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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!
*Keosha*

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My dauchshund ate a fairly large amount of peanut butter yesterday and later had diarrhea then started to vomit, she has been extremely lathargic since. She does not want to eat but she does drink water and later vomits it up. Is there anything I can give her to counter act the possible effects of the peanut butter. and it is not the one that has been pulled from the shelfs

All i can think of that is animal safe is benadryl. Its what we give my dog when she is sick and also plenty of water. Take her outside and let her sweat some if shes up to it. It will help.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.

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i wear and a and im 15. all my friends wear a c-d and alot of them are 12-13 years old. someone please tell me how to make my boobs grow!

I almost suggested taking those breast enhancement pills but because your so young it might hurt the development of your breasts. There is no SURE way to make them grow but you can help by taking plenty of vitamins and eating healthy. Naturally, everyone is different. Maybe you werent meant to have large breasts.

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during puberty where I think about sex a lot, and kinda get attracted to it.

I kinda sneek into my parents rooms and look at their porno videos, its sooo BAD. But i can't stop looking at that stuff.

And sometimes I go to websites with pictures, bad pictures.

I wanna stop, but cant, what do I do?!

thx

kp:\

Its normal. Everyone does it. It seems like your just growing up. Dont stress yourself. Its okay.
Hope that I helped. ;p

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ok so i am 13 and i have had sweaty hands since i was in 1st grade. i mean its not lik a lil sweat its lik when i get done typin on the comp thur is a puddle of sweat there. i HATE to give handshakes or high-fives does any one else have this problem i no its weird and if there ANY WAY to solve it id like people's opinions on this too thanx :D

Baby powder. It will keep you fresh and dry. Get a mini and carry it with you. hey're like 50c at walmart.
Good luck. Hope that I helped :P

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okay so me and my boyfriend had sex last night.
im 14.
and you guys prolly think thats young.
but we were ready.
and we used prtection.
but now im like bloated and i have REALLY bad cramps.
and im not sure if its normal.
i asked my sister, and she wasnt sure cause its never happened to her.
so my question is will the bloating and cramps go away?
thankssss

Don't worry. You're stressing yourself out. The bloating can happen any time of any day anywhere under any circumstance. Are you about to get your period? Anytime within now or the next 2 weeks? It is possible to have cramps that early. I get them. And to be bloated just means that you are retaining fluid and you need to drink more water and eat less sodium.

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I'm fourteen, and our 8th grade dance for school is coming up soon. Supposably it's not going to be that "formal" but you can still wear a dress. Where can i get some simple but cute dresses for it?


- Something thats not too expensive as well.
Thanks =]

If you have a Bealls around then go for it. It is cute and name brands usually, and less expensive than even walmart most likely.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.;p

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14/f


i usually, besides cheerleading, walk around. like just walk around town and stuff. when i do its like over a mile atleast depending on where i and friends go. will this burn calories

Of course. But if your looking to burn more calories then walk at a normal pace and speed it up for about 5 min then keep switching. It is clled interval training. Your training your body to work at different paces and speeds and it helps to burn off fat.

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im a girl. and for quite a while my voice has been cracky/croaky does this mean im hitting puberty and if so how long will it last till i get my peirod?

Honey, There is no tellin. It took me about 1 year. But sometimes it takes people a lot more.
For instance, I hit puberty at 8-9 years old and got my period when i was 9 going on 10.
So my guess would be about a year or 2 maybe even less.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped.
;p

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well how can i get rid of blackheads on top of my lip????? it's really annoying and cross. now i know how to avoid them but how do i get rid of them??????????????????????

They say not to, but pop them. Yes, it will hurt. But when u pop those suckers they will be gone for good if u follow these easy steps:

1. Wash your face with soap.
2. Pop it.
3. Put alcohol on it. (swab it or something)
4. Ice it.
5. Wash 2x daily.

Good luck.
Hope that I helped. ;p

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that one show on the country music tv channel, the ultimate ugly coyote search, or whatever its called, this one girl was auditioning and she had a shirt that showed her stomach off. when she was dancing her stomach kinda jiggled around and if she bent over, a roll popped out. the camera kept focusing in on her stomach and not her dancing, why?

I don't honestly know why but if she got kicked off the show it's probably for one- that isn't attractive, especially in a bar like that and two- they probably wanted to make a big deal on TV about it. My guess.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped. ;p

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do guys like it if you kiss their neck?

Some do and some don't. There is only one sure way to find out. Try it! If he doesn't like it he will tell you.

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Bear with me; this is a several part question.

-Is it morally wrong to give advice about a situation you've never been in? For example, give sex advice if you've never had sex?

-Is it morally wrong to give advice you don't follow, even if the advice is sound? For example, an eating disordered person giving nutrition advice, or a couch potato giving exercise tips? What if this information is provided to correct erroneous information offered by another source?

This is assuming that the advice you give is valid, despite it being contradictory to your actions. I'm interested in seeing what people think.

