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Q: I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5.
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you should keep flirting and eventually that other girl will see that his true efelings for you are greater than the ones for her. then.. jus go back out with him.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: hi im 14 f and i want a boyfriend! where is the best place 2 meet one?
thanks love nicki
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you should stick to boys that you see on a daily bases. like school or an activity that you're involved with.bec ause if you go looking for a guy once and end up finding one that lives like 2 hrs away.. its gonna be tuff to hold that together *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: So I'm just wondering...if you want to be a model and you are a girl, what are some basic requirements that most agencies want?
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well im a dancer and i no of one com pany that you need to be i think over 5'6 an extra smal child to a small adult i think.. but for other companies, you gotta just be pretty thin, a nice face with nice skin. the ability to pose for a while. and i think a parents permission. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: Ok, this is a pretty basic question, but does anyone have any really good organizational tips for school and also study tips along with that...they kinda go hand in hand! I RATE VERY WELL:)
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organization... for your locker.. label all of your text books and color code your folders to your notebooks. get a few shelves from a staples or office max.study tips.. go on the kiktchen table or anywhere else that doesnt have any computers, radios, music etc.. make sure its a very lighted area and a flat surface. there is a book called "Study Smart" i think thats the title.. that will help you with everything you need to know! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*
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Q: I was in a mental institution and I got really close to one of the staff members that worked there, she helped me in every way possible and I thought of her as my mom. Since I have been out it seems like everytime I call the hospital to talk to her, they make an excuse for me to NOT talk to her. Last night my sister looked her up on the internet and come to find out, she lives a mile away from me, and I have her home phone number, I mailed her a christmas card this morning to her home, but I dont know if I should actually call her at home. I miss her so much and she made such a big impact in my life, what do I do? I don't want her to think that I am like stalking her or anything! ???????
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You should write her a letter aside from the card. Tell her how much she's helped you. Tell her you'd like to meet up for lunch one day. The only way she will think you are a stalker is if you write the letter in newspaper clippings and tell her your watching her every move. What you'd be doing if you wrote the letter is a very nice thing to do and its her loss if she takes it the wrong way.*Hope I Helped! Love Always, Ali *Feedback is greatly Appreciated!
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Q: I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?
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A religon isnt just something you can say, "Oh I'll be Christan today." You must actually believe in it. There is nothing wrong with you. Dont worry about choosing the wrong one because you should follow which one your heart wants. *Hope I Helped! Love Always, Ali *Feedback is greatly Appreciated!
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Q: gosh i really hate reading and i have to take these tests and read books before the end of the quarter at skool and i have none!!! is there a way i can be encouraged to read!!!
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I used to hate reading too. Go to a library and tell the librarian exactly what kind of book(s) you might like to read. Then read the back of it. If you like it, read it. If you dont, then try again. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: I have had my navel pierced since last july and right now it is so infected that it hurts to touch any where near it. any advice?
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You should go to the place where they peirced it or a doctor.*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: i'm thinking about dying my hair...
i have pretty pale skin, light brownish/blonde...it's VERY VERY dull looking hair, and brown eyes.
first of all, what color do u suggest i get to flatter myself..
second of all, should i get it foiled at a hair salon? does that make it last longer??? ADVICE PLEASE!!!
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go to a hair salon cuz they usually have books with ideas lol... im thinkin maybe a dirty blonde ish but more brown if u understnad that God bless lol with blonde highlights lol *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: Is is normal for the average teenager (only child) to cry at least once a day when she's by herself in her room. And being an only child has a big issue. I came to realize that I cry everyday. Sometimes more than once. I do it in private though because I don't want people to see me. I guess my biggest reason is my parents, and the fact that I'm sick of being the center of their lives...I've gotten to the point where I feel a lot of pain in me, but I can't take it out on anyone but myself. It all seems really stupid, because it all comes from my parents. They don't beat me, and they're not necessarily "overprotective" or anything, I just hate being the only one they have to worry about... I've gotten to the point where I don't know what to do. I can't even tell them I want to seek professional help, which is what I really want--thats how distant I feel. I don't know what to do....
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welcome to being depressed. sit down with a thing of icecream and watch a funny movie! hang out with friends. go out with a buncha people! have fun ur only a kid once *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: I'm wearing a sweater and wasn't sure how to do my hair. It's a big, off the shoulder sweater from American Eagle. I'm just wearing it with jeans. I've have pretty long hair, down to the middle of my back. What can I do?
