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HeY well i'm 13 and a female... i have a big problem and i dont know what to do about it. The problem is that i used to have two best friends, Allison and Roxy, and we were really close but one of us always got left out. We used to go to school together but then Roxy left so Allison and I got closer. Now we all go to the same school which we thought was going to be the best thing! But actually i kind of didnt want Roxy to come back and there's actually other people who agree with me. I got into a huge fight with Roxy and i wasnt talking to her but since my other Allison was talking to her so i stopped talking to her too. Now i'm getting along with Roxy but shes now not getting along with my Allison. I really want to stay best friends with Allison but not with Roxy. Roxy always gets mad at me when i talk to Allison. Roxy likes to be bossy and control people. She likes to be the center of attention. I'm alot more closer to Allison and at times wish to stop being friends with Roxy...but theres a catch. Roxy is my cousin. Right now both my family and Roxy's family are going through something really hard and we need to stick together so i dont want to get into a fight with her and stop being friends with her because our families will split. Now i have to hang out with Allison in secret and talk to her only on the phone after school in fear that Roxy will find out and get mad at me and our families will split. I'm sick of being scared of her well more like what her actions will cause. I'm not ashamed of hanging with Allison but i always hide the fact that I do...I need advice please please please...i dont know what to do...and right now my family is going through a divorce and i really dont need this! PLEASE help me.
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Well, just tell Roxy the truth, but be nice about it..tell her that your aloud to have more then one friend and she needs to understand that..Tell her that you still like her, but your closer to allison
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wow crazy girls and drama.. but it happens to all girls and yes, it sucks, but the only way to deal with it is just to get along with everybody, dont worry about what other people might say or think, your life is about you! not about if Allison or whoever is going to be mad at you. these are the best years of your life, have fun! just talk to your friends about your problem with your family, i'm sure that they'll understand, and help you thru it cuz divorices are really hard on their kids, i know, my parents had one. but have fun in your life and MERRY CHRiSTMAS! x0
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woah that was long lol any ways.. jus tell roxy you need sum space right now.. dont keep u n allison's friendship a secret thats totally ridiculous! lol how bout you have a sleepover and invite both of them... they'll be forced to get along... OR tell them you wont talk to either of them untill they make up LOL sry its all i cud think of *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali *feedback is appreciated!
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you should tell roxy that your still hanging out with allison and that shes your friend too. shes gonna have to accept that. tell them they dont have to like each other or hang out with each other but you want to be friends with both of them. explain to them you dont want them mad at you right now (especially roxy) but to please just accept her being both of their friends!
hope i helped!
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