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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
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hi, well keep it as friends for a couple of dayz ...see how he acts..se wut kinda signs he gives u...then if u see that he might feel da same then tell him how u feel...trust me its always better to regreat something u did then something u didnt do ;) cuz then u'll always b wondering WUT IF?!?! so go ahead for it ;) xoxo effy
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I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on? (link)
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try to MOVE ON....forget him...u can find someone who likes u n dont play wit ur head!!! ;) ur still young u got plenty of time ahead of u :) xoxo effy
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This is gonna sound so weird. I read this advicenators collumn, and it seems like he is the kewlest guy ever. At first i thought maybe he was like 20 something, but he's my age, and i don't know, the picture of him kinda just made me feel weird, but i am not a person who starts that kinda thing. What should i do?
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hey...well wut u waiting for...get his aim...pretend ur askin him a question...;) lol try to get a convo out of it...n see wussup who knows wut happens :))) xoxoxo effy
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I have almost no ones instant messaging address. My mom walked in while i was talking to one of my friends online and saw that i only had ten people on my list. Since i had a different s/n last year i didn't bother getting a lot of people's IM, so she sent me to this counsiling group for teens who can't get along with others. I went to the group once and they said that i just don't want to talk to people. Should i stay in the group, or leave, i don't think i belong in there, but should i give it another day?
Please help
Lizzy (link)
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hi, well if u think theres nothing wrong wit u...then get out of there...may b ur da type of person that chooses who to b round wit :) thats not a problem...actually i think thats a good thing..cuz if u dont choose ur friends...u'll end up gettin hurt! xoxo effy
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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move on forget him...he's prolly gonna do da same thing to ur best friend...he'll see someone else who he thinks that is better lookin dat her or w/e n he will like dat someone else...so just move on...u can find a guy that appriciates u :) xoxo effy
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my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him? (link)
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hi, tell her that you never knew that she liked him b/c she never told u anything bout it...so tell her that ur sorry but u like him 2...n since u both like him..tell her to make a game out of it...n see who gets him :-P hiihihh i bet that would be mad fun!!! ;) xoxo effy
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Ok guys, here's ,y question! I'm turning 18 soon so I can legally pierce anything I want. When I was 16 I got my belly button pierced on the top. For some reason something went wrong and i got very infected and I had to go to the docotrs n take it out. Now I have a scar there. When I squeeze the scar tissue it hurts. And my doctor said yesterday that it would be difficult to repierce through it. Anyways I guess my question is do u think it would look dumb or hurt if i got it pierced from the bottom??? I heard people say it hurts more but maybe thats just a rumor? Thank You guys so much for your help!!! (link)
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hi,well thats a decistion u make n everything but in my opinion if i was in ur place n i got infected by pircing it once i wouldnt try again..cuz i bet it will still get infected...xoxo effy
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Hey...
What does the word modest mean? Is that a good thing if you are modest? Thanks!! (link)
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yes its a good thing...modest means that ur either relly good lookin or relly good at something n u dont brag about it :) xoxo effy
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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
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jessica simpson
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My family expects me to be exactly like my cousin, "Sarah". Sarah's one of those preppy, popular girls, & I'm not even close to that. I have a few close friends & I'm more laid-back. Just because we look alike (we look like sisters), everyone expects us to act alike. I hate being compared to Sarah all the time & being expected to be like her. I don't want to be her shadow. How can I handle this? (link)
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hi, try to relax...n make clear to who ever that u wanna B UR SELF!! when someone's expecting u to b like her tell them that just b/c we look a like or we cousins or w/e dat dont mean we have to act alike or b alike...or have the same god damn mind...tell them that u like being u...n thats it...xoxo effy
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I kind of like one of my guy friends... He's a year younger than me, but I feel like there's lots of chemistry between us. He even admitted that he likes me as more than a friend. It's so sweet. But a couple days ago, he was talking to my friend & asked her if I'd ever go out w/ him. She said "yeah right. she likes 2 other guys. not like she'd ever like you!!!" It was so rude. I asked my friend about it & she just LAUGHED. I feel bad about my friend's behavior. I want to apologize so badly.
