what does "pop your cherry mean"????
When your hymen breaks.. Basically it means you lost your virginity.. There also can be a little bit of blood..♥Dez
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Im 13, And Im female. I just kinda have a odd questions. You know how people say (While i heard it on tv once, & once on here..) When boys at school when they get hard, they try to stop it and cover it with the books in front of it..
Will honestly, do they REALLY DO THAT?
& doesnt it hurt, trying to make it not so noticeable...
I mean im a girl, and i just see it as pain, or something. hah.. Thanks i rate high.
Yes this is true..! at like the age of thirteen they can`t really help it so you might even see guys do it now..
This doesn`t really mean they`re nasty perverts or anything their just at that age..
ANd i guess it could be painful.. I wouldn`t know but from what i understand its sensitive..
♥Dez
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how do you make a myspace private?
Change your age to under 14..♥Dez
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well i know the siptums of gonneriea( sorry if i spelt it rong) and its burned like 3 times while i was going to the bathroom. and my urine smells really strong. could this be gonneria? i know this question sounds nasty but im really scared.
i rate 5's
SCARED.
Seeing a doctor would be the best thing to do.. I`m not positive whats worng cuz with burning while using the restroom could be multiple things.. ♥Dez
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sorry it's kinda long but I wanna know...
ok well it's be about 8 months since I've gotten my period and for the first 4 months is was coming aroud the 20th and then it didn't and it came aroud the 13th and then for about 3 more months it was around the 13th well in Januaray is come on the 13th and now it's the 17th and I don't get why it hasn't come and I'm like scared that I'm messed up or not normal considering this is the 2nd time this has happend. Can someone please tell me what's happening if it's normal or not. Thanks, will rate too.
Irregular periods are very normal.. And are very normal if you haven`t been on it that long.. Don`t worry about it nothing is seriously wrong with you..
I`d say if it doesn`t get better within a year see a gynocologist..♥Dez
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i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do
Honestly i don`t see the rush in having sex.. Yeah you have a guy to have sex with but you don`t love him or anything.. And if you are ready for possible consequences then you aren`t ready for sex.. Protecting yourself is the number one thing you should do.. If you are like alot of girls then you`d want to lose your virginity to somebody who cares for you dearly and isn`t just wanting you for sex.. This guy friend might care for you but apparently not enough to care how you feel.. But if you really want to do this i can`t stop you and its all your decision.. I would get on birth control and buy condoms.. ♥Dez
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i am 15, a girl, and i am bi. however, i never know if a girl is a lesbian or not, or bisexual. especially the truley feminin ones. how do i tell with out embaressing my self and having to ask them if they are interested in girls or not. is there any underage gay bars i can go to in la?
I don`t think you can really tell unless you catch them looking at other females or sayin odd comments about a girl.. I have alot of bi friends and some i kinda figured they were and some i just didn`t know til they like mentioned it to me.. Also i don`t know about like a underage bar.. But i`m sure you could probably meet a girl at like a local teen dance/club.. ♥Dez
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What would be something cute to do with your hair for a special occaison?? ( f/13. a little bit longer than my shoulder length brownish red hair. (mostly brown) though. thanks!!)
I think having you hair down and straight would be cute or having loose spiral curls is always cute.. ♥Dez
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i dont need a lecture on how smoking is bad, i know. this is pretty pathetic, but i never realized how. how do you smoke, do you breathe in and breathe out? and is there a difference between smoking pot and smoking cigarettes?
Yes! you breathe cigerettes,cigars and weed in like you were breathing oxygen..
Also smoking weed gives you a high and cigerettes don`t.. ♥Dez
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I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you.
Yes this is normal difiantly if you don`t feel like you get love at home.. if you feel you`ll have a child to love you thats doesn`t mean it`ll make everything better..Children take more love then they give sweetie.. It`ll be hard for any age.. Honestly, in my opinion you are too young.. even if you wait to be 16.. Don`t you want to finish highschool and possibly go to college.. You want your child to have fine things and live in a nice neighborhood.. Yeah of course there is a possiblity that`ll happen even if you do have a child now but most likely nopers.. You`ll need a full time job to take care of the child and yourself.. Now i recommend waiting til you have the time and money to be a mother..And yeah your boyfriend might love you and all the good stuff but that doesn`t mean he`ll be there for you and a baby forever.. He`s still a child himself he isn`t going to want to be af father so young.. Hope i helped a little bit.. ♥Dez
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15/f
i've been going out with this guy for about 9 months. we're totally different and hang out with completely different people.
