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Ok so this is a stupid question and some people will probably make fun of me for saying this. But I am a HUGE fan of the Jonas Brothers! I have been a fan for a long time! They aren't going back on tour for a while and I would really want to communicate with them! I'm thinking about sending them a letter and I just want to know if anybody else has ever sent them one and if they know if they get it or not. dumb question I know, but I'm a crazy fan! haha. (link)
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My friend sent them one and yes, they do read them and sometimes, return them (meaning they write you back personally).
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Ok so there is this girl at my high school that NOBODY likes. She's obnoxious, rude, full of herself, and mean! She doesnt have many friends so one day she was sitting alone and she asked to sit at our table at lunch. And being a nice person, I said Yes!! She is being extremely rude, annoying, etc. So me and two other girls decided that this was enough and we left the table. I really want to sit with my other friends at the lunch table, but we dont know how to get this girl to leave without being so mean. What should i do? (link)
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I think you should have a talk with her, one-on-one so you don't embarrass her, and let her know how you and your friends are feeling (or just your point of view, whichever you prefer). She may not even realize how mean she really is, and by letting her know how you're feeling, she'll definitely understand how she's making others feel and if she wants to have friends - she's going to have to be at least semi-nice, or be friends with bitches, haha.
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So lots of chemicals give me headaches, like perfumes, fake sweeteners, msg in foods, etc.
Those I can generally avoid although my mom continues to buy 80% of food with those things in it, leaving me to eat things like french fries or bananas/fruits/vegetables and water.
I can STILL deal with that. But she has those air fresheners with the smells, like Glade Plug In and stuff, and they give me such a terrible headache/migraine, that i even start crying. She doesn't listen and continues to buy them and puts them all over the house even after i throw them out :( there is no way to get it through her head... i've even shown her websites about it, and she says that it doesn't affect her so she doesn't care.
what do i do?? (link)
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Wow, whoever "she" is needs to be a little more considerate to your needs. Maybe you could try seeing a doctor and getting some medication to help, that way, if she does continue getting them - you'll feel better and won't get so sick.
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Every single girl asks a dumb question like this "I can't tell if this guy likes me and i dont know how to find out!".... But I am seriously going through drama like this now! I really like this guy and I really want him to ask me to the homecoming dance! I have a huge weakness for funny guys, and he is hilarious!! The only bad thing is, we hardly EVER talk! He is in two of my classes, but we do not sit by eachother. So its kinda hard for me to start up a conversation. He does not have a facebook or AIM screenname, so its very hard for me to start up a conversation with him. We look at eachother ALL the time! Sometimes I will look for him in the corner of my eye and I see him looking at me. And sometimes I will look at him and he will look at me at the exact same time and we will stare into eachothers eyes. I try to smile at him a lot and I look at him a lot too! I do not know what I should do in order for him to ask me and to be honest, I'm a very shy person so its kinda hard for me to start a conversation up with someone and I don't really know what I would say to him. So if you could please help me that would be great! Thanks! (link)
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Here's the perfect info guide for you! =]
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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i was wondering what are some kinda unique things that guys really LOOVE because i want to spice it up a little so yea anything you kno that drives a guy crazy please share :) and any tips or suggestions would be GREAT!! i just need some really hott things to say that will get him turned on instantly :) and maybe some things that are a little rougher/sexier too :) thank you soo much!!! (link)
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Check out this site - it should help you out. =]
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/
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In some occasions whether it's my leg, a finger, or toe, one part will like suddenly clentch really tight and freeze and it'll hurt so much but I just still still until that part can move again.
Like I was ironging my lcothes when suddenly I felt my index toe move to the left on it's own accord and froze there really tight and it hurt so bad! (link)
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You may be experiencing muscle cramps, spasms or charlie horses. Read more information on this link and see if that's what it is. If not, you may want to visit a doctor in order to find out the exact problem and what you can do to fix it.
http://www.acu-cell.com/dis-mus.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charley_horse
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15/f
okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for three and a half weeks. and i have a lot of guy friends way more than girl friends. i'm always hugging my guy friends just as a nice gesture you know? Then with my bf i never see him hugging other girls. so sometimes i feel awkward when i hug my friends and he's there.
he's a sophmore on the JV football team and like today i met this new guy "d" and he's a junior on the Varsity football team. we're just friends. then when i was waiting for my boyfriend "T". d came up right before t could hug me d did because he was closer. And when i saw my boyfriend's face he was starring like what the heck? i don't think it was in a "you just stole my hug" thing but rather like he was a lil intimidated and jealous. He's given this look before so it's not that new.
I'm just wondering if i should i talk to him about it or just let it blow over.
thank you =] (link)
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I think your boyfriend is feeling left out and is probably wondering if you have more than "just-a-friend" interest in these guys. He's more than likely feeling insecure and wondering why they're getting so much attention from you, as he may be feeling that he gets little attention or a smaller amount than the other guys get.
