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How do we let her done easily?
Ok so there is this girl at my high school that NOBODY likes. She's obnoxious, rude, full of herself, and mean! She doesnt have many friends so one day she was sitting alone and she asked to sit at our table at lunch. And being a nice person, I said Yes!! She is being extremely rude, annoying, etc. So me and two other girls decided that this was enough and we left the table. I really want to sit with my other friends at the lunch table, but we dont know how to get this girl to leave without being so mean. What should i do?
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Meh.
There are two ways to be nice.
You can choose to try to lie to her, coddle her, and let her think that its ok for her to be the way she is.
Or you can be honest with her. Tell her politely that she was rude to you after she asked to eat with you and that you don't want to sit next to someone who you don't know who is going to be rude to you.
Truthfully, I think blatant honest rejection helps these kinds of personalities. Don't be mean, don't call her names, just let her know that you don't want to associate with someone who treats people like she does.
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I think you should have a talk with her, one-on-one so you don't embarrass her, and let her know how you and your friends are feeling (or just your point of view, whichever you prefer). She may not even realize how mean she really is, and by letting her know how you're feeling, she'll definitely understand how she's making others feel and if she wants to have friends - she's going to have to be at least semi-nice, or be friends with bitches, haha.
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