No I dont not feel that this is morally wrong.
I say this because there are plenty of things that I know quite a lot about but haven't expierienced it myself or do not have a degreee to prove I am right, but I still attempt to give every piece of advice my best shot. And correcting information provided by another source is not wrong either. Acutally, it is right if your intentions are to help the person to know the truth.
Good luck.
Hope that I helped. :P

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I have a t-mobile razr. And i heard you can record things and than set them as a ringtone. but i have a problem.I go to the menu, and than the recorder and it lets me record a song but than after i record a song, the only thing it says it "send to" and than a list of contacts, and it wont let me like save it or anything. Does anyone know what i can do ? thanks

Send it to a friend and have them send it back. You'll recieve it. :p

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one my good friends, "liz" has a boyfriend, "andy" of about a year and a half or more. she is completely in love with him, and they're cute together. she's a sophomore and he's a junior (and so am i and my boyfriend.) they went together to prom last week and everything, even though she goes to a different school. another couple that rode in our limo with liz & her boyfriend and my boyfriend & i was our friend and his date-- megan. now things get tricky.

megan and andy sort of have a "thing" for each other. (yeah, let's just say that was an awkward limo ride.) andy and my boyfriend play baseball together, and so i sit with liz. but for the past few weeks, megan has been coming to the games and rooting for andy. and since liz doesn't go to school with us all, we can all see andy and megan flirting and everything quite often. liz and andy even went to one of megan's track meets becuase andy "felt bad because she comes to all his baseball games." (which is, well, bullshit.).

my question is whether i should tell liz or not. my best friend and i tried to discreetly talk to her about it and asked her what she though, but she didnt' seem to be concerned-- i think she's too blinded by being in love with andy. (which in this case, is a bad thing.) if i tell her all this, i know it will break her heart, and i dont' really want to be the bearer of bad news. but then again, i dont' want to have her get her heart broken by him, and then come to realize everything later. advice, please!

Well your in a tough spot and could be risking a friendship or a few to say the least. But follow your heart. Later on, Im sure Liz will thank you for telling her but at first she might be in denial and disagree to listen to you. Dont push her, just mention it and how you feel about her reactions. Get inside her head. Also, put yourself in her shoes. She could be blinded by her affection for him but either way this could break her heart. Think about it.
Good luck.
Hope I helped.

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15/f. i was just wondering who on here shaves there entire pubic area or just trims it.

i currently just trim it and leave a little strip since i'm not sexually active, but i've been thinking about shaving it all off recently.

so i was just wondering if you shave it all or or trim it and why.

thanks :]

I shave it completely but i run into issues with it. I end up getting razor burn (little red bumps from the razor going against the grain)

So i would suggest waxing it. It'll hurt,yes but only for about 3 minutes of your life. And it looks better too.
And always use a mosturizing shave gel.

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Hi, im 14 years old and im still a virgin unlike some of my friends. I want to wait till marriage to have sex. But how do you resist temptation. Also if you dont do any sex related acts(including oral) What could you do with your bf? Thanks for ya'll advice.

Just be honest with him and explain that you are abstinent and he needs to respect that. Then you shouldnt have to worry about 'what you should do with him'.
But there are PLENTY of things you can do with your boyfriend.
Go out to movies, ge rent movies, play videogames, go on a walk, goto the park and watch the sunset/rise, walk the dog, write a poem together, dance funky to music, just learn to get comfortable with eachother.
Goto the gym, go swimming at a pool or the beach. Shopping :D
Find ways to connect and have fun.
*Board games too, like scattagories*

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Ive had my period for a while now (im 14) but tampons are wierd for me.

When i first put them in, they go in fine and they bout a half and hour later, they sort of slide down a little and i start feeling them and it starts to hurt. what can i do to prevent this? what am i doing wrong. and please dont give me directions for putting them in, because i know how.

I would say either upgrade to a larger size tampon like from super to regular or try to push it up after to insert it with the applicator.

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Am I pregnant if he cums in my vagina walls?

Not nessecarily.
You are pregnant when the sperm transfers through the vaginal walls and enters the fallopian tubes to meet the egg which comes down from the ovaries.

When the 2 meet that is considered fertilization and concievement. It takes 3 - 5 days to form an embryo.

Then you are pregnant.

But this does not occur everytime you expierience him cumming in your vagina. Actually, there is a specific date and time that people normally get pregnant. If you do get pregnant, then it is your time. If not...USE PROTECTION. EX condoms, birthcontrol (different methods pill, patch, shot..ect.)
Good luck, Hope that I helped explain it in a better sense.

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(14/f)Ok I'll attempt to make this brief. My best friend and I tried out for a more advanced program at another school. I got in, she didn't. Now whenever I talk to her she always manages to sneak in a "Your school sucks, can't believe you ditched us to go there" etc... And everytime I talk to her it's always because she wants something"Can you do this question for me, can you go to my meeting for me"etc.. (needless to say the answer tends to be no, I'll help a bit but I won't do it for you. Which causes her to throw tantrums. Anyways...).

So all of this makes me want to avoid her as much as possible, the thing is that she and another one of my friends get out of school earlier than I do, and go to my house and wait outside the door for me to come home, most of the time wanting food and/or entertainment. When I come home I tend to be a nervous wreck and I tend to spend at least a good 4 hours or so on homework. Except when they come over they refuse to leave. I'm serious, even if I tell them that I'm busy and that they should go home they always say something to the effect of "We're bored, we've got nothing else to do so we'll stay here"(they're currently not talking to me because last time they did that I told them to stop harrassing me, harsh I know).

So... any ideas of how I can keep my sanity and NOT strangle them next time I see them?


hmm... attempt to make a brief question failed, it's rather long...

Personally, I believe that they are just using you for laughs.Sweetie DONT waste your time. Its not worth it. You are better than they are, your focused and dont let them get in your way. Sometimes everyone needs to be a little independent and has to do what they have to do. If it means pushing those people (who really arent helping you) out of your life then so be it. I know it may sound harsh, but whats more important? And no it doesnt make you a bad person, and its good that you gave a lot of information. Good luck.

Keosha

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14/f
is their a way i can hit higher notes? thanks

In singing I was taught to sing with my stomach. Not to sing with my throat or nose. When you sing with your stomach push out for a deeper note and suck in some for a higher note. Try this!

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