JyNxiE's advice column

It seems I've spent many hours talking to my friends and offering advice, and as people keep coming back for it, I assume I'm not bad at it.

I know what it's like to be in love, and I also know what it's like to have your heart broken. I know what it's like to be depressed and feel anger towards all the people that love you - your friends, your family, your parents, your teachers. Advice is something I've always been good at, as my friends tell me. So if you want honest advice, ask me and I'll do my best to answer.

Aside from that, here's the basic info on me:

BASiCS

001.Name: Valerie
002.D.O.B.: July 10, 1989
003.Place Of Birth: St. Petersburg, Russia
004.Location: Navarre, FL
005.Religion: open minded
006.Occupation: student at Navarre High

APPEARANCE

001.Hair: brown/blonde highlites, past shoulders
002.Eyes: blue-green
003.Height: 5'4"

STYLE

001.Clothing: Aeropostale, Pac Sun
002.Music: Yellowcard, Simple Plan, Avril Lavigne, Linkin Park, Trapt, Switchfoot
003.Make-up: eye liner and lip gloss
004.Body art: none

EITHER / OR

001.Club or houseparty: club
002.Tea or coffee: coffee
003.Achiever or slacker: a bit of both
004.Beer or cider: beer
005.Drinks or shots: shots
006.Cats or dogs: cats
007.Single or taken: both have advantages
008.Pen or pencil: pen
009.Gloves or mittens: gloves
010.Food or candy: food
011.Cassette or cd: CD's
012.Coke or Pepsi: Pepsi
013.Hard or mild alcohol: mild
014.Matches or a lighter: lighter
015.Sunset beach or sunrise: sunset

HAVE YOU EVER...

001.Dated one of your best friends? yes
002.Loved somebody so much it makes you cry? yes
003.Drank alcohol? yes
004.Done drugs: no
005.Broken the law: who hasnt?
006.Ran away from home: no
007.Broken a bone: no
008.Cheated on a test: ....yes
009.Skinny dipped: no but sounds fun
010.Played truth or dare: yes
011.Flashed someone: for me to know
012.Mooned someone: no
013.Kissed someone you didn't know: no
014.Been on a talk/game show: no
015.Been in a fight: yes
016.Ridden in a fire truck: not yet
017.Been on a plane: yes
018.Come close to dying: yes
019.Cheated on your boy/girlfriend: never
020.Gave someone a piggy back/shoulder ride: yes
021.Eaten a worm/mud pie? no
022.Swam in the ocean: yes
023.Had a dream that made you wake up: yes

ARE YOU...

001.A Vegetarian?: no
002.A Good Student?: yes
003.Good At Sports?: only if i like the sport
004.Good At Wakeboarding/Snowboarding: not rly
005.A Good Singer?: no, but i try LoL
006.A good Actor/Actress?: yes
007.A deep sleeper?: no
008.A Good Dancer?: so/so
009.Shy?: not really
010.Outgoing?: most of the time
011.A good storyteller?: ppl say I am

AM I...

1. Quiet or Loud?: can be both
2. Short or Tall?: ppl call me short...
3. Weird or Original?: heh...both
4. Nice or Mean?: nice
5. Friendly or Selfish?: friendly
6. Normal or "Special"?: you decide
7. Smart or Stupid?: smart...but blonde
8. Boring or Fun?: depends

5 things that attract me to the opposite sex:
1. eyes
2. smile
3. personality
4. sense of humor
5. honesty

Life throws things at you, your choice is what to do with the things you catch...Will you drop them and complain about how hard it is or will you catch them and learn from them? Its your choice...

advice

if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.

I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do

I think it's perfectly normal. No one's perfect. Humans are curious creatures by nature, so trying to stop is not going to do you any good. It doesn't mean you're slipping fromt he Lord if you look at things, unless your parents are really really religious and all. But I still think there's nothing wrong with it. Its your life, right? Live it how you want to, not how someone else does.

JyNxiE