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Long story short, I'm from Los Angeles, went to an amazing school, left the US and moved to the Middle East. I've been backpacking around Europe and the Middle East on and off since August 2013.


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Alright, well.
where to start. I've never really told nebody about this, but my best friend knows. alright, well, I met this guy online, and we became great friends, and one day he told me that he loved me. and he gave me the day, and I realized, I loved him too. Well, this guy... has to be the sweetest male alive, I love him with all my heart, we talk about everything, now, the problem is, he lives in South Carolina, and I live in california. I'm a country girl, hes a city boy. well, our diffrences dont bother us. comming in march, will be our 4 year anniversery. another problem, hes turning 20 this month, and i'm only 15. again, we dont view this as an issue.
we talk online practically 24/7, he stayed up till midnight califonria time for me last night for new years. we've sent letters back and forth, talked on the phone, we've done a ton of things. well, he wants to meet the year I graduate. well, theres two problems.
1. My Mother. she is the most over protective thing EVER. though my oldest brother had an online girlfriend in PA, and visited her for his graduation present, but they knew about his gf. buuut they dont know about me and my bf.
2. my religion. I'm mormon, and i'm not supposed to date until I'm 16 (this september) and i know for a fact my mom wouldnt approve of him. he doesnt approve of my guy friends, any of them over the age of 16, little lone 20.

though I do think i'll have some more freedom by then, I dont know if it'll work. plus, after hs, i'm planning college and a mission...and more college. by the time we can really settle down, he'd be like 32, and yes, we've planned all this out, and hes upset with that idea, but I dont know what to do!

well, I have a few questions

1. I want personal opinions, do you think we would last if we tried

2. since hes upset about him being the age he would be, should I just drop off like, going on a mission, or a few years of college? should i just go to an out of state college, and move in with him?

3. Do i keep this stuff from my parents? they once got into my e-mail and found a ton of e-mails from him, and i was practically dead meat, I blocked his sn and deleted his e-mail off my list in front of them, and they stoppped bothering me, so what he did was change e-mails and I unblocked his sn, that was 3 years ago. Do i risk chancing it now? do i wait until i'm 16 or 17 when i'm of age?

I really want to spend my entire life with him, and I know that for sure right now.

please guys, help!!

No. I agree with YG that he is a pedophile.

I have been in a similar situation with someone from GA (I, too, live in California). I was crying for hours after he told me he "loved" me.

If he were a friend of a friend, then I could see this working. Otherwise, I can only envision you getting hurt.

He probably isn't telling you something-it's just SO unnatural. My guess is he wants sex, and he will rape you if you meet.

At least wait until you're legal; then it's not against any laws anywhere.

Skip the mission. I'm very, very verbal about people choosing their own religion, and going door to door trying to convert people is a waste of your time.

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i need to get my splits (both ways) by the end of may for drill team tryouts!!!! thats almost six months! if i stretch everyday and go down and hold my splits and stuff like that how long do u guyz think it might take me to get my splits? could i get them by may??? im not super flexible but i am pretty flexible if that helps. thanks!!! also do you know any stretches for them??

From a gymnast of 7 years:

Just do them. I'd suggest doing a straddle first, and becoming limber.

In your straddle, once you can't feel the stretch anymore, lift yourself up and scoot forward, thus creating more of a middle split.

Practice every day. If you get it and don't practice, you'll lose it.

