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Hey. 13/f. So I went to a school dance and many guys were being kinda rude to me.(ok fat guys grinding the hell outta meand my friend.) I met a guy who took me away from those guys and like saved me. he told me i was really pretty, we should text, and he couldnt wait to see me again some other time. Weve been texting alot and hes really great. he says the same bout me and how good i look. we r going to c a movie soon and he wants to kiss me. from this info, is this relationship gunna work out? THANKS
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There is never a forsure sign that things will work out. You can only go from day to day. This guy sounds like he is a really good guy and wants the best for you. He sounds like he is really interested in you and really likes you,. If you like this guy you should go for it and see how it goes.
I wish you the best.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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What would you say to someone about how you feel about your bestfriend dieing? (link)
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You are prob going through alot right now,. I know because when i was in elementary school my best friend died,. and to this day i think about her alot.
You want to be open to who ever your talking to,. But only to what your comfortable talking about. This won't be easy to heal fromm,. and you probably will think of her often,. You should try and be happy for the times that you had,. and remember them often. And know that even though she is not right there and you can't see her/him or physically talk to them,. know that your best friend will always be there for you,. looking out for you. and even thought they may not be able to reply to you,. they will be able to hear you when you say they miss them.
Missing them is a sign that they were an important part of your life. They have helped shape and form you to who you are today.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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please tell me how can i end my life in 5 minutes and make it sure to die...please help me, please help me. I left 2 jobs , now not getting a single and i was hurted so much by two girls, one hates me i forgot her but 2nd one likes me but her family does not want her to talk with me, so i wana die,,,help me please...
please send me email at: rabfriends2008@rediffmail.com
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First off no one is going to advice you in how to end your life. THey will only try to help you andmake you realize that just because your hurting is no reason to end it. Just because the girl you llike her parents won't let you see her is no reason to die,. you have so much to live for! You have the rest of your life to meet new and better girls who will change your life in more than one way.
Please don't do this.
J.
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I decided to give my ex another chance. We dated for 3 years and of course I still have feelings for him. Plus he was the guy I lost my virginity too, and the only person I've ever been with. He hurt me by saying it's not going to work since he's leaving again for the military. I just don't understand why he would pretend he still had feelings for me, just to toss me to the side again. I'm heartbroken, and I feel like a fool for letting my feelings get involved again. I've been doing great in all my classes, and six months later he calls and wants to hang out and puts all these lies into my head. I don't know what to do... Please help me?
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I think everyone deserves a second chance. And three years is a very long time to be with one person. Especially if they were your first for many things. (Same way for me too) But You guys broke up for a reason. I don't think he lied to you about the feelings. I think he likes you but Because of how strict the military is and How hard it is to be in that well trying to connect with you is very difficult. He might have told you it's better to not date because of how hard it will be,. I know Your hurting and broken,. but you will find someone elsse. Your not a fool for following your feelings. you two were together for 3 years so it is only natural that you would want that back,. and that those feelings are so strong as they are,.
As far as hanging out with him again,. Are you at the point that you can just be friends,. That those old feelings won't affect what goes on right now,. |Maybe you need more time to make sure your over him,. before seeing him again.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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we are having a blast from the past dance and i've decided to dress from the 50's and I wanted to know what people in the 50's wore? what should I wear. I know they wore poodle skirts but everybody is probally going to wear poodle skirts and I want to be different.
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Deepending how much you want to spend,. Sears has those old shows the black and white ones in a heel style
They kind of look like this one but more black in the middle,. and smaller heel
http://www.starletsandharlets.com/v/vspfiles/photos/INDULGE-542-2T.jpg
Here are a few Clothing pictures that are a good idea to try out
http://www.craftster.org/pictures/data/500/medium/85542_vintage-50s-red-polka-dot-full-skirt-dress.jpg
http://www.dollydagger.co.uk/prodimages/blkwhtpolkawithdetail300.jpg
Also Try looking on this vintage site i found
http://www.bluevelvetvintage.com/
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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ok, so i wanna know if this guy likes me (i like him too) here is how we "flirt"
~we put our hands on each others thighs and we dont mind
~we always hug like were going out (he comes up from behind me and hugs my waist)
~i told my friends (he was also there) that if you make a little heart with another person (with your fingers) and it comes out cute, then your meant to be! then, he did it with me and everyone said it was cute!
