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ok i love my boyfriend ok and so im kinda like a lil shy to go somewhere with him like ya know alone like at the movies or the mall so i always have to bring one of my friends and i can tell he kinda gets sick of being around them and that he only wants to b with me i need sum advice on how to b more comfortable around.
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shy girl
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i useto be the same way.. ur prob. just scared of wat will happen if u two r alone.. tats wat i was scared of.. but after a while u just get comfortable and want to b alone wit him.. but u shouldnt drag ur friends along all the time becuz eventually he wont want that cuz all he wants to do is be alone with you!
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Do everything you can for yourself to be comfortable: makeup, hair, nice outfit, etc. Then suggest going somewhere more public at first: the mall, a park during the day, lunch. Eventually you will be more comfortable being alone.
Tell a friend where you are going and if you have a luxury of a cell phone, have them call you to see how things area going. You might could arrange to "meet" some friends or have a plant looking from afar if you are uncomfortable. I have actually told a friend to hang out somewhere when I am meeting someone new in public.
Talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. It might help him to help you be more comfortable. Think about why you might feel this way.
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You must not love him if you cant be yourself.. just loosen up and by you 2 hanging out more and talking more you will get less shy trust me on that-trix
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Hey shygirl!
I am that way...I was in love with my boyfriend, and it may sound weird, but I was kind of uncomfortable being alone with him. The thing is, first of all, if he's getting sick of them, it understandable, but if he loves you, he'll understand, and try to get used to them. Also...try double dating, so your friend wont be like a 3rd wheel. Good luck. Boys are something all girls have trouble with, so don't worry.
**Jenn**
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You love him huh? If you loved the guy,you'd be alone with him. This same bullshit happened with my last girlfriend. How can you be more comfortable around him? The better question here is why aren't you comfortable around him. I got sick of that shit too. Tell me why aren't comfortable with him and I'll help you further.
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Shy Girl,
I would just spend time with just him at like more public places first like the swimming pool or someplace like that or go over to each others houses or something
XOXO
Haleigh Ann
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Hey gurl..i used to have the EXACT SAME PROBLEM. I was soo shy around my boyfriend that i couldnt even kiss him or go out newhere without my 2 best friends. But i started to feel comfortable around him when i met his family and his friends. When he introduced me to the people that love and except him most i felt more comfortable. Ask him to introduce your family..or his friends if he hasnt already.
..Kitkat..
u can email me at bballgall23@yahoo.com
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Dear shy girl,
my advice to u is to tell him wat u jus wrote ther!!! now that he nos why u bring a friend he will probly help u try to b more comfortable and understand better! hope i helped! write me sum time!
<3 fran
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Start slow. Like first, take him on a group date, then a double date, then after a few double dates, you should feel confortable around him so you can go alone. If that doesn't work, then start off by calling him without three way, and IMing him and stuff, it's a building up sort of thing
Lizzy
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i think that eventually u get used 2 it the more ur around ppl especially alone it happens quicker alone most of the tyme. but itz lyk a new bed matchress ur not used to it the first daii but the 2nd or 3rd or even 4th itz finally confii n all urz. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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hey shy girl,
i used to be the same way.But for me, it was because i wasn't comfortable around myself more or less the boy i liked. Once i fiqured that i wasn't going to be able to get any imediate new looks.. i started thinking of ways to be happier with myself..i'm not trying to give you any phycastrist sayings but trying going shopping for that one really great outfit and there is no doubt in my mind your boyfriend wont compliment you..once that .. yu cant say yu wont feel a little better about yourself..see all the litle things lead up so take one small step at a time and next time your around him be like duncha like my hair i sure do ..and bring up stuff and start talking about things your comfortable like say your favorite thing to do is play softball, you can probably relate that to baseball and then have a intellectual conversation about those good old red sox ;) haha well..good luck and i hope i can help xoOx `; becca
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well..this is kinda hard..but ur just gunna have to try to go on alone dates with him to get more comfortable around him!! cuz if ur only round him when ur friends r there..ur not gunna be any more comfortable! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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