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happy new year first of all
this question is for the mac users. how do u resize ur pictures?
thanks
=)

www.resize2mail.com

Happy new year to you, too. :)

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This is really really iffy. My family obviously thinks that: homosexuals are a disgrace and they're ruining the world and that they should die before they spread their "diseas" to other people and I know that's complete bs. I'm in 9th grade and my friends who I'm going to talk about are in 9th and 10th grade. I'm bi and I have about 10 bi friends and 3 gay friends. I can't tell my family the truth about all my friends because they'll say "You are not to associate with them in any way shape or form..stay away from them" etc and I won't be able to hang out with them anymore. My best friend who is gay and I are really close along with my other gay friend. I can't go over to their houses at all alon ebecause my mom thinks they'll stone me and rape me. And I can't say that they're gay and so either way I can't hang out with my gay guy friends. I like this girl at school and I want to ask her out but that's complicated because I have some friends at school that know and will tell my sister if they found out about my orientation. So I really don't know what to do. I can't talk about it with my family because they'll just get mad at me and yell at me for being a heretic from the family...and I'm just frustrated with this situation because I'm so tied down...what do I do?!?!

Do what you want and get your family counseling.

I am straight, for sure, but I have a lot of b i and gay friends, and they are just reguar people.

Homophobia is the disease, not homosexuality. It's the same as being racist.

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QUESTION ONE: If someone says to you that you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc) for example on Saturday, August 25th (your first day of your vacation) and then a week later they tell you you no longer look drawn (tired, haggard, etc), but you now look good because it was at the end of your vacation would you accept the fact that they no longer think you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc) or would you still think about what they said to you a week ago that you look drawn (tired, haggard, etc)

QUESTION 2: Isnt it true that if someone is thin and they look drawn (tird, haggard,gaunt) they willlook even thinner?

Stop asking this question. Once was enough.

Don't ask two questions in one. Separate them.

With that being said, some people are stubborn and dwell on the past.

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whenever i change my pad or tampon at school it takes a long time and makes a lot of noise ( the crinkling paper and taking pads off)

so what are some tips on how to do this faster and quieter?

i'll take anything i can get!

HAPPY 2007.

Tampons are quieter.

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what song did afi sing on mtv's new years eve thing right after it was the new year?!

right before three 6 mafia i tihkn?


thnks :]

It's not the new year everywhere! It will be rerun in a couple of hours so you can rewatch and see then. :)

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ok seriously my parents are trying to control my life! i hate it! there in there 50's and 50 years ago they didnt really have all the things that teens go through now...what i mean is they didnt have alot of peer presure and all that good stuff (not) anyway they think they know whats its like to be a teenager in this time period..everything they say is like something you would hear in a 50's movie. ive tried telling them they dont know whats going on in teenage world and there like yeah we know more than you think...tonight my best friend for 9 years was haveing a little party and my mom wouldnt let me go because she didnt trust the people there...there like not letting me live my life. there not letting me be a kid. i hate it. so my question is how am i supposed to deal with this? please help

Get over yourself.

Wait until you're eighteen and then go do whatever the hell you want to. At least wait until you're legal to go to stupid parties. It's less of a liability for them that way.

I am purposely staying in tonight so that I don't get killed by a drunk driver. Los Angeles has so many parties that it is a real risk.

In that time period (if they're 50, then this would be the late 60s-70s), there were a LOT of drugs and raves, and they don't want you to be involved in that.

"they dont know whats going on in teenage world." Things really have changed for the worse. They'd have to live under a rock in the middle of nowhere to not know what is going on today.

On a side note, please type correctly; this was really hard to read.

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I have a plasma tv that I want to hang on the wall.

What do I do about all the wires/cords/ect. that will be hanging down to the dvd player and such?

The wires to mine go through the wall to an entertainment unit.

As this may be infeasible, you really don't have any other choice than to have them be seen.

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What is the point of dropping a huge ball in New York worth thousands or millions of dollars? What does it symbolize? Whats the history of it? Thanx
-anohome-

It does't drop; it is lowered. They use the same ball each year.

As Thew said, it is a publicity stint.

I'm sure it is on Wikipedia, if you look.

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This is also for people 30 and above. Do you think your friends, relatives (mothers, father, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, etc) remember what you looked like (if you were thin, fat, your hair was frizzy/straight, etc) when you were in your teens, or 20's and above. Or your friends, relatives (mothers, father, sisters, brothers,
aunts, uncles, etc) only know what you look like now. And why do you feel this way.