~Tons of people asked us if we were dating.
~he ALWAYS insists on sitting next to me
~ i had to go somewhere and he was leaving so i grabbed his arm so he could stay with me and he laced our fingers together and we held hands for like 2 min and it wasnt ackward or anything!
So yea, hope you guys can answer this ASAP! lol thnx(: (link)
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It seems to me like this guy does infact really like you,. but guys can be very confusing,. the best thing you can do is talk to him,. ask him how he feels and about maybe taking it to the next level which would be dating. By the way it is not a bad thing for girls to ask guys to start dating. It shows your interested about him and you beinng together.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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A few years ago I got married blah blah yeah. Well let me get straight to the point. In the mothers name area of the marriage license/certificate thing, I put the wrong name of my mother. It is not her real name that I put down (by accident) and I was wondering if it would still be valid. I'm not to worried about having to get remarried to this male as we are no longer together, but it is something I would like to know this way I can figure it out and see what all needs to be done with divorce or possible name change. The state that we married in was Iowa state. (link)
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I wasn't sure,. so i asked my mother what she thought about it,. She said you would have to search under state laws to see what the regulations for this would be wiether it be valid or not valid and wiether a divorce is necessary in your case.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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i been applyin like crazy everyday and so far no one has called me for interviews and i have the expirence they are looking for but i cant get hired is there jobs im not aware of that i can apply at or what i need help (link)
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It depends what area you live in. Right now is a very hard time to get hired by anyone. Alot of my friends are in the same situation,. where they are applying like crazy and no calls back. You will get a call back but it might take some time.
Hang in there and keep applying,. You will get something soon.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I'm 18 years old and 35 weeks pregnant. I've been trying to quit smoking my whole pregnancy but i throw up for days everytime i try and winde up starting again. I love my baby girl and im so scared she's going to have asthma or need to be on a machine after she's born. I'm so ashamed of myself but i have no idea what to do. Any advice on how to quit? And any info on what can happen since ive been smoking? (link)
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Advice from an ex's sister whom was pregenant.
*If you quit smoking well in pregnancy it can actually Harm the baby more than help it.*
I would suggest slowing down how much you smoke,.
But not necessarly quiting all together.
My ex's sister smoked all through out her pregnancy and the baby is completely healthy.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine!*
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Hello, I have a problem that I hope you can help me with. I have been going out with my gf for about 2-3 months and well I'm just not feeling it. We met on a trip I took to equador, same tour group, and it may have just been the glamour of the country that made me feel for her. Sometimes I enjoy her company but I have looked at her and said "I am not attracted to this girl" not just physically but I am not feeling a connection. The problem is that we have made plans for an event in a month or two so I wouldnt be able to break up with her. Plus I am not even sure if that is what I want to do. Everyone and I mean EVERYONE has been commenting on how great she is and how sweat we are and on and on in that manner so there is alot of pressure. So I guess what I am asking is, should I give it more time? I have not been in many relationships...is this just a normal "slow down" thing that happens? (link)
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You pretty much just answered your own question..
You said I'm not attracted to this girl., I enjoy her company but there's no connection left.
Sometimes that happens to people. It's not a bad thing. but even thought you two have planned an even in a month. is it really worth staying with someone that your not attracted to that you don't really like,. but see more as a friend. it will hurt her i'm sure,. but You should not lead this person on if you don't feel the same.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Does anyone know where to buy Bordello Shoes, in stores, NOT online? I live in FL.
Thank you to anyone who answers! :) (link)
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I searched google and this is what i came up with
http://www.yelp.com/biz/veronicas-dollhouse-boutique-south-miami
sorry i couldn't find more,.
