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a question for the guys..but girls can answer too
Is it true that guys don't really like hand jobs? And that everytime they get a girl to give them a handjob, they are really just looking for a way to convince the girl to give him a blow job? (if that makes sense)
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You sound pretty young. I hope you are old enough to decide what you really want to do, and not let anyone pressure you into something you don't want to do. I am sure you know all about the disease issues and the possibility of going further than you want to go, with a resulting pregnancy. If you don't know about these risks, please find out before you do ANYTHING!
As to whether or not a guy has a preference for an HJ or a BJ, it probably depends on the guy. At least for some guys, having a girl give a HJ is just incredible. I've had three girlfriends who did. They all seemed to know how, and they did them very well. One girlfriend said she wanted to try giving a BJ. She did, but she didn't like it. She said it was her first time; it was also my first time. I didn't like it either, even though she did it very well. A few weeks later, she tried it again, with the same result. We have never tried again, and may not ever, which is fine with me. Anyway, I don't feel I need BJs, especially if a girl doesn't want to. I think any guy worth having as a boyfriend would respect your wishes. If he doesn't, and he insists on something you don't want, then dump him immediately--like right now! Walk away.
Also, remember that you shouldn't have to do anything sexual to enjoy each others' company and friendship. You can do things together--work on projects together, play games together, go to movies, hold hands, dance, work on hobbies together, cuddle, kiss, take drives together, go for walks together or go hiking, and a whole bunch of other things--where you really enjoy each other while becoming great friends--all without doing anything that is directly sexual.
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Not at ALL true! I think it just depends on your skill level LOL. Like, the guy I'm dating now LOVES it, but he didn't like it before cuz the girls were too rough with him. Just try to take cues from his behaviour, see if he's liking what you're doing. Definitely try to vary your technique, and mind the stepchildren while you're at it :P
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Sounds like it makes sense to me, It may be true. hope i helped a bit!!
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It would depend on the guy, but i'm sure most guys would be happy that you even did that with him.
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blowjobs are so much better for guys, because with handjobs, they know exactly how they like it. (thanks to masturbation) you won't be able to do it as well as they can.
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Depends on the guy I guess. I know people who don't like blow jobs or hand jobs.
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I think guys rather have oral over a hand job but they`l pretty much take anything a girl will give them til the real thing happens..♥Dez
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If it's all we can get, we will take it. However, yes, we would MUCH prefer oral. It's much harder to perform on ourselves!
As for handjobs, there is a good chance we can do it better ourselves.
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Guys just like to be touched. you could do it through clothes and most of the time they would be satisfied even though they won't admit it
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i hang out with guys a lot & i can say that alllll guys are different. some want it to lead to that, some don't really care, some juss want something haha =)
-hope that helped!♥
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