Me = the drama nerds, and preps.
Him = the ghettofabulous people.
for this whole time, i only hang out with a few of his friends, the ones i can stand. but tonight, he invited me to go to the roller rink with him. i said yes, thinking it was only me and him. but apparantly a few of his friends are going. ones that i've talked to, but never really wanted to be associated with. i guess i feel pretty obligated to eventually hang out with his friends since he hangs out with mine all the time.
any tips on how to get along with them and not feel like a total outcast?
Hey i can d\relate to what you mean.. I mean our friends are similar with me and my boyfriend but his friends are more disrespectful.. Well what i do is speak to them if i have to and i do so i`m not like rude but really i rather just not talk at all to them..I mean if you want to be more then just hello or whatever then talk about something you know they`ll relate to.. But even tho you guys are a bit different doesn`t mean ya`ll can`t go together..
Don`t try real hard to like fit in or anything tho.. ♥Dez
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ive had my period for a year now. is it normal that im getting it every 2 weeks? please help! im kind of scared < 3
Nopers! this isn`t really normal but its not uncommon.. This happens to girls and sometimes they have to get on like birth control to maintain their period.. I suggest seeing a doctor or a gynocologist.. They will be able to give you more details about this and suggest what they think.. Maybe ask your mom or older sister what they think you should do.. ♥Dez
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Hey, me and a girl are going to the movies this weekend and i have a few questions.
1. How can i show how much i like her? (Yes i do like her alot, and i don't want to make out or anything yet...)
2. After the movies she is spending the night at my house, how can i get her to hang out with me instead of my sisters? (She and my sisters are good friends)
3.What are some things we can do while she is at my house?
Thanks in advance!
P.S. we are both 13
Well only being 13..making out wouldn`t be a good idea like you said..her being 13 she is probably going to pay attention to friends.. But things to do in the movie are hold hands.. Then at your house cuddling is always great.. And maybe watch a movie there would be nice.. Maybe have a long talk and get to know her some.. ♥Dez
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I dont have nothing to draw!!
Do u have anything that u can think of that i can draw ?
PLEASE dont say draw people.
You can draw..
-fantasy items
-nature
-animals
-a place you`d like to go
-something you`d like to eat
-cars
♥Dez
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Is it true that guys don't really like hand jobs? And that everytime they get a girl to give them a handjob, they are really just looking for a way to convince the girl to give him a blow job? (if that makes sense)
I think guys rather have oral over a hand job but they`l pretty much take anything a girl will give them til the real thing happens..♥Dez
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hey everyone! im going to the ortho tonight to get my ties on my braces changed you know? well i had hot pink - total mistake. it drew too much attention to my mouth ahha. what color is the best to get? thanks!
Just stay away from the bright colors and you should be okay.. ♥Dez
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The Boy i like likes me and another girl...and he says he likes me more. And the friends he hangs out with are kinda differant and i realli realli realli like him but i dont no how to get him to ask me out...i need help
How about you ask him out?? Might get things movin faster instead of waiting cuz you might wait forever.. I`d ask him alone..And i don`t see how his friends have to do with any of this but let them be weird i guess! Best of luck..♥Dez
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i really dont know who i am...
sometimes i feel happy and i want to wear designers and bright colors.
sometimes i feel stupid and i feel like wearing baggy pants and black.
sometimes i feel like a laid back skater punk and i want to wear DC and converse....
tough one, right. can i keep switching like this??? WHAT DO I DO!
You can wear what you want.. Nothing is worng with how you switch your styles i think its better then wearin the same style all the time.. Buy the clothes you like and wear what your mood is.. [Don`t care what people think or say sweetie..]
Are you serious a 1 for callin you sweetie..?
Well i really don`t care about ratings but i thought people on here were pretty much serious.. But since you think i deserve a one i can respect that but if its just for calling you sweetie then you weren`t serious about your queestion.. ♥Dez
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I was wondering what blog site out there will have people always comment on your entries?
-www.myspace.com
-www.xanga.com ♥Dez
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ok we'll i liked this kid alot. & he's always like me but always went out with other people even though we liked eachother. So just like 5minutes ago he told me he broke up with his gf & he said do u still like me and i said yess i still like you & i asked him who he likes and he said he likes me but he likes my sister better=(
I've never felt like this i just went in my room crying. No one has ever... i just don't what to do. So can you please help me.
xo heartbroken♥
Damn forget this guy.. you should just continue dating other guys cuz thats mean and very childish.. I`m very sorry and i can difiantly see why you went to your room and cried.. ♥Dez
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