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put it in a half pony tail and put the pony tail in a messy bun.. sorta like wut that other persojn sed but different lol.. u can add in the two pieces in front in ya want.. OR put or hair in a pony tail and curl it. OR get it angled *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: HeY well i'm 13 and a female... i have a big problem and i dont know what to do about it. The problem is that i used to have two best friends, Allison and Roxy, and we were really close but one of us always got left out. We used to go to school together but then Roxy left so Allison and I got closer. Now we all go to the same school which we thought was going to be the best thing! But actually i kind of didnt want Roxy to come back and there's actually other people who agree with me. I got into a huge fight with Roxy and i wasnt talking to her but since my other Allison was talking to her so i stopped talking to her too. Now i'm getting along with Roxy but shes now not getting along with my Allison. I really want to stay best friends with Allison but not with Roxy. Roxy always gets mad at me when i talk to Allison. Roxy likes to be bossy and control people. She likes to be the center of attention. I'm alot more closer to Allison and at times wish to stop being friends with Roxy...but theres a catch. Roxy is my cousin. Right now both my family and Roxy's family are going through something really hard and we need to stick together so i dont want to get into a fight with her and stop being friends with her because our families will split. Now i have to hang out with Allison in secret and talk to her only on the phone after school in fear that Roxy will find out and get mad at me and our families will split. I'm sick of being scared of her well more like what her actions will cause. I'm not ashamed of hanging with Allison but i always hide the fact that I do...I need advice please please please...i dont know what to do...and right now my family is going through a divorce and i really dont need this! PLEASE help me.
xOhErSheYkiSsEsOx
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woah that was long lol any ways.. jus tell roxy you need sum space right now.. dont keep u n allison's friendship a secret thats totally ridiculous! lol how bout you have a sleepover and invite both of them... they'll be forced to get along... OR tell them you wont talk to either of them untill they make up LOL sry its all i cud think of *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: well i weigh like 230 and im only 14 and i want to lose weight b4 high school cause of the formal plus i want to lose weight b4 my prom and prom is probably gonna b n may..well i need sum tips and stuff on how i can lose weight and how to eat right cause i have a eatn disorder to..i want to get over it..It Is driving me crazy. i want to get my belly button periced and stuff and wear a 2 peice during the summer and wear lil clothes not be fat
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well.. what im about to say isnt goin to guarantee anything. i am a 13/f and i, as well as most girls, am concious about my weight. make up a chart. have all excersizes(like crunches, push, ups, laps ran, etc.. )on one side and time/amount done on another.. it mite not make sense but read it a few times lol. then.. everyday.. look at the day before and see if you can top your goal. as for food. cut out chocolate lol fruits and veggies are good but NO chocolate. holidays are tough i no but stick to it. jus remember.. if your gonna do all this work and then pig out once.. all ur work's goin to have been a waste. Good luck!!! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: okay, so im 13 and im really small like my body is and im only like 5"4 i weigh bout a little over 100 pounds and im not trying to be arrogant but im really fit. The only thing is my boobs are really big. I wear a D cup bra and even when i wear sports bras they like look really big anyways theres a lot of problems. Im majorly into sports and they get so much in the way and they make my back hurt really bad. Second of all I always get hit on by like way older guys and I dont want that because im a really christian person with a strong faith and its just wrong. Then theres also the problem that like a whole bunch of guys like me and the only reason is because of my boobs, and theres been like a whole bunch of rumors that i had a boob job which is NOT true at all and a lot of girls dont like me because of them because they get jealous that the guys at our school really like me even though i tell them i dont like any of them. Then i also have stretch marks and i dont know how to get rid of them??? can someone please tell me about any really good bras that will like hide them or help support them, cause ive talked to my dcotor and they just gave me this pain medicine to keep them from hurting when they put strain on my back and stuff and also to hide them from perverted guys that im tired of dealing with?? please help me
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talk to your mom about getting you breast size reduced.. there was in article about it in a magazine and it helped one girl a lot.. you should.. but dont do it behind ur mom's back lol... confront her and tell her that you arte going through an awful lot of pain.. i bet there is sum kind of over the counter thing for getting rid of stretch marks. jus go to like CVS or Walgreens or any other drug storews near by *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks.
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of couse! jus make sure you dont eat any junk food or that can ruin it! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: Hey!I am about 5'6" or 5'7" and around 140 and 145 pounds and I want to lose maybe 10 or 15 pounds..if I do yoga and crunches will it help me any?If it won't what can I do to help me lose the weight?Thanks!
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a great way to lose weight is by jump roping... jump roping at a regular pace for 5 min. is equal to running a mile *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: if you can't get out of the house what are some really good cardio exercises you can do for 30 minutes? is investing in an exercise video a good idea? if soo..which ones?
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yes... investing in those tapes are very good cuz u can buy them for like $20 and use them for the rest of your life.. the firm really works... walk away the pounds.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: i have a sore on the inside of my lip is there any way to make it go away of do i just have to put up with it until it goes away itself?
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anbesol.. its an insant pain reliever i think that wud work for this... or go to a CVS or Walgreens *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: I really need some help. For the past almost 6 years of my life, i have been looking at porno. I am addicted. It is literally ruining my life. It takes time away from my hobbies, my family, and my relationship with God. Can someone please advise me on how to stop this addiction? Please dont ban this question either. I truely need help
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did sumone already post sumthin almost identical to this? jus pray a lot and try to get a girlfriend so you can take your mind off of porn. unplug your comp. for a lil while *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Q: can anyone tell me a good site to put digital pictures on besides picture trail because thats not working for me!! thank you
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www.photobucket.com works for me! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44506
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