I suggest talking to him about it so you can understand how he's feeling and what you can do.
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Whenever i run on my treadmille
the side of my back hurts me really badly
like whenever i breath
it rlly hurts..
what is this? (link)
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Do you warm up first?
If not, it's a good chance that's exactly why you're experiencing these pains. It's extremely important to warm up before doing exercise, it gets your body ready.
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Ok. theres this guy i'm crazy over, i like him so much but he does stuff i'm not into like smoking and drugs. i know i should dump him becase hes a jerk to other people and stuff..but i just cant bring myself to do it, if i do it i'll be miserable for a long long time and i wont be able to focus on anything else exept thinking about him...any advice? (link)
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I suggest talking to your boyfriend and letting him know you feel about his smoking and doing drugs. You can see how he reacts and if he plans to do anything about his bad habits.
If I were you, I wouldn't invest too much in this relationship, just because there may be some trouble down the road for you if you continue being with him. However, this is only my opinion and I urge you to do what you feel is best.
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You know the biggest loser austraila?
i tried looking up on google the "Before and Afters"
Like how they look in the end but i couldnt find it , can anyone help me find the link please? :) thank you. (link)
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Here you go. :)
http://realitytv.about.com/od/thebiggestloser2/ss/LoserPics.htm
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hi, i had sex for the first time a month ago and i was supposed to get my period a little over a week ago. Should i be worried that i might be pregnant or is this normal to be late after the first time. Im also 19 years old if that helps. (link)
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It's totally normal to have an irregular period, even when you first have sex. However, just to be on the safe side, I would get a pregnancy test soon to be positive that you're not pregnant. More than likely, you aren't, but just to be sure.
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i am in LOVE with 80's movies, so i was wondering if anyone could tell me any more really good 80's teens movies besides these (i've already seen them): say anything, stand by me, back to the future 1,2,&3, dream a little dream, license to drive, running on empty, risky business, breakfast club, pretty in pink, 16 candles, fast times at ridgemont high, can't buy me love, weird science, revenge of the nerds, class, st. elmo's fire, blue lagoon, heather's, rock 'n' roll high school, can't hardly wait, better off dead, ferris beuller's day off..um i think that might be all of the ones i've seen..haha is that all of them? cuase if that's not all of them then i would like to know if there's anymore good ones left. thanks! (link)
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Hi! Here's a list of most (if not all) 80's movies. I think you can even watch them on here too, but I'm not positive.
http://www.fast-rewind.com/
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where can i find a h0tt shirt like this?
http://i209.photobucket.com/albums/bb285/missuniquex23/DRUNK-1-1-1.jpg
^pree much any shirt that has sayings like that;ik the colors are inverted but i still like it.
also, where can you get one of those shirts that say either c0rona or heineken(sp?) haa my friend wants one for her birthdayyy..thankss (link)
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Here are a few different links for you. =]
http://www.wackyplanet.com/coshandac.html
You could always get her a customized t-shirt.
http://www.customizedgirl.com/
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ok so there is this new guy who came in our class and he's really cute and nice. at first i thought he didnt like me but then we went on a classtrip thingy for a week and we got to know eachother and are sort of friends.
I'm a bit of a 'weirdo' in my class. i get along with everyone but i dont really have any close friends and hang out on my own more. so he talks to me when he get's the chance, like he talked to me a lot at a party last week and also asked me to sit next to him today. but the problem is that he's flirty with every girl. like he's always joking around with them and pokes them, always makes body contact etc.
and with me he's always quite serious unless I'M the one being joky, then he starts to be funny with me as well. like he was kind of making fun of me a bit in not a rude way or anything though so i kind of poked him and THEN he started to poke me back, but he only does it when hes sure. and i mean he talks to all the othe rgirls more than to me but WHEN he talks to me he seems to be a bit different. im not too sure if he likes me though because he is SO open so it kind of seems like he likes every girl.
so how can i get him to like me? it's ind of difficult to talk to him because hes alaways surrounded by girls and WHEN i talk to him we often get interrupted. :S (link)
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Here's some good information for you. =]
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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I have a girl and we've always been more than friends but never actually have made it official that we were dating but now im at the point were i need to know that she is my girl friend and that were not just messing around with each other and am not sure how to go about it. (link)
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I think you need to have a talk with her, and tell her exactly how you're feeling. That you're ready to be in a relationship, or that you at least want to know if this is going somewhere. You deserve to know and you have every right to ask her, so I think that's what you should do.
