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how do i dump my boyfriend Ok. theres this guy i'm crazy over, i like him so much but he does stuff i'm not into like smoking and drugs. i know i should dump him becase hes a jerk to other people and stuff..but i just cant bring myself to do it, if i do it i'll be miserable for a long long time and i wont be able to focus on anything else exept thinking about him...any advice?
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I know how you feel, I was in a relationship for 5 years and dumped my last.
First, Realize he is not good for you. You deserve better than that. Start focusing on you and you're wishes for a better future.
Sometimes you need to be upfront and honest however, There are many ways to go about it. You can be straight foward and just say "Hey this isn't working out, I'm not happy with the relationship and I think it might be best we both go our seperate ways." or maybe just sit down and talk to him about his bad habits and say you are fed up with what he does/doing and then drop the hot potato! ;)
Anything eles feel free to ask!
BahaiMa22 ]
I suggest talking to your boyfriend and letting him know you feel about his smoking and doing drugs. You can see how he reacts and if he plans to do anything about his bad habits.
If I were you, I wouldn't invest too much in this relationship, just because there may be some trouble down the road for you if you continue being with him. However, this is only my opinion and I urge you to do what you feel is best. ]
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