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my boyfriend?
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year, i thought we were happy until a couple of days ago he said hes not in it and hes afraid of commitment. so he broke up with me. well today i finally convinced him to give us another shot because i love him with all my heart, and i was crying so he said ok. he claims its because he wants to but i cant help but think maybe he just felt bad. what should i do??
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***This is a tough one... but hey all i can tell you is to confront him face to face about it ... look him in his eyes (and make sure he maintains eye contact as well) and ask him if he truly does love you and make SURE that he isnt doing it just because he made you cryy... and if you are still doubting him or he admits that he doesnt feel the same... look into it .. ya know ask his friends or if your close to his family and still talk to them ask them if they know whats going on or if theres someone else ... cause hes got to have feeling for you hun theres no wayy 1 whole year meant nothing... just keep your head up and have faith in yourself ...
***Kayla...
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Aww well I understand you love him and all that but it seems like he just wants a little break so just slow everything down and let him do what he feels is right .. what he thinks is right might not be what you think is right but it would be the best for both of you I know its soo hard, but some things you just have to let go but if he likes you again and everything then just love each other and everything will go good ♥
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i have been with my boyfriend for along time. and its happened. guys are afraid of commitment, believe it or not. you just have to assure him that you love him and you will give him his space but you want to be with him and if he really wants to be with you too that you two can work together to fix the problem xoxox
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If he doesn't want to be with you, then there really isn't much point for you to be with him, even if he agreed to give you another chance.
You should talk to him about it. Make sure you act calm, even if you don't feel calm. If he insists that he still wants to be with you, may be he really does, but really don't expect too much. You're better off breaking up with him, unless you want to be with him and have to worry about him wanting to break up again.
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talk to him about it and explain to him that you dont want him to be goin out with you if he is only goin to do it because he felt bad for you.
*~stephanie~*
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