how do i get them to notice me?! i might not be the prettiest girl but i know im not ugly and i havent had a bf yet. not even a first kiss. im 13/f and idk how i can get noticed.
One thing that you should know is that usually teenage relationships for the most part do not last that long. Especially with you being at a young age. You maybe lucky if one lasts over a year or so when your 17 years old. But your more likely to have longer relationships once you are in your 20's. I did not get my first kiss until I was 18 years old. And that was with a 19 year old girl. So be patient and hopefully you will find someone soon. If you need anymore advice, please let me know. I hope that helped a little.
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My boyfriend and I were having sex. The condom wasn't lubricated and it was pretty dry. I just went to the bathroom and I was bleeding a little and it hurts. I think I've gotten like, a condom burn or it cut me or something. Is it anything to worry about? Will it heal? Or will it make me anymore lose?
ppplease help!!
It is very important that you are lubed up when you have sex. It is also best to use a lubricated condom as well which kind of helps, but isn't good enough. You should have lube on your vagina and a lube on the condom. Put as much as you can on both. This should hopefully stop the bleeding.
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she gets really hyper and spazzy all the time, but ussually its not serious and we make a joke out of it. ive tried gettin her to tell someone she just wont. and i just cant betray her trust and tell someone. shes alrede tried professional help and it only made her feel worse cuz it made her feel insane
I think the problem with why she hasn't told anyone about her problems is that she is really scared of what might happen to you. All I could really tell you is make the best decision that you can for your friend. If you have IM's
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i love my best friend to death and I REALLY dont want to disobey her trust. see a while ago she told me all this stuff about how she has another world she can escape 2 and sometimes she feels like she doesnt know who she is. she sometimes even, she says, forgets her name. shes already tried talking to her parents and a therapist, and her parents have tried giving her pills. all of it, she says, just make her feel worse, like shes insane. she has a lot of friends, gets good grades, in whole leads a very normal life and acts perfectly normal. we didn't mention this for a while, but over the weekend i went down with her family to the beach. saturday night she started randomly dancing in the sand, running and spazzing randomly all over the place, inchined way to close to the firework display just so, as she put it, she could be close to the sea, and wrote the name's of random people we no in the sand. all of this is very unlike her, and i at the time half-jokingly asked her "if she was here as herself" she wudnt answer me for a while and then very quietly said "who else would i be" and then wouldnt answer any more questions. later that night i asked what was going on and she wouldnt tell me. one of our other friends was there, who doesnt no everything i no and said shes fine stop overreacting. iasked her if she "promised" she was fine (promise is our trust word) and she wouldnt promise. i tried talking her into talking to me cuz i just wanted to help, I didnt want her to go through whatever it was alone. she wouldnt say anything. the next morning everything was back to normal. i dont know what to do and i cant tell anyone because i REALLY REALLY REALLY cant betray her trust like that. please help.
This isn't looking good for her. I think it's time to get her into a doctor, and maybe seek some other professional help as well. How often is this happening to her?
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right?
Reasons of why he was not able to penetrate inside of you could be because of the following.
1. You were not aroused enough. Just having a wet vagina isn't good enough. You need to be completly aroused and wanting sex.
2. You were nervous. This usually leads into a big chance that you won't be able to sex or have trouble fitting his penis in you.
3. Lack of lubrication. It is important that you use a lot of lubrication. It is preferred that you use Astroglide.
If you were relaxed, had a lot of foreplay done to you, and was really lubed up and still not able to have sex, then you should talk to your gynochologist. If you want to talk more about this whole penetration issue, stop by my advice column and e-mail me if you wish. My e-mail address is on my Advice Column.
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i dont know what to do
he always says he hates his life and wants to die
there is stuff EFFED up in his life but not to where he should die i mean its not THAT THAT BAD considering his mom died and his dad sometimes beats him. but his dad really loves him a LOT he can just be an asshole to his dad.
hes like 'im going to cut myself like rite now' and all this stuff because it "RELIVES STRESS FOR HIM" i dont know what to say
Sounds like he is severally depressed and needs to see a doctor and get counseling ASAP!
