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Who says it first?
first things first...
I am 16/f and the guy is 16 and my guy best friend...
Ok, well I really really love this guy, and I told him...and well things got all wierd but then one of my friends said don't talk to him for a while 'the lets take a break death-sentence' anyways so i did and well we havnt talkeds since about the 19th dec. and yea. yesterday he sent me an email that read something like "why aren't you on msn anymore!? thats all i have to say!" and well I answered it. now we havbt talked since that, should i wait for him to email me or should i email/call him?
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he made a move, & now his waiting for your move. If i was him & you didnt move i would feel like you dont wanna talk & you are ignoring me ( i dont think he wil like that feeling) If i was you, i would make a move. I tried to ignore somebody after they made a move but it ended up when i tried to make a move a month after they made a move they just ignored me, & the friendship ended! & i dont want that to happen to you. So make a move in a day or two
hope this helped xoxo esty
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He already made the first move. The ball is in your court. Call him!
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Dear who says it first,
call him, aprently he isn't going to do it anytime soon so you mine as well, plus you never know what may happen from it, just be like yeah so remember when i told you this, what do you think about it? and see what happens there and then be like what do you want to do about it? and then see what happens from there, if you stay as friends it'll be ok, but what if it could be more? so dive right in!
good luck
-Beane
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If you just wait, he may think you are trying to avoid him and stop trying to talk to you. You should definitly give him a call or e-mail him and let him know how you feel. Tell him you still want to be friends but you just felt like things were awkward after you told him you loved him, and that you don't want things to be like that. If you don't talk to him about it, things will never get fixed.
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Wait.
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I know it's hard, but it's always better to leave a little mystery in your relationships with guys.
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Make him think that you're busy, and, if he doesn't respond for a while (two-days tops), you should e-mail or call him.
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Then make it seem like you just read his e-mail because you were so busy with your fabulous self.
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But it's a good sign he wrote to you! Even though he might have been surprised when you first told him, there is a good change he is realizing that he feels the same way about you.
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Hope I helped!
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