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hey i know hollister has sales on clothes sometimes.but i was on their website and saw a lot of nice stuff on the clearance i was wondering if anyone was at the store reccently and saw a lot of stuff on sale because i dont want to order it all online and it might not fit..thanks a lot

Well at one store i used to go to, all the sale stuff was xs or s...always. at the one i went to like 2 weeks ago, i found a lote more variety of sizes and styles so it really depends. the stuff on the website... you can just get it and if it doesn't fit, take it to the store. but i really do suggest going to the store first.

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i want to use fake eyelashes, the individual ones. if i use them how long about should they stay on for.. and will the effect my real eyelashes in anyway, like rip em outt? remember they're individual

i haven't used the individual ones but i have used the other kind many times. if you use eyelash glue, they won't rip them out. (or else i wouldn't have any lashes left) the glue like rolls off.. it's more rubbery that like regular glue. mine stayed of for around 4 hours (i never needed them longer than that). i know it's not the exact thing you want, bu i'm hoping that gives you a little more info.

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is it unnatractive to guys if girls dont shave "down there"? i dont normally shave it all because it comes back all scratchy and it bothers me alot. i usually just cut most of it

it depends on the guy.
if youre not with someone or messing around with someone currently, then don't do it. if you ask the person and they hate hair then you can deal with it.

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i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs?

join a club or afterschool activity and go to meetings/practices religiously or just a different group of friends could work too.

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hi.. is there a way to like, message other advicenators without like getting into trouble / breaking the rules? like you know how on myspace you can send messages & no one sees them but the two of you? besides IMing / emailing them, of course... like is there a way to do it THROUGH advicenators? thanks!

I think you can message someone through inbox but just to get their sn or if it's something urgent... I don't think advicenators wants people messaging back and forth that way.

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hey.

i get really pissed off when i get a 4 or lower.
i get mad because i spend SO much time on each
question & try to answer it the best i can, but
some people are just mean! i dont feel as bad
when that person gave EVERYONE a 4 or 3,
but when other people got 5s with answers that
i think are worse than mine, i get really upset.

like, i know it's "just a website" but i really would
love to have a really high rating, like 4.95 or higher.
but i went through a chain of 5s & got up to 4.9 &
now i got ONE four & i went back down to 4.89!

do i have like, OCD or something? why am i
so obsessed with getting a 5? can someone
try to make me feel better? & i know i can get
into trouble for this - but i always give people a
5 even if their answer was TOTALLY not relevant
to my question! i just think, "omg but if I got a 4,
i would be soooo upset!" i know it's not fair or
anything but i just can't help it.

thanks in advv. :]

I understand how you feel. the site is about helping people and like you go out of your way and try to find something to help them or share something to give them some guidance and then you get a 2 because they think differently... that kills me sometimes... makes my wanna quit and just screw it. You just gotta live with it. i know it's hard sometimes but not everyone is gonna like what you say because they don't want to accept something. I'm the same way with ratings... if they tried and they had something of value to add, i'll give them a 5 because i appreciate what they have to say. if they don't really say anything i care to read, i just don't rate it at all.
so, don't feel bad. a lot of people feel the same way you do.

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Is it a turn off for guys if a girl has already had sex? I'm not talking about being slutty or anything, I've only been with one person, and lost my virginity to my first true love. I'm just worried now that I won't be able to be in a serious relationship with someone else.

For most guys I know, it actually is a turn off.
one of my close guy friends lost it to a girl with experience and it didn't make that much of a difference -- he actually regrets doing it with her now.
I mean, I don't know if it would really make a difference in your love life but from what i've seen, a lot of guys do like virgins. I guess i'm just friends with goody goodies :P

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this is kind of vague, but what kind of shoes are in right now? not more than $100 plz. also, i would appreciate links or sites. thanks in advance!

flats - aldo has some really cute ones for about $30. target for $15
flip flops - 2 for $5 at old navy of $35-40 for the nice leather ones at hollister/ae/a&f.
I haven't seen wedges all that much yet this year but i got mine at target last year for about $20.
about the sites, i'm about to go to bed... just add dot com to any of those or if you need them, i'll edit for you.

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ok right now me & my bf make out with he feels me up & stuff.
i need more ideas to make it more exciting but i wont go past letting him finger me and i wont give hima handjob.
i need things to spice it up.
thanks a lot.
=)

wear something hott like a jean mini or go commando (should spice things up..)
do whatever you want, kiss in different ways, go to different places and do stuff, take off your shirt or take his off...