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im 14/f and i was asked to prom by my boyfriend of a few months (2-3). he goes to a different school and they only have a junior prom so what im asking is do you people think 14 is too young for prom. i have to say im a mature 14 and my bf thinks so and thats why he likes me besides numerous other reasons.we wouldnt have sex or go to parties afterward so is just prom too young for a 14year old????? my parents know and are ok with me going but i still dont know..
thanx a bunch
Prom is mainly for Juniors and Seniors in high school. I don't think they would let you go to prom.
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Does anyone know any websites where i can learn more about sex, basically the whole thing from tips to actually doing it and the consequences.
thanks♥
I've got a very good web site for you.
http://scarleteen.com
They really care for all of there people there and provide the best advice possible.
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hey thanks for the advice but believe me..i CAN get a job here at Mcdonalds at 15..my bestfriend is 15 and they hired her..she works weekends and she works in the mornin..so i dunno if the law is different here in Tennessee or what but believe me they DO hire at 15..do you know how i can convince my mom to let me work?
Well unfortunately, if she says no, then she says no. There's not much you can do except maybe ask her why she won't let you work.
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Me and my boy friend had sex. We have done it many times with and with out a condom. The first time we (I) did it, i did not bleed or feel any pain. But after about 2 or 3 months of us having sex, one time i was bleeding. So we decied to stop fooling around for a while. so we did, for a week and a half then we had sex again and blood, now its not like a massive amount its like when you have a little cut and wipe it its a little pink. we had sex 3 different times in about a week and there was blood. Now though we have been fooling around and i dont have that problem any more. i cant tell my mom, because she thinks im waiting till marrige.
Whoa! Stop right there and listen to me! Sex without a condom has a lot of risks to it. You have a really high risk of pregnancy, and you also have a high risk of STDS/STIS. What you need to do is make an appointment with your gynochologist and request a full std/sti screening. Your partner needs to also get a full std/sti screening as well. Your partner should always wear a condom when you have sex. Now in answer to the blood issue, you need to use lots of lube! Feel free to visit my advice page and contact me if you want to talk.
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Okay so im 15 years old and i would like to get a job and earn some money. We dont have many job opportunities around here for 15 year olds and McDonalds is pretty much the only place that'll hire 15 year olds. Now the reason i need money is because my parents are broke..i hate spending their money cuz they always complain..so i figured if i got a job i could fix this..the only problem is my mom doesnt want me working at Mcdonalds..and i really dont see any harm in it..alot of my friends work there so its not like i'll be the only one there..i think she is worried most about me gaining more weight from working at a place like that...But is there any way to convince my mom that working at fast food places wont kill me..its not like i plan on working there my whole life you know? Thanks In Advance!
I'll be happy to help you on this one. Unfortunately you won't be able to get a job until you turn 16. This has to do with child labor laws. I work for a McDonald's myself and we don't hire anyone under the age of 16. Most people we hire though are 17 or older. So I'm sorry about this, but it's very unlikely that you could have a job at 15 years old. Any questions, come to my Advice Center.
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ok im 13/f and one of my friends have been "messing around" lately but i wont have sex with him without a condom. the problem is my mother stil thinks im a virgin. i dont know how to get birth control or condoms without my mom finding out. in the area i live in there is only 2 small gas stations around which both carry condoms but i have a feeling my mom would find out about me buying them, i wouldnt be so worried about her finding out if the guy was 16. i have had sex with him before and ended up missing my period for 2 months! are there any ideas on how to get protection?
please help soon! i rate well!
This may sound kinda mean, but I am almost pretty sure that there are laws in your state about people having sex under the age of 18 or 16. You better check them. Someone could be in big trouble if found out.
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ok everyday i wake up about like 4:00 in the morning but after i go to sleep suddenly after like 10 to 20 minutes my whole body becomes paralized,i cant move i cant speak,can open my eyes i cant even open my mouth until like 10 seconds then it goes away!..this started once everytwo weeks then went on to once every other day now it happens everyday!...people say its stress but i dont know yes im going through alot more then any 14 yearold can ever imagine other people should thank the Lord they dont go through what i go through...but i dont know what it is its killing me i learned how to beat it now i just have to take control over my body again but its scary i dont even like goin to bed anymore! please help me!!
