I want to be friends with her. I dont know if she is lying to mr about being friends or not.I mean we used to go crazy about our virginity and stuff... I thought she was gunna loose it first but nvm mind that... I need sum advice... do yOu think we are friends... we are tlking again but I just want to know???
.:*Erika*:.
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ok me and my best friend have been friends since i was 2 days old. we love each other more than life its self.but let me tell u its not alwayz been so easy growing up are parents were best friends and that made it even more harder cuz we would alwayz get caught doing what ever it was we were not pos to be doing right. well now were are in high school and guess what things have changed we talk only when we have to ... we never hang out anymore .. its like we are two different people. and get this the reason ... because he and yea its a guy when we were in the 5 grade someone told him all these lies things i would never say about him or his family i mean my god his mother is my godmother and he believed it and to this day he still thinks i said it . some times you just have to let friends go.. maybe someday theyll come around and see what theyve lost. because it sounds like to me someone is fixing to lose a great friend and theres nothing you can do about people talkn bad about u and yourfriend its life and it goes on forever and ever .. that will never change its just the way of our world now so much drama!!
good luck anywayz
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I think you are friends, but you guys are having problems right now. Just like you will never meet a husband and wife who never fought and have a good relationship, fighting really helps build the relationship, or it ends it. It is just a little test, well that's what i think, that you go through for true friendship. Talk to her about this whole thing. Tell her you heard some people saying that she was talking bad about you and you just want to know if it's true, because you can't get through this without knowing the truth. I hope everything works out ok
Lizzy
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hey i have had the same problem with a really good friend. but sometimes people grow apart.
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your friend might need some space right now. who knows maybe something had happened with her boyfriend and she is scared to tell anyone about it. either that or she believes what people are saying about you. if thats the case, then you should just sit her down face-to-face and discuss your problems. try to think about anything that could possibly be wrong and target that subject. she might get a little angry when you are pressuring her like that, but let her know that your not going to quit until you find out whats wrong. i seriously hope i helped!! good luck
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erika-
if u had a realli good friendship b4, then dont lose it over that. just talk to her about it, and u'll probably find out that she felt teh same way.
.:*-Sarah-*:.
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I dont think you're friends if she cant trust you. And if you think that shes lying to you then tell her that and if shes rude about it i dont think the friendship will work out unless u two want to be friends. And im sure if you want to be friends you both can work it out together
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I'm sure you are but things do change in times... people do grow apart. You should talk to her about the way things are going between you guys tell her how you feel and listen to what she has to say too. good luck
-*holly*-
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