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Turn off for guys?
Is it a turn off for guys if a girl has already had sex? I'm not talking about being slutty or anything, I've only been with one person, and lost my virginity to my first true love. I'm just worried now that I won't be able to be in a serious relationship with someone else.
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personally, i'd prefer if they were no longer a virgin. because, mainly, it is very intimidating to break the "cherry". it supposedly hurts (or doesnt hurt at all, depending on the girl), and a lot of guys would be scared that they might hurt the girl.
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For most guys I know, it actually is a turn off.
one of my close guy friends lost it to a girl with experience and it didn't make that much of a difference -- he actually regrets doing it with her now.
I mean, I don't know if it would really make a difference in your love life but from what i've seen, a lot of guys do like virgins. I guess i'm just friends with goody goodies :P <3
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It could be a turn off for some guys because you wouldn't be the only guy she's slept with, but then again, she has experience.
For me, I was the 5th girl my ex boyfriend had slept with. It turned me off enough to wanna dump him.
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I'm no guy, but I can assume that it's definitly not a turn off. It's probably a turn on...considering the fact that you're experienced.
Although if the guy is a virgin, he might feel a bit intimidated.
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Some guys like it better when the girls is not a virgin. Because when a girl gets her cherry popped it hurts real bad because there is a sort of lining in the back of the vagina where the penis is inserted and that lining/wall ripps and usually blood occurs. Some guys don't like dealing with that but others don't mind. Usually it shouldn't be an issue.
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