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16/F
okay so, let me start from the beginning. there's this guy, i've been friends with him for like 3 years. he's liked me for 2 of those years (of course he like hooked up with other girls etc. in those 2 years but always went back to liking me). in those 2 years we became like best friends. he's the one i went to with my problems, we talked on the phone every night, etc. i was a bitch, i led him on, i can admit that. but that was a long time ago. this summer, i started to actually like him for real. we hooked up like all summer. he asked me out, we went out for a week, i went to camp, i broke up with him. i was in a different world. i didn't hook up with any guys at camp. i just couldn't do it. there's nothing i regret more than breaking up with him, now at least. because after camp he told me he wanted to go out again and i told him i didn't want a boyfriend. anyways, i can admit i'm not the nicest to him either. and i have this problem with showing my feelings so he feels like he never really knows if i like him or not. everyone tells me i'm a hard person to read. but it's just really hard for me to open myself up to others because i'm so scared of getting hurt again because the last time i was in a really involved relationship i got my heart broken and i was depressed for like 2 months. i cried myself to sleep every single night. but i realized that not telling him how i felt was worse than telling him. he thought i just wanted to hook up with him, but really i am completely in love with him. there's no other guy i would rather be with. he's so cute and nice and funny and amazing. i'm so scared of losing him as a more than friend, but mostly as a friend. so anyways, this week he started talking to me less. he was still telling me he loved me and stuff because that's how our relationship was. anyways, i noticed something was wrong and i confronted him about it yesterday. and he told me he had a girlfriend. he just asked her out yesterday morning. and obviously i'm so pissed that he didn't tell me he was interested in this other girl.. just kept leading me on. and i told him this. and he told me he thought i didn't care about him anymore. so basically, i just spilled everything. i told him how much i cared about him and everything and he said 'f*** why couldn't you have told me this yesterday?' and i just don't know what to do because i just left myself completely vulnerable and he told me he needs to think about this, he needs to 'sleep on it'. meanwhile, i can't sleep, it's 4 in the morning, i cried myself to sleep, fell asleep for a few hours but then i woke up again. i just don't know what to do. what if he decides to stay with this girl? i know i'll get over it eventually, but this kid was like my best friend and i loved him in so many ways i became so emotionally attatched to him, could talk to him about ANYTHING. in the past few months he's become like my life. i know that sounds dumb but we talked every night, saw eachother like 3 times a week, texted every freaking second. i feel like my heart just got ripped out. i don't understand how he can like this girl he started liking a week ago more than me. what should i do? (link)
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You are not stupid for feeling like this, once you spend so much time with someone, it does feel as though they are your life (I feel the same with my guy currently, he's just my world), so never be ashamed by that. Also, you have every right to be upset because things were going so great at one time, and now he's just completely up and left for some random girl. Unfortunately, I don't think he was as invested as you were in this relationship or he got scared because he knew how much he cared for you and couldn't take it (that happened to me once before, as well).
I know that you can and will get through this, it's going to be difficult, but you'll make it. Believe me, there are plenty of guys out there just waiting for a girl like you to come by. They'll treat you as you deserve to be treated and much better than your ex did.
Best wishes - you're going to make, girl, you're strong!
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this is gross but my vagina smells sooo bad. like it just happened, it usually never smells but it has been and idk why, im not sexually active or anything...does anyone know why and what i can do to stop the odor? thankssss (link)
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More than likely, it's a yeast infection, however, I recommend seeing a doctor soon to find out exactly what it is so that you can get it taken care of.
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15/f
I really like this guy i sit next to in one of my classes. i talk to him all the time during class and we have a good time. I want to let him know how i feel about him cuz i really do like him alot. I had an idea..1. i tell the other guy i sit next too to "causually" tell him that i like him when i leave class early ( i leave 5 minutes early everyday). is that a good idea or know? im way to shy to tell him myself. i hate making the first move. Another question is he asked me if im going out with this guy brian because he saw us walking together. but the fact that he asked me tht...does it mean anything? HELP!! (link)
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This should help you out. =]
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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what are some things I could use at home for a facial mask? Anything you've used or made please share with me :] thanks (link)
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Here are some links for you. =]
http://womentodaymagazine.com/beauty/facial.html
http://beauty.about.com/od/skinflaws/ht/basicfacial.htm
http://www.hgtv.com/ah-personal-care-other/home-facials/index.html
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A44033-2004Nov11.html
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okay so I have this guy and we just talked for like two days and we just clicked and I mean literally. we have a whole lot in common.I can tell him anything. he's my best friend already:) and I like him more than that but I'm not gonna tell him yet. and when we talk,it seem like he like me too. but I don't know. we talk to each other for about 3-5 hours a day and we talk even when we wake up in the morning before going school:D.how cute is that? I like him a lot but how do I know if he like me too?and he has a girlfriend :(. and he wants to take classes with me ,sleep when I sleep, and sit next to each other all the time. but how do I know if he like me eventhough he had a girlfriend? (link)
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This should help you out. =]
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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