Hope this helps thought:)
~Jasmine*
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Hi there,
I understand what you are saying. What about: "mslovely22" Who does that account belong to?
You should be aware that as far as anyone on this end can tell, all three accounts are being operated by one person. I am not saying that is what is happening, I am saying that if someone on your IP does something really bad in their account, all three accounts go away automatically.
So, if there are three of you, or one of you has two accounts, that is fine... just watch out for each other, and if someone in your group gets out of line, YOU be the one to file the abuse report, so that your account isn't also removed.
Make sense?
So how about that "mslovely22" account? An old account of your own, someone else you had over to your house?
Thanks for getting this cleared up.
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That was an old account from years ago,. forgot the password,. and the e-mail associated with that account was deleted before i came back as I had change of It is against policy to make multiple accounts,. and i am very sorry for this inconvenience,. I will not be making any other accounts as I only work from Jasmine23. mslovely is unaccessable to me.
I'm really sorry.,
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Hi there,
On of teh mods pointed out today that there are three accounts which have all been accessed through your computer.
Could you explain why this is happening?
This is the question that brought this information to light:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=593776
Thank you,
DN.
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Well Rainforever is my friend she was on her laptop and i on mine,. but we were using the same network? Could that be it??
That is two of us.. but we were adviceing at the same time?? could that explain it? just me and rainforever... not sure about a third one though??
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I was wondering if it was at all possible to pop my own cherry. I really dislike blood and i don't want to take a chance in bleeding exuberantly when i lose my viginity. Can someone please tell em how to lose my viginity.
Note: i have tried a tampon and a banana and it doesn't really work. so any other ways would be great (link)
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First of all 'Popping your cherry' is just a way of say it. it's not actually like that. AND DO NOT STICK A CANDLE UP YOU!! This person does not know what they are talking about.
Poping your cherry is when you have sex and you rip your Vulva,. It's a peice of skin. SO there is no actuall cherry to pop. Your vulva can rip many times and still bleed.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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I'm horny what do I do (link)
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Don't Check your Junk Mail.. Those ARe Virus' and Spam that will damage your computer. Depending if your a guy or girl,. You can always masterbate to magazines or online sites. Just becareful that they are safe online sites that don't contain any viruses as alot of them do.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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okay, so im 16/f, my bf/15 of over seven months just broke up with me. he broke up with me a week before my birthday(which was like 4 days ago, and ill be 17) through a text message in my first period class. i had wanted to break up with him before like 4 times but stuck it through bc he begged me, i didnt want to hurt him, and i wanted to work it out as well. SO i begged him not to break up with me, i asked him to give it a week and if he felt the same then i would break up with him. he gave it over night. i gave him four chances and he didnt even give me one. he's such a jerk. it was hard on me, i cried the whole week. well, now im mad. so ive got a mission to make him want me. im going to make him miss me and beg to get back together so that i can say 'im sorry, you broke up with me. i just cant do that.' phase one of the mission is complete:aka:knowing he actually cares. i deleted all pics of us on facebook, put a status that said had a great day and cant wait for the weekend up (so itll make him wonder) and today i sat at lunch with a hot guy (my ex and i have the same lunch together at school...and the hot guy is just a friend) well the hot guy knows the situation(he has a gf) and will talk and touch my shoulder or something to provoke my ex if hes looking. well it worked! at lunch my ex kept walking up and down the lunchroom, he pretended to pay for extra lunch, kept looking at us the whole time. it was GREAT. now i dont know what im supposed to do. do i keep doing what im doing now? do something different? and if i do something different, what would that be and when am i supposed to do it? how do i make him want to talk to me? (because we havent spoken since the breakup and im giving him the space he wants so im just going to wait for him to make the first move). what do i do next? PLEASE help me, as MANY suggestions as possible, good advice, i need it. and i WILL Rate :) (link)
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First off,. sorry to be blunt. But are you really that much of a bitch? I'm not usually this mean BUT please just read this and then do what you want with it.