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i have never been allergic to anything or had allergies. but i haave heard its allergy season and yesterday during the day my eyes got really watery, my nose was stuffy & i didn't have a cold. i know these are symptoms of allergies.. so do i have them? thanks
It maybe possible that you can have allergies, but watery eyes can happen at different times as well. There are different kinds of Allergie medicines that you can take, but be sure that you understand what side effects there are in these medicines as they can really affect you.
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First of all, I am fifteen years old and will be getting my intermediate license in three months- therefore, I need to buy a car so that I won't have to ride the bus next year to school. In order to buy a car, I of course, need cash. The problem is- I can't find a job. Everywhere that I try to apply, the minimum age limit is sixteen. Does anyone have any ideas about what I could do for money? Please, no ideas including babysitting and cleaning- because I already do both of those. I would very much appreciate the advice, and I will give you a five for good advice.
If you were to ask me, driving to school can be a bad idea. The reason being is that there are more chances that a vehicle can be broken into, and more chances of getting into an accident in the school parking lot. That was how it was when I went to school. An of course, with gas at or near $3 a gallon, that can be pretty tough on you. What is it that you don't like about the bus? If you want to, you can check out my Advice Nators website. http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Adviceguy158
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Okay so I am 14/f and will be graduating from 8th grade this year. The only thing is i do not want to go to my graduation because i dont want to have to walk infront of all the people, this is because I have Cerebral Palsy. It is a disorder that cause tight hamstings and makes me walk ver different from others. I am very self consious of this. I want to be a part of graduation but walking on stage and down an aisile(sp?) really acres me. I know that other should not judge me but. I just really dont know what to do any advice would help.I also have a big problem with stage fright and public things such as this ..if that means anything.
This is kinda off topic, but do you get picked on about your Cerebral Palsy? If so, then I could see why you wouldn't want to walk in front of everyone. Also, do you tend to fall a lot as well? If you want to, you can visit my advice nators site at http://advicenators.com/column.php?u=Adviceguy158 Hope this helps somewhat.
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I've finally decided where to go to college next year. I cancelled the housing/dorm form since I figured I could live with my sister in her apartment right by the school. I thought this would be great since the dorms at the school are notoriously crazy and that's not me at all.
Yet, now I'm having second thoughts. I already have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about finding a 'hot guy' to hook up with or anything, but asside from classes, will I meet as many people? Would I be missing out on basic college experiences if I don't live in a dorm?
I will try my best to help you on this one, but this seems like a hard answer. Some colleges do require you to live in a dorm for the first year or two. Will you meet a few people if you weren't living in a dorm? The answer to that is that you would have to decide that for yourself. You could always visit other dorm rooms if you would like to as well. You should still be able to do college activites even if you didn't have a dorm. You should make sure though that your sister would let you live in her apartment though. Any other questions, you can e-mail me at pcdoctor2@cashette.com Hopes this helps somewhat.
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Im fourteen and I have always wanted to be a doctor when I get older. What should I be doing to help prepare myself? I mean, I know I should work hard in school, but I want to be a pediatrician and so is there any good books I can study?
This would actually be a good question to maybe as a doctor about. You could also ask a librarian at your local library and see if he/she may know any good books on how to become a doctor. You can also do a google search for best becoming doctor books. This is the best I can do for you.
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my ares won't pop up on my computer i mean i click on it.. and it won't do nothing it won't pop up how could i fix this problem?
You may want to try reinstalling Ares. Do a google search for it and you will then find a download link. There maybe a newer version than the one you have now. You should also run any spyware and virus programs you may have to make sure your computer is free of viruses and spyware.
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i was just curious but is intercorse or any type of sex the only way u can get pregnant?
haha i kno its dumb but i'm just curious.
It is very possible that you could get pregnant without having intercourse. Cum from the male could possibly make you pregnant. This is a moderate chance that this would happen. If you would like, you could go to http://www.scarleteen.com and read articles and even sign up with the forums they have there.
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