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is this normal
Me and my boy friend had sex. We have done it many times with and with out a condom. The first time we (I) did it, i did not bleed or feel any pain. But after about 2 or 3 months of us having sex, one time i was bleeding. So we decied to stop fooling around for a while. so we did, for a week and a half then we had sex again and blood, now its not like a massive amount its like when you have a little cut and wipe it its a little pink. we had sex 3 different times in about a week and there was blood. Now though we have been fooling around and i dont have that problem any more. i cant tell my mom, because she thinks im waiting till marrige.
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IDK if it is normal to bleed after a while but the blood from when your cherry pops is pink and eerything. so that part is normal...
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Everyone is on ya, girl, and they're right.
You need to use safer sex barriers EVERY TIME you have sex. Not only will it help to prevent pregnancy and STI/STDs, but condoms create less friction, especially when used in conjunction with lubrication...which could cause your bleeding.
Speaking of...are you using lubrication? Perhaps a water-based or silicone lubricant will stop some of the pain and bleeding, if it's because of friction.
The odds are, you have an open cut or wound in your vaginal tissue. This is not only uncomfortable, but it leaves you even MORE susceptible to getting an STI or STD. The need for protection is even greater than before! Oh, and um...it hurts, too! Ouch!
Of course, the best suggestion is to go and see a gynecologist. It may not be a tear, it may be any number of things. If you refuse to do that, at least take two weeks off from sex, let yourself heal, and then use a water-based or silicone lubricant so that you don't cause any more tears in your sensitive vaginal tissue. If there is still bleeding, then it is even MORE imperative that you see a health practitioner.
I am not advocating sex for you right now. However, I'm no dummy...you'll do it anyhow. Just take some time to let yourself heal, and then if you're bound and determined to do it again, use condoms and lubricant.
Good luck, and PLEASE be safe -
Marissa
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That is definitely not normal.
You should consider booking an appointment with your gynecologist. You may have a lesion, cyst or sore that is re-opening from the constant thrusting or rubbing inside; or you may have something else occurring that requires medication or surgery. Even if you haven't had any bleeding since, you should still get checked out. You've been having unprotected sex and sometimes, irregular bleeding can be caused by sexually transmitted diseases.
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And be sure to have yourself checked out by your gynecologist.
All the best.
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Okay, I know this is going to sound mean, but I don't even care about the rating at this point. You can give me the biggest 1 you want, it's not going to hurt me or affect my opinion in any way. I hope that what I say helps you even if you claim it doesn't by giving me a low rating. You need to hear this and I'm willing to take the fall because, well, because I care and I hate seeing bad things happening to good people. Yes, I believe you are a good person. However, good people often do really dumb things. You are being very stupid and you need to understand that. If you don't know why I'm upset, you're really in trouble.
Stop having unprotected sex before your whole life gets turned upside down.
If you are so concerned about your mom knowing that you are having sex WHY are you not using protection every single time? What's going to happen when you get pregnant? You'll HAVE to tell her then and unprotected sex will go over much worse than protected sex especially if that unprotected sex results in pregnancy. Maybe I shouldn't say that you "have" to tell her. You could just wait until she notices or even go through the whole process of getting an abortion, without telling her. Plus, holy crap, you'll be pregnant! Forget your mom, what about you? What about your boyfriend? Think he's going to stick around? Any of this sound fun? If so, please continue what you're doing.
It doesn't take much thought to come up with that. You're definitely not responsible or mature enough to be having sex if you can't make those conclusions and the appropriate decisions.
The bleeding is normal. If you're going to have sex, which I wouldn't recommend, but, hey, I can't stop you, use protection every time. If you take anything out of what I said, take that. Remember too, that even if you do, you can still get pregnant. Condoms don't work every time.
Sorry if I got too excited or offended you, but damn, girl. Use your head. Good luck.
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Whoa! Stop right there and listen to me! Sex without a condom has a lot of risks to it. You have a really high risk of pregnancy, and you also have a high risk of STDS/STIS. What you need to do is make an appointment with your gynochologist and request a full std/sti screening. Your partner needs to also get a full std/sti screening as well. Your partner should always wear a condom when you have sex. Now in answer to the blood issue, you need to use lots of lube! Feel free to visit my advice page and contact me if you want to talk.
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