Secondly You gave him chances because you thought you two could work it out. You didn't give him one chance, not two or three. But Four Chances. Don't you think that's a little much. You obviously were seeing some problems in the relationship in all four times that made you want to get out of the relationship.
Thirdly.
I completely understand the whole making him jealous,. and making him want you back but! Don't you want him to want you for who you are. and all the things about you that are amazing.
Now by pretending to flirt with this Friend of yours (WHO HAS A GF!) might work but Could completely back fire on you. For you are flirting with a hot guy what a few days after you broke up.. Showing him that you really don't give a f*#k. Well That will just make him hate you more.
And what if this got back you your friends girlfriend how do you think you would feel if you were in the gf's position.
Making him jealous just to say I'm sorry you broke my heart and have a nice life is extremely cold. I know he hurt you and The fact he DIDN't give you a chance because he didn't see it going anywhere is not either of you guys' faults. sometimes things just don't work.
move on. Forget about him. KArma WILL Get him in the long run. Trust me on that one.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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one of my stupid friends told him i liked him and then he texted me and told me he liked me to but the next day i found out he had a girlfriend and now we dont really talk and thats the reason i didnt want him to know because i thought it would mess up r friend ship i think i should just try to move on (in a way i dont want to)but my friends think i should wait to c if him and his girl friend break up what should i do (link)
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For starters you have to remember that he is taken. And He may like you but he is still with her. And You don't want to be with someone who Plays the field when he is in a relationship. It just puts up big red flags! I would wait to see if he actually does leave his girlfriend. Because he may just be saying that to see what you say.
Hope this helps:)
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im 18 years old, a guy, bout to graduate HS.
Anyways, i know its hard to understand, but my ex is a freshman and also a cheerleader, and she recently broke it off with me.
She said she wanted to be single and "experience" AND even though she kinda broke my heart, i still care for her. Every goddamn thing reminds me of her, driving, things around my house, things around school, everything. and i cant stop thinking about her.
But the thing is, she is kinda super hot and has alot of friends, and im worried that throughout high school she might turn into a slut, like one who goes to parties and drninks and hooks up with random guys. Even though i was her first kiss, she is innocent right now. But im wondering, is there a chance she might become a total slut ? and it worries me, because i still care for her.... for some reason and i know it is weird, i know, but it bothers me so much that i literally wanna force myself to erase her from my life so that i wont have to worry about her becoming a bad person. Help me? (link)
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First of all. I know where your comming from with the whole,. I can't stop thinking about her and how everything reminds you of her. I've been there and the hurt is not going to go away in a few days or a few weeks. It will last a while.
And i'm sorry to say that only time wil heal that.
As far as the slut thing goes,. No one can tell what will happen as she goes through highschool.
Just because she is very hot and very popular does not mean that she won't have integraty to respect herself as a person and not an object to screw.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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Hi,Im a 5th grader going on 6th and I think I heard this girl in my grade level is likley pregnant (i think 2 months already) so is it true average 5th grader girls get pregnant?? :0 (link)
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If you start getting your period,. Then Tecnically your body Is possible of creating and holding a baby. But it is a very emotional,. and mentally you ARE NOT READY. It is not something you want to do till your older.:P
Hope This helps:)
~Jasmine*
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So theirs this guy who ive been talking to since march 2, (im not a stalker i just remeber the day)i really like him and when we see each other at school we hug, he tells me i look beautiful and abunch of other sweet things. i really like him and when we text he calles me baby/babe. if were not together than please give me some ideas to like hint that i want him to ask me out, im 13 and hes 13 to, hes a pretty boy, so hes like a majer player please help!
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You could just ask him out. It's not a big deal for girls to ask guys out. It's actually kind of cute. It shows your really interested,. Worst case is that he says no. But from what you've told me. He seems pretty into you. or if you just want to hint at him you could try huging himm for a bit longer than a hug would usually be. More like an embrace. Try holding his hand in the hallway? Cute things like that,. that shows him you want to be more than just friends.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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