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i want to have sex but i am not sure if i should
i am 17 years old and i am a women. i hae this guy friend who has tryed to get me to have sex with him. but everytime we wore going to i told him a started my period and i need to get home to change my clothes. but i really want to have sex but i am scared that i will get pregant. since i am not on birth control. so what should i do
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hey hun!
i think that the best thing to do is wait until you get birth control. If you don't want to wait, you can ask your guy friend to wear a condom. If he doesnt want to , then you'll know that he sint the right one to have sex with if he doesnt want to listen to your needs
hope i helped:D
allie
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best advice i can give you is to not have sex. hes just your guy friend. and hes TRYING to get you to have sex with him. which means he only wants a piece of ass. some friend eh? dont have sex with him unless you're dating him. i lost my virginity to a guy i wasnt dating. who was just my friend. and it was the biggest mistake i ever made. dont make the same mistake i did. your virginity is the most sacred thing ever. you can never get it back once you lose it. good luck.<3
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Use a condom, and be careful. Tell him about that, or go and get birth control.
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theres always other options besides birth control to prevent pregnancy, spermicide and condoms are the simpliest ways that common people have sex and prevent pregnancy.
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go on birth control or dont have sex
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I would use a condom and don't be a person who depends on the dude for getting them or having them. Buy some yourself becuase you don't want a dude to say to you i don't have any, but i'll take my dick out of you when i cum. Trust that's how most girls get pregnant. Hope i helped!!
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Use a condom.
&TiNA;
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Lying to him is going to get you nowhere. First of all, do you want to have sex with him? Or is this just him pressuring you into it? If you don't want to have sex with him, tell him so, turn around and never look back. But if you do want to have sex, tell him that you want to be protected. It's not bad to be afraid of getting pregnant, in fact it's quite good that you are aware of the risks. So tell him that you'll have sex with him AFTER you go on the pill and ONLY IF he is wearing a condom. If he complains about it, don't have sex with him. Anybody who can't respect your wishes does not deserve to be touching your body.
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make him use a condom ( if you really want to take that step) don't rush anything. there are lots of over the counter things to use. or you can visit your local health clinic or planned parenthood chapter. no matter what you use still make him use a condom!!!!
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Honestly i don`t see the rush in having sex.. Yeah you have a guy to have sex with but you don`t love him or anything.. And if you are ready for possible consequences then you aren`t ready for sex.. Protecting yourself is the number one thing you should do.. If you are like alot of girls then you`d want to lose your virginity to somebody who cares for you dearly and isn`t just wanting you for sex.. This guy friend might care for you but apparently not enough to care how you feel.. But if you really want to do this i can`t stop you and its all your decision.. I would get on birth control and buy condoms.. ♥Dez
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hey personally i think 17 is wya to young to get pregnant. but if you think your ready then make sure he uses a condom. also getting the pill would be ag ood idea if you wish to continue to be sexually active. cait ♥
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it doesnt sound like your ready, too many of todays youths are sexually active not only must worry about getting pregnant but also STDs. i think you should wait till your at least like a junoir in college you dont want to waste your first time on a guy friend who is pushing you to have sex, have it with a guy who you love and he loves you. i infact plan on waiting till im married because im afraid of everything out there and i want mine to be special. good luck and make your own personal decision wisely!
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There is nothing wrong with being afraid you'll get pregnant. More should worry about it actually. It would be a very life altering situation.
The best advice I can give if you are going to be sexually active would be to get on the pill.
It is probably the most trustworthy thing to use.
Also, make sure he wears a condom even if you are on the pill.
However, if you still don't want to have an intimate relationship with this guy, there is nothing wrong in waiting a while longer. It doesn't make you strange at all. :)
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