I was thinking, for an apology, what if I kissed him? Do you think that's a little too dramatic, or is that a good idea? (link)
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hahahah going 2 fast there...but that would b actually kinda cute ;) so since u know he likes u or w/e i say go for it n kiss him...:-D awwww so romantic!!! xoxo effy
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I'm going into the 9th grade this year. I'm looking forward to it, except for one part.. I have to ride the bus. I rode it in the 7th grade & part of the 8th grade. A bunch of the guys on the bus are total jerks. They harassed me & my friend & one guy even grabbed my friend's butt! And the bus driver doesn't give a crap about it. I dreaded going to school if I had to ride the bus that day. What can I do to prevent myself from riding the bus? I don't wanna be a victim of harassment anymore. (link)
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well if u dont wanna go wit a bus then tell ur parents 2 drive u...if they cant n u have no choice then if any of the guys bothers u then u should go n tell the main office n tell the ppl there...i'm sure they'll help n they guys wont bother u...the thing is that in high school there are not as many guys inmature n disrespectful...i've been there so..xoxo effy
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Im a 29 yr old guy and I found my dogs stuck butt ot butt one day. i called up tha vet and he said they she gona have puppies.. and that i need to take rectal temp. so its kinda hard to do that without the dog running away. so i decided tha easiest way was to hold her and strap the thermometer to my penis. well in amids of this my wife walks in. I tried to explain but she didnt buy it. She either wants counceling or a divorce. Im too embarrased to go to counceling.. can someone please helpp me? (link)
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ahhahahhahahahhahahhaah ur helirious...get the devorce from her n marry me!! ;) xoxo effy
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I'm going into my freshman year in high school. What are some do's & don'ts for high school? (link)
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B U!!!! oh yah dont belive ppl that tell u "u need a ticket to use the elevator" n dont belive ppl that tells u "pay for da ticket to go to peprally"...lmao it was funny when that shit happend to some of the kids n they actually payed n belived it...:-p so dont do dat...bout the "do's" just b u n u'll be fine ;) xoxo effy
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I have a problem with my guy friends.. Any guy I become friends with always winds up liking me! If I start talking to a guy from a class or with a locker next to mine, a month later he'll ask me out or admit that he likes me. That usually ruins the friendship & makes it awkward. I mean, I'm flattered, really. But I wish that I could just have guy friends who don't all ask me out. How can I prevent this from happening all thru high school? (link)
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gurl...ur just a goodlookin...nice personality type of gurl...(join the club ahhaha j/k) so i dunno wut to tell u...i guess b mean :-p nahhh not relly just b u...theres nothin u can do cuz they cant tell their hearts who to like n who to not like...oupsses sorry..xoxo effy good luck though :-P
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does anyone have any ideas for something to do when your by yourself? i'm bored and i have nothing to do..if you have any ideas please tell me. (link)
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hahahahahhah musterbate...hahah j/k lmao..i dunno talk on the phone...go to chatrooms...call ur friends over...something ;) xoxo effy
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alright, i've got a moderately small and intricate clique at school. about 6 girls. anyway, we're all best friends, and don't really hang out with anyone more than anybody else. but then someone else joined our little group (lindsay). and joy has been really down(who's usually really outgoing and loud) she just, i dunno, she and lindsay hung out a whole lot. they have a million inside jokes, and they can't be separated more than 2 feet. joy tells lindsay virtually everything... like why she's so depressed and stuff. things she won't tell us at all.
the rest of us feel kind of like she dumped us, i guess. dropped us for someone more worthy or something. i confronted her, and she felt all bad and stuff, but she just went back to lindsay, and i feel like i'm losing a friend... what should i do? (link)
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hi..aww...i'm sorry bout wuts going on...talk to ur friend n tell her how u feel...but i dunno wut to tell u cuz sometimes u loose friends b/c they find someone that they think its more "cool" or they feel more comfortable around them...dont take it personaly...sometimes thats how life goes...xoxo effy...
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theres this guy and we went out but broke up and i still have feelings for him i dont want 2 b obvious ethr can u help me signed i need help (link)
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well try to figure out if he feels the same for u...if he feels the same then go ahead n tell him if he doesnt i'm sorry i guess u just have to move on n let new ppl come in to ur life ;) xoxo effy ;)
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Ok, I really like this guy Dillon and I also like his friend Drew but Drew told me he likes me too but has a girlfriend. Dillon on the other hand is single and I dont know if he likes me too but Dillon and I broke up earlier in the year I still love him and I want to tell him but I like Drew too. Wut do I do? (link)
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go wit da one u think is the rite one...go wit the one u see ur self holding hands...since drew has a gurl...u dont wanna b a cock blocker n ruin his relationship...so put an eye on dillon...plus i dont think u lov dillon cuz if u did u wouldnt like drew ;) xoxo effy
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ok deal is,is that i really like this guy and i think he likes me 2 but my best friend doesnt like
him cuz,well 4 1 he is 17 yrs old and cuz he is an
african american.she gets ma bout everything i do
& so freakin easy.but we have been friends 4---like only um...5 or 6 months.this guy i like well
we used to date and i didnt give her all of my time any more and now she thinks im not a good friend.she has never even met him but i am totally
in love with him.ive never felt this way about a guy.i raelly need some advice......H E L P (link)
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well hun, keep ur guy...2nd ur friend is mad b/c she misses u n may b she's a lil jelous that u got a b/f n u got someone to hang out wit n she doesnt...she kinda gets mad b/c she jelous that u pick ur b/f b4 her...its ok...just talk to her n tell her that u relly like this boy n that ur sorry that u dont hang out wit her as much but tell her that when she gets a man or if she was on ur shoes she would do the same thing :) just talk to her she'll understand...xoxo effy
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