Yes, I think that they remember (my family remembers what each other were like), but I don't think that it affects anything.

My family might not be the norm; we have really good memories and have old pictures up everywhere.

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I just got an IPod Nano for Christmas. Its working fine and everything but I just found out a few days ago that I can put pictures on it. Its only got 838 songs and its supposed to hold like 1000 songs. Its 4GB if that helps. My computer says the IPod is already full. How can i get the picture on it? Do i have to delete some songs?

Yes. You need to delete some songs.

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Ok, my new years resolution is to lose weight...my problem is that i do NOT like to exercise. I've tried many sports, but do not like them. I need exercise ideas. I like to swim, but have NO access to a pool. I really really need ideas for this...and another thing...does slim fast work? I wanna know. Thanx soooooo much in advance!!!

Dance. Dancers have amazing bodies.

And next time, please ask two separate questions for two separate topics.

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hi,im 15/m (not that it really matters), well what i was wandering was, what exactly are friends wih benefits its a stupid question and i really need to know, thanks in advance

It's a friend with whom you have sex, or make out with, or anything in between. However, you aren't going out, and you're more than jsut friends.

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15/m iv had spots for ages now and theres really starting to annoy me iv tried so many different face washes i recently tried clearasil daily spot control face pads they worked a little but then i got a load more im a very sporty person so i sweat alot but i shower twice a day sumtimes 3 times does anyone know any good products or anyways to get rid of spots?? some advice would be incredibly helpful

You're British, huh?

In America, we don't use the term "spots."

Regardless, I've heard honey works well. Put it on before bed and when you wake up, wash it off.

I suggest seeing a dermatologist ASAP.

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i have been looking everywhere for the black-and-white polka dotted coffee mug they always show on friends in the coffee house!

does anybody have ANY idea where i could find one like this?

You could make one yourself at Color-Me-Mine.



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ok well i am like totally into modeling. although my mother says that if i gain another couple lbs im doomed! bc they want the bones in my face for complextion or something?!? i dont konw...anyway im real into it and i dont k how to got an agency or whatever where i dont have to pay really anything..u know mayb where i get paid!?? do i have to weigh something like weight limits?
im 13almost14/f
110ibs
pretty big boned
but perfect model body
HELP
***also how is it being a model? [if ay1 knows]

How tall are you? If you aren't at least 5'9'', you cannot do runway or most catalogue work.

Where do you live? If you don't live in a major, major city (LA, NY, Chicago, Houston), you need to get to one.

It's rough being a model. If you make it, you could be sitting in the snow in a bikini and have to look cute/sexy.

Modeling is not for the faint-hearted. At all.

I didn't like it, so I left. I haven't done anything in awhile.

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i want to get my eyebrows waxed but i dont know how to ask my mom to take me because i dont want her to think its weird or anything and i dont want to do it and people at school be like noticing alot and be staring or anything or ask me why i look different because i have never done it before. what should i do? and when i go what will they do like what is the process and how is the shape of them picked? because i want something not totally noticeable i want it to be suttle... do i pick or tell the person or do they pick for me? thanks!

Why would she think it's weird?

Anyway, all they do is clean up stray hair along the edges.

There shouldn't be pre-chosen shapes; I've never seen or heard of a place that has them.

They
1. Wax

That's it.

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What language is this in and what does it mean?
"Fen N'est Tol"

French, most likely.

only search advicenators.com

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first things first...
I am 16/f and the guy is 16 and my guy best friend...
Ok, well I really really love this guy, and I told him...and well things got all wierd but then one of my friends said don't talk to him for a while 'the lets take a break death-sentence' anyways so i did and well we havnt talkeds since about the 19th dec. and yea. yesterday he sent me an email that read something like "why aren't you on msn anymore!? thats all i have to say!" and well I answered it. now we havbt talked since that, should i wait for him to email me or should i email/call him?

He already made the first move. The ball is in your court. Call him!

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