about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

How/Can a moderate delete a question?

you cant really delte a question until you are a level 2 moderate . what you can do is give it a bad rating.
*~Stephanie~*

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My friend is 14/f and she wants big boobs. She's not going to get plastic surgery(thats for sure) and i keep telling her everyone goes at their own pace. She doesnt even fit into an A cup. DOes anyone know how to make their boobs bigger with out surgery and stuff?I know this may be embarrasing so dont be a smart and tease. I rate 5's for any good answers tho!

she should wear patted bra's. those will make them look bigger.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
i rate 5s.

you need to tell him the truth dont let him keep goin wit ur realtionship taht you want no part in. the faster you tell him the less hurt he will be.
*~Stephanie~*

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how do you scrunch your hair? like my hair is like shoulder length, & doesn't hold curl very well. i have mouse, hairspray, & gel at my house, & i want to do it today.

i rate high!

it is really simple.. after getting out the shower put mouse in you hair and then run your fingures through it. after that put gel and like push your hair up but one warning dont let your hair be soaking wet becase the gel and mouse wont hold really well like that. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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what do you do when you get fingered? like do you just sit there or what? does anyhting happen? and how do i get fingered like what does he do?

he sticks his fingers in you "down there" and moves them around and you supposed to amke nosies and what you can be doing is makin out with him at the same time.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay so my head itches and i have this weird bump inside and like i havent found any "Bugs" or "eggs,larva" but i cant help but itch my scalp..please help I DO NOT HAVE LICE!!!!!!!!!

it can just be just dandrift. i mean it is a possiblity. try takin a shower and rinsing your hair throughly. hope this helps.
~*Stephanie~*

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Is it true that if you buy clothes from the internet its cheaper(Hollister, American EAgle, Abercrombie, Papaya, Pac Sun)?And what are the return policies usually?thanks&hearts

yea except it comes out almost the same because you have to pay shipping and handeling.
*~Stephanie~*

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As stated in my profile. I have been told that I give good advice but I cant take my own.

*Well I've been with my Boyfriend for awhile now, and we are completly happy. He calls me each and everyday and tells me he loves me. And its only every so often that we go a day without seeing each other. I love him to death, i really do.

So lately I've been telling him I want to be with him for a very long time, and he always grabs my hand and smiles and says we have a long time left together babe.

Well at a young age I was rapped by an older guy and then, I actually gave another guy a chance and slept with him and then he cheated on me and broke up with me because I was too insecure.

And this is the Second guy since the incident that I've slept with and he's been there and loved me and hasnt giving me a reason to doubt him. But it's like Im scared of losing the love of my life. I swear every man that I've every loved I've lost...My dad died when i was 13!

Well today I was quiet and he looked me in the eyes and asked me what was wrong and i got all teary eyed and said I dont want to lose you...and he was quiet and said dont think that way i love you and only you and dont want anyone else, dont think your going to lose me we've still got along time together...well you think that would make me feel better right? Well it didnt, im still iffy....

We are leaving to go to mexico tomorrow with my family for about 4 days and then December 18 we are leaving to New Hampshire to stay with his family for two weeks...so i know he is pretty serious about me but Im still scared...i dont know what it is i trust him to death but idk....

-I'm not looking for the answer of: Don't think of him as all the other relationships. Or dont freak out about him, dont be so insecure it'll be okay...i need some serious advice...-

please help*

you need to sit your boyfriend down and tell him hwo you feel about all of this. explain to how muich you care abotu adn what si going through ur head. your boyfriend will help you get through it no matter what it takes. trust me the only thing he wants is to make the love of his life happy and see you with a smile on your face.
*~Stephanie~*

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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.

This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.

I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions?

what are you waiting for the longer you take the more they will be hurt. call the socail work and report it.
*~Stephanie~*

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well i havent had my first kiss yet... but i really want it! uh how do i let my boyfriend no that i want to kiss him or him to kiss me without telling him?

th easiest thing to do is when you are with him get close hom and either give hima peak on the lips or a kiss on the check.
*~Stephanie~*

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DEAR BEAUTYSCH00L-DR0P0UTx3,

So ive had a boyfriend for a long time. I love him a lot and he loves me but i also want to go a little farther than what we are already at. im only 15 but i think im ready. Do i tell him to do it with me or should i not or what should i do? im so confused.

Signed,
TR0UBLED-L0VE

you need to talk to you oyfrend and explain to him how you feel. that is the only way he will know.
*~Stephanie~*

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do guys know when a girl is there first kiss?

*K

nope. you really cant tell unless you open your mouth and tell them you are. there are millions of ways to kiss someone so if it is your first who ever your goin to kiss wont noe. my bf still doesnt believe me that he is the first guy that i have kissed.
*~Stephanie~*

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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

i dont get why the hell you would want your tampon to glow in the dark. but i have seen other stupider stuff then that that people have made millions with. i guess it is worth a try. i mean you wont ever find out unless you try it.
*~Stephanie~*

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is there any way yu can make yur boobs look smaller?

sports bra would do the tricvk and if you dotn want them to be shown even more dont wear tops that stick to you.
*~Stephanie~*

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Does anyone know who to become a moderator 2 or a site?Any suggestions would be helpful!

basically all you got to do is rate a lot of question each day.
*~stephanie~*

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after you join a blogring, can you like "un join it" or like delete it?

i am pretty sure you can always unjoin a bolgring.
*~stephanie~*

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I can't understand why my fiance is ALWAYS in the MOOD, all the time 24/7 he HAS TO HAVE IT! He gets angry when I say no, yells at me and claims I'm cheating on him. Why can't he understand that EVERY DAY 2-3 times a day is TOO MUCH! I love him to death, but he's killing me.

the best thign to do in your sistuation is to sit your fiance down and explain to him how you feel. you guys need to figure it out tell him that is too much for you to handle and tell him sex isnt everything in the world.
*~Stephanie~*

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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys?

outgoing, sweet, caring, independent, good personality, a good listener, those are the easiest ways to put it.
*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i thought we were happy until a couple of days ago he said hes not in it and hes afraid of commitment. so he broke up with me. well today i finally convinced him to give us another shot because i love him with all my heart, and i was crying so he said ok. he claims its because he wants to but i cant help but think maybe he just felt bad. what should i do??

talk to him about it and explain to him that you dont want him to be goin out with you if he is only goin to do it because he felt bad for you.
*~stephanie~*

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hi..ok i like this kid and he is really cool and hes in my classes and we talk all the time and we flirt ALL the time too...but the only thing is that he has a girlfriend..now i dont know what to do, do i flirt back when he flirts with me, or stay away?

in my opinon since he has a girlfriend you should lay off of him. i mean if you were goin out wti a guy you wouldnt enjoy another girl flirtin wit your man.. so just leave him alone and dont flirt back.
*~Stephanie~*

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