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I went to the doctor the other day, to see if i were a.d.d, and see about getting medicine. i had to pee in a cup and yaddyyaddyyah. im 13. i have giving head, thats it. well yeah thats alot for a 13 year old. anyways. onetime i was maturbating and my dog came, and started licking, it kind of felt pretty nice. so i let him for a litttle while. gross i know. well the doctor called and said she wants to talk, saturday. i know probly something about my a.d.d. but could something come out in the pee resaults?

im worring myself sick and i know what i did was gross and wrong. i regret it.

oral with humans or dogs will not show up on urine tests. they just want to talk to you about A.D.D and what medicine is right for you, etc. don't worry about, really.

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hey you guys probally know the band HIM well i was wondering if its said him like a word or like each letter like h...i...m. haha yea well thanks :)

It's HIM like the pronoun him.
unless you want to say "his infernal majesty" which some people still use but not many.

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i want to know EVERYTHING about sex. everything absolutley everything. like for example wat is a tea bag? and what do u do in it? i want to know what everything is and how you do it.

thanks

I don't even know where to start...
my advice is to look at previously asked questions about sex on this site... if you find something you've never heard of, look at the answers. if you want info try sex-project.com or coolnurse.com. for slang like tea bag, go to urbandictionary.com. if you have like specific questions, inbox me

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how much should someone 5'3" weigh?

I would say anywhere from around 95 - 150 pounds.

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i no that this is kinnda sad. but i can not punch for my life ! what do i do ? how do i make it work

no it's not sad... I took taekwondo for around 4 years and I could never perfect my punches. (no joke). Some people just aren't meant to throw awesome punches - unless you find it absolutely necessary, don't worry yourself sick over it. I broke my hand breaking a board trying to backhand (a type of punch) and trust me, it was not worth it.

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i wana redo my room. 13/f gothic and my mom hates goths but im gothic. so i cant do gothic well nothing she would think would be but any advice on what colors for walls and everything else.
so how could i make it look like a gothic room but not black walls.
i like purple black white red and pokadots or anything
i hate pink blue green

DOn't do anything too drastic. I'm a fan of being what you want to be but trust me, in a year or 2, you will be into different things.
I would do a very classic black, white & red theme. white walls, black curtains and red accessories. I don't know what kind of goth you are but that's what i think would look very edgy without freaking someone out. if you need anything else, lemme know. i love designing rooms.

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Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it

I would wait a little while if i were you... maybe until 15? Not because it's slutty but because it's like a hole. i know a girl that's 15 and one day she had to like repierce it (to get a different ring in) and she passed out. later on she was drying herself after a shower and she ripped it out but not all the way and she said it hurt soo soo bad. don't do things because your friends do... it's ok to be different.

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Is it wierd to call a guy babe? cause i was talking to him online(nd we were flirting, he's really hot and i plan on hooking up with him), and he was like, g2g love you, and i didnt know what to say so i was like, ttyl babe.

is that wierd?

no, it's not weird.
i call my boy "babe" all the time & he likes it.

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i'm moving next year and i'll just be starting highschool. i don't know what i'm going to do because i made a whole bunch of friends here and it's going to suck. i'm not good at making friends. on the first day of school everyone is going to have friends and i won't. :(
how could i make friends?

You have no idea how lucky you are that you are moving before high school starts! most people don't really talk to their middle school friends in high school anyway. I moved in the middle of my sophomore year and that REALLY SUCKED. as a freshman, a lot of people don't know anyone so you'll have a fresh start with everyone else. try meeting someone from that school on myspace of facebook if you can. that's what i did and it worked out. if that's not an option, just go with it. be friendly and you will make friends. trust me, all freshmen are scared they wont make new friends so just remember that. if you need anything else, lemme know.

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do adults do bj's. like would my parents? or is it just a teen thing?

I'm positive they do like them but maybe not quite as much as teens do. that's just what i see though.. i could be wrong.

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Hey what I want to know is how I can make my boyfriend horney. No I am not being a tease because he told me he loves when I do it but I don't know how I did. I don't want to ask him because I kind of want to suprise him. Also I can't really dress in "sexy clothing" cuz i dont have boobs and I don't talk dirty cuz its just not cool to me. But can someone give me some information on places where I can touch him or kiss him or something that will turn him on.

Thanks sooo much!

most guys just like to be touched all over & like jean skirts (not too slutty of course but just skirts.) try ivillage.com or askmen.